I broke up with my b/f of 3 mos a few weeks ago. He is not over his ex g/f but we still continue to talk on the phone and see each other. I know that he is very dishonest but I am still drawned to him. I am trying to date but he is very jealous... he makes me feel guilty. Also, I wonder if I would find someone else. I love Latin guys but I havd bad relationships... jealousy possesive but I am sprung. I also love Italian men but the same thing. Should I give up both or are there any good Latin Lovers and Italian Stallions?
2006-09-20 04:42:04 · 24 answers · asked by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-20 04:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Just a Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he is very dishonest then why are you still sprung on him, especially if you are wanting to move on with your life and find someone that will treat you better, then don't feel guilty, he is probably doing it because he wants to scare you and keep you from finding true happiness. If you find an Italian man that you like or a Latin one then go for it , It may not mean that they are all bad because they are not. I think the most important thing you should worry about is finding someone to make you happy and treat you well. I would leave this guy you just recently broke up with. He sounds as if he might cause trouble and you don't want that.
2006-09-20 04:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant sterotype latins and italians but if he makes you feel guilty about dating than maybe you shouldnt talk to him on the phone as much. After all, why should you feel guilty when he's the one still in love with his ex. Dont get back with him no matter how drawn to him. He is in the middle of somethin and you guys still being so close while he is going thru that is only causing more confusion for you.
2006-09-20 04:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant speak for the entire population of Latin/Italian men here - but I will say you need to cut all connection with your ex. You are drawn to him because you have a history - that's hard to let go. But if you already he's dishonest - stay away! And if he's jealous while you aren't even dating - that's a whole other problem. Stay away and find someone else.
2006-09-20 04:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by cfisher4234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve more than a possessive, jealous guy. The nature of some men is just to be that way. Your ex bf - nothing but trouble. If he wants you that bad to make you feel guilty then he needs to get over his ex gf and devote himself to you.
And for Latin and Italian men. I happen to love Latino men and have had a few nice relationships with them. They treated me good and they were very 'skilled'.
2006-09-20 04:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a smart girl . a guy that wants control is no good its a road to an abusive relationship .if you dont put a stpo to it right now ,you will be in a bad spot.there are plenty of men whom know how to treat a lady . just play the field and listen to those red flags that will pop up .
2006-09-20 04:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by bagattamama2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear, its like you have not made up your mind and not set your desired mission, do you want someone who you want to date for a relationship that can lead to marriage or what? from your comments, i think he has other plans for you so start looking for your mr right, and the latins or italalian guys,take your time to see what could happen, u're pretty and i dont see you having trouble with guys, i have a similar problem and if you can solve my problem, i'l be glad, my e mail is tunjioguns2002@yahoo.com
2006-09-20 04:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by teejay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a dic*head! But ur the stupid one cos ur continuing to talk to him after he treated u like crap and disrespected u. U say u are drawn to these guys well thats ur fault then....cos i know personally if i met a guy like any u described i would kick them to the curb as soon as i saw any of those traits. All races have their share of good and bad...maybe ur looking in the wrong places. Love urself and find someeone who respects u and treats u like a lady!!
2006-09-20 04:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try dating outside your box you might get a different result. yes these guys are hot to look at...but would you rather admire his looks or would you rather admire his qualities...like if he's loving, kind and sincere. He can still be good looking and have these qualities...Let him go...if he's still drooling over his last GF let him drool alone...No need for you to get hurt in the process....and to answer your second question no he's not going to be the last guy you'll ever love.
2006-09-20 04:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by Boo Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sassy i think u should just give him up .if he is still having relations with his ex ,he must not be over her too. also I'm sure he knows how you feel and he is just disrespecting u because you are all on his back like a book sack. if you stay away from him about 2weeks he will start feeling the same way you feel now . GIVE HIM HIS ******* SPACE!!!! (no disrespect )
NEW ORLEANS GIRL --PASSIONETTE
2006-09-20 04:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by passionette p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋