2006-09-20 05:31:20 · 22 answers · asked by parkdad73 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NAG CAUSE NAG IS RIGHT.. NAG NAG NAG.... U NAG
2006-09-20 05:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by TANNER GIRL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People nag because they are not connecting... if one person asks the other something once....that is not nagging...if they rephrase it it is not nagging...if they repeat themselves then that is nagging...if people knew the communication skills it took to prevent this...this nagging would not be present at all. Men and women nag, sometimes out of habit...but mostly because they did not get the response they needed to let it go...the trick is to truly know the person to be able to give them the answer they are looking for...most people are too lazy and not interested in learning their mates love language...There would be a great deal
of happiness in marriages today if we all learned each others love languages. For instance women and men differ, just as do species ...yes that great of a difference. ...So if we are to marry
the opposite gender and understand them truly to be like a dog and a cat to marry....then each would give the other more room for what they are...woman and man...as all marriages should be between a men and a women...once the room is given then
the judgmental attitude goes away, and the heart warms and then the tongue rests...and love is made! Marriage is a great gift from God...who has given you the JOB to manage this marriage
Jesus is your example, and you must give it your all...get outside help if you need it...good Christian Counseling is always nearby!
2006-09-20 12:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think communication is a matter of timing. What would usually be fine to tlak about is nagging when you you are tired, hungry, or frustrated.
Set aside a time for talking about issues, and the rest of the time so not talk about issues.
Neither came first. Men listen differently and talk differently than women. Most men want solutions, most women, just to vent and have intimacy with conversation.
2006-09-20 12:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Etain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been trying to figure this one out for 22 years, of course its the vicious cycle, quit nagging and I will listen and listen and I will quit nagging! After all these years i've decided that nagging is just a woman thing and not listening is a man thing. its easier to tell myself that than to keep up the fight!lol
2006-09-20 12:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women (nagging) as u put it is usually a sign they feel they r not being heard or taken seriously. Could also be they dont feel safe with the situation they r in. Afterr all women like to be heard the same as any man. Pay attention and resolve the situation,and most likely the (looking to be heard) will go away Good luck Curious 2006
2006-09-20 12:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think women nag because men don't listen. but not all men do that.
Well, men think differntly than women...since women are more domestic and motherly. Men could care less about their surrondings. If you nag them, then they don't hear anything at all. the best way to get a man's attention is to make a list and tell him that he needs to do those things.
2006-09-20 14:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question it's the chicken-egg theory. well i think it varies...sometimes we nag because we are in a bad mood or because we have been thinking of some bullshyt that our guy has done days ago...then you don't wanna listen because it's an irritating turnoff. then you may automatically assume that we are gonna nag you every time and tune out. not sure about this one...the next time i nag my man i will figure out the answer.
2006-09-20 12:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by KodeNmKidzNxtDoor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has to be the nagging that came first ........ I mean some of the unimportant stuff women come up with to nag about is so ridiculous you cant help but ignore it ............ and for the record woman can be the worst at not listening , some of them just dont get it .................
2006-09-20 12:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't listen. I am not saying this because I am a girl I am saying it from experience!
Example, "Babe can you clean up a little, I have a late meeting tonight?" Babe, "OK" Me, "Thanks, Love you bye!"
Get home it wasn't done. I let him know that it bothers me but don't make a big deal. Then it happens a couple of more times.
How do you NOT expect us to nag!!!!!!!!
Men don't listen that's why we nag!
2006-09-20 12:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all starts with the man not listening. Then the nagging follows, when its going on so much that you dont know which one started then maybe the relationship needs to end!
2006-09-20 12:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I only nag when I get no response at all...that makes me nuts, not a grunt or even a **** off....I wonder if I'm being heard so I keep going unitl I can tell you ARE breathing and can hear what I just said to you.
2006-09-20 12:37:59 · answer #11 · answered by sasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋