my wife and i have ben seoarated for almost a yr now .the only time she would call me is when she need cash.and when i ask here about the guy's se hanging out with she would lie and say that are just friend . but she just called me to talk to me. and that she was thinking on moving back in with me .but she still with this guy that she said was just a friend.but thay owen a car to getter.and she with him all the time . is she playing a game with me or what. i need to know because im trying to get my life back and to start dateing agian .is it because she don't want me to have a new life. what sould i do . she lie's to me all the time
2006-09-20 05:26:29 · 15 answers · asked by bluehair_79 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
something good.
2006-09-20 05:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by revolou 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can't get on here and make a coherent sentence, why in the hell do you expect to have a meaningful relationship with your wife. Ever heard of good communication? Brother, you don't be havin' it.
To answer your question: She's playing you for the fool. Wake up and see the sunshine. It's blinding you.
2006-09-20 05:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by michaelks63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing you for the biggest fool of the centure my friend. She wants her cake and expects to eat it too.
Tell her to go eat this, (*)....and continue on with your life. She's so not worth your time and energy.
Re-start your life, go out and date, have some fun, and eventually find someone that actually has a heart and some ethics they actually live by. I just got rid of some creature that is essentially that.....no ethics, bossy, egotistical hell-pig. I have someone else now and she's nice and kind and has some morals and compassion. Go and do the same, and best of luck and life to you.
2006-09-20 06:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is forget about her. It ended up in a divorce for a reason. Don't try so hard to make it work out. I wouldnt trust someone that is always lying to me. Play the field a little bit. It feels good, trust me. You might feel really lonely at first, but you'll eventually get over it.
2006-09-20 05:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by versusxmyself 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she's treating u like a gofer. U need to get on with ur life, if she wanted u, u guys would of not been separated, take a hint. She's with another guy. she wants to keep u wrap round her finger, if it doesn't work out with the other guy she can come back to u until another loser comes along. GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE. She's no good to you or for you.
2006-09-20 05:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even get back with her, she is looking for some dependency and will screw around on you again. Give her the cold shoulder and move on with your life. No one needs all that drama
2006-09-20 05:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds pretty manipulative and insecure. Some women think it is their right to have everything given to them and not be accountable for anything. She has some growing up to do. Find yourself a more mature woman.
2006-09-20 05:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first.
1. Turn on your computer's spell check
2. What does she have to do with you getting your life back together.
3. Don't start dating anyone until you get yourself together. No sense dragging someone else into that mess you've created.
2006-09-20 05:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by sleepingbeauty123 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes...she's playing a game...and you.
No...don't let her move back in with you ...ever
AND MOST IMPORTANTLY?...get a DIVORCE..."separated" really means nothing legally anymore. Get a divorce...right away and get her OUT of your life completely...THEN start dating again.
Good luck to you.
2006-09-20 05:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't fall for that. If you know she is lieing to you why are you still involved with her. Just dump her, move on and save your money
2006-09-20 05:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by ajaramill0711 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get in with your life because if she is asking for money, then she is trying to suck you dry with money. Just get on with your life with another woman.
2006-09-20 05:32:59 · answer #11 · answered by lokalangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋