I have an ex boyfriend who I broke up about two months ago. We had a very serious relationship and even lived together for a year. About two weeks ago, he has asked me to get back with him saying that he was still deeply in love with me. So, I decided to give it a chance with him but told him that I was not ready to get back into really serious relationship. Although we agreed on being exclusive, we decided to take it slow and just date for while. Last night, I went to dinner with him and after we ate, he wanted to come up to my room. I said I was not ready and wanted to wait until next time. He got upset. Then, a hour later I found two ads written by him on Craig's List: one was in casual encounter section, one for men looking for women (he was looking for someone to actually date in this one). I talked to him this morning and he still claims that he loves me and wants me to be his girlfriend. SHould I confront him about the ads? or should I just ignore the fact and let it go?
2006-09-20 04:51:35 · 5 answers · asked by lalala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The ads were posted last night. SO this is after we decided to see each other again. I thought about sending fake emails but I just dont feel like doing it.
2006-09-20 05:06:27 · update #1
ooh hunnie, get rid of him, if hes going to try to have some one else on the back burner in case you dont work out, it means he doesnt have that much faith in your relationship to start with.....i really think you need to cut that one off completely
2006-09-20 04:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by mary j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it casual, but keep an eye on the ad's. I would actually respond to them, set up an extra email account & act like you are an interested girl then meet up with him and bust him!
If he goes that far then you know he is a jerk & drop him!
CT
2006-09-20 11:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by lostintheclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When did he post the ads? Was it before you started to "date" again? If it was after than I would say to dump him. You don't want someone like that in your life.
You can do better and you will find someone else.
2006-09-20 11:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH!! Confront him make him feel dumb for not letting you know he may just be trying to get laid im glad you were smart enough to say no. Thats not fair he needs know what he wants and not for that momment but for ever.
2006-09-20 11:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have written those when you were broken up. I would keep him at a distance for awhile. Don't let him come up to your house until you are ready.
2006-09-20 11:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋