2006-09-20 06:30:08 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of men find my attractive but it seems that they are all just interested in sleeping with me. But I want more than just sex.
2006-09-20 06:32:29 · update #1
Men will treat you as respectfully as you treat yourself. If you dress like a tramp, they will treat you like one. If you met men in bars, they will treat you like a bar fly.
Try meeting men through a volunteer group or social club of some sort. Don't be ditsy and flirty to try to get their attention. Act like a mature, sophisticated woman, and they will treat you like one.
2006-09-20 06:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, you have to have something about you besides your body for the men to like, educate yourself, become interested in sports. Have something interesting to say and be funny, most attractive women don't have those abilities --they think they do, but usually they don't. If you offer something more than your body the guys will pick up on that.
2006-09-20 06:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I means you are a beautiful lady. First make your Carrier. When you are self sufficient there are less chances to be cheated. Do not jump in the relationship. Show your interest in the person you like, spent time talking regarding your favourite subjects and see if that person can stay to your topic or he wants to change it to sex or romance.
Good luck lady
2006-09-20 06:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by baniban2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a slut. Don't worry about it. Why do you want a guy around all the time anyway. We stink, fart, are hairy and loud. Just keep us around for oral and sex when you need it and let us go. Remember sluts attract sluts - and you are one of us. Give in, come over to the dark side.
Just kidding - honestly, just look for guys who have a higher level of education. College preferably. They know how to treat a woman and how not to just want sex, but want a relationship.
2006-09-20 06:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by TexasLSUTiger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't want guys to like you just for someone to have sex with my best advice would be to stop having sex with guys that you like. maybe wait until 2 or 3 months go by before you decide to have sex.
2006-09-20 06:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by 31flavors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not your what? Your looks or shape of your body? If a man doesn't like you for you then ya don't want him anyway. A real mature man will come along that isn't shallow. btw the chick that just keeps putting a X when she answers is lame.
2006-09-20 06:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by jojoladay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just act normal and don't go to bars to meet men.
Go to coffee shops, shopping,etc... Places were well educated people hang out and then (and only then) will you find the man that will like you for you.
2006-09-20 06:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by xcutiejessx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show ur brain and don't try to impress others. behave normal and act professional. Say NO whenever reqd. and say yes rarely. Men like difficult gals and USE & THROW EASY GALS.
2006-09-20 06:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens to me all the time... Just forget about them. Accpt the compliments but draw the line when it starts to get a lil bit out of hand. That's what I do, if he doesnt like it, he can stop alking to me...
2006-09-20 06:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by Cubanita 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your.....body? try not to flaunt it too much. I know girl, you gotta smokin body you wanna show it off, but if you want a man that will want you AND your body, not just the body, then you gotta make sacrafices. After you find a good one, then go back to showing it off!
2006-09-20 06:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by Ash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋