2006-09-20 06:31:42 · 9 answers · asked by aahamed24 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you're single and looking for a life long mate?
Start by looking for someone who shares your same life motivation and goals.
If you're a religious person, that shapes your life, find soeone who shares that. If you're career driven, find someone who compliments that.
And then dont play the dating game. Know what you're looking for, meet people and make sure everyone know that you're looking for mr/mrs right-for-you, not just dating around. That will help you to weed through the daters, and find the people looking for something long term.
As far as just attracting the opposite sex, be what the opposite sex is not.
Men are hard and beastly and driven, they want women who are mysterious, soft, and womanly. Its the other way around for what women want in men.
Women are naturally insecure, they want men who are confident and can treat them like godesses.
Either way, confidence is how you attract the opposite sex. its 99% confidence, 1% looks.
2006-09-20 06:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideally, and in my humble opinion, it would be to present yourself as you really are. In other words, no airs or false impressions for the sake of attracting/catching a mate should be involved. This is of course different then putting one’s best foot forward, but even under this scenario there should always be the element of realism involved.
Treat him/her as you’d expect to be treated. Show the same consideration and honesty as you’d appreciate receiving from anyone, regardless of the nature of the relationship. Be open-minded and ready to explore and exchange ideas and desires through open lines of communication, for starters as it were. Perhaps most of all, be ready to embark on a journey towards a committed relationship based in trust and honesty, with an expectation of said relationship becoming a healthy and nurturing two way street.
Good luck!
2006-09-20 13:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by frisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as an 'ideal way' to attract anyone, since everyone is different. Be yourself.
2006-09-20 13:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by choko_canyon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the old Donkey Punch, or Pink Sock, or Tony Danza, or give her the old Cleveland Steamer. She'll love you then!
2006-09-20 13:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by TexasLSUTiger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By becoming a friend first.
2006-09-20 13:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by NATIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself out there exactly as you are,no pretense.
2006-09-20 13:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by thirsty mind 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and drop you expectations.
He/She'll come when it's meant to be.
2006-09-20 13:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by xcutiejessx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...everyone's different
2006-09-20 13:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by Hex W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get them drunk
2006-09-20 13:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by A. K. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋