2006-09-20 06:21:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
For one, stop letting guys pick you.. The ones you don't need, are the one's that approach you first. And as far as friends, either make more guide lines, or make new friends. My mother always told me, " if your lucky, you will make at least two real friends in a lifetime".
2006-09-20 06:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by RDark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have self-esteem issues. Do you feel that unless you cater to other people's needs, they would not want to hang out with you? You have to learn to believe that your worth isn't directly related to how accomodating you are to others. Being supportive towards your friends is part of being a friend - but maintaining your own personal space is part of being a healthy individual. Try to push back in situations where you recognize you're being "used". You might lose a few "friends", but in the long run you'll be better off.
2006-09-20 06:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will only respect you as much as you respect yourself.
Take all that time you spend on people that are users and use it on yourself! Work out, start a hobby, learn something. Trust me, spending time on yourself is the best thing you can do for your friends. Sounds wierd but I promise it's true.
2006-09-20 06:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NT put your self in a position to be used no more. LIKE if they want to borrow money, your fresh out. IF they want you to go here or there and you dont feel like it, dont go.JUST put your foot down. BUT when you do you may lose all Thies so called friends that use you so braces your self. TRUST ME THERE Are better people out there. good luck star
2006-09-20 06:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to say NO, or I don't have the time. Either way you need to look at your time and see what is there for you and take that time for yourself, even if its just browsing a magazine or going for a walk, for an hour or two, your relaxation time or period is your time for YOU.
2006-09-20 06:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by WOODSAK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get aggressive in what you are giving out, put limits out there for yourself and the people you choose to befriend.
2006-09-20 06:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with better people and don't give of yourself until your sure of who you are dealing with. Learn to say no and sorry but I can't help you.
2006-09-20 06:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are giving more than you are getting. Ask for more. Tell people it is 2 way, or no way.
2006-09-20 06:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop coming off like a whimp and they wont treat you like one
2006-09-20 06:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by chinagirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stand for you self and Drew the line,be strong,
2006-09-20 06:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by ed46324 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋