Family & Relationships - 19 September 2006

My live in boyfriend is mad at me cause I washed his wallet for like the fourth time, I told him when we moved in together I have one rule about laundry, I don't mind doing it but I don't do pockets. He was warned! He now is ticked off cause his wallet is wet because he said I'm "too lazy" to check the pockets...I say he's too lazy to empty them when he takes the damn pants off to begin with, I mean how hard is it for crying out loud?? I am seriously mad at him now cause he is acting like this is my fault. Should I stand my ground or give in and check his pockets?? I feel disrespected since I do ALL the housework, ALL the cooking, ALL the errands, ALL the shopping...I don't work and he does and I told him that I think he could check the pockets to save me some time to relax....he thinks because he works that I relax more than he does. On the weekend he just does nothing and I still have to cook and clean...I think he can do one thing to help me that I asked!

2006-09-19 13:31:44 · 16 answers · asked by Shae 3 in Family

theres this ninth grader who i like and i'm in seventh grade...he's cute and funny and nice.....most of the time.....today a kid in one of my classes found out that i like him and he started telling all his friends that i like him....including the kid that i like's younger brother.....is it weird to be scared of him....he always talks to me in the hall and i'm scared now!!

2006-09-19 13:31:35 · 3 answers · asked by bball_rox_lots 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 13:31:31 · 5 answers · asked by Andyr 2 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, if you noticed your friend's "Barn door" was open and his "horse" was visable, would you say something to him? And would you be embarassed or upset by it?

2006-09-19 13:30:14 · 21 answers · asked by calidzyner 1 in Friends

What is your opinion of a wedding theme such as a black and white affair?

2006-09-19 13:30:13 · 17 answers · asked by luckee137 2 in Weddings

We've 'dated' with an online relationship for a year, we are in our late 30's. He's moving here and going to look for a job and visa sponsorship (he has a lead on that already). Anyone have experience with this type of relationship? I'm worried about him having to go back to his country and us getting weary of the immigration process in the states ( I live in Texas).

2006-09-19 13:29:44 · 4 answers · asked by curiosity 3 in Singles & Dating

ok i am 21...used to the assholes and games and college frat beer chugging guys. All of my guy friends are like that and I have never known otherwise. I am not dating this older guy who has a career a house everything...and just achieved all of this so this is why he is just now seeking a relationship. he is amazing and sweet and does all of these things for me. some of the things i find kind of cheesey b/c i don't know of guys my age doing that for girls my age. he treats me to everthing takes me to fancy dinners brings me coffee or food while i am studying....and tells me exactly how he feels about me. is he so genuine and sweet however sometimes i my 21 yr old self comes out and is like why is this guy doing all of this for me?! i can't help but think this is all kind of corny and hokey. am i feeling this way bc i am so young. is this what people in their late 20's do for girls they like?i have always wanted a guy like this but i am freaked out bc i know this will be serious

2006-09-19 13:29:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 13:29:03 · 2 answers · asked by iktomi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 53 years old Asian woman with 3 kids. It is not that easy to find anyone. I am a fun loving person. I treat my kids like friends. I do not know if they like to share me with someone new.

2006-09-19 13:28:56 · 16 answers · asked by shiningstar2808 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I currently live w/ my sister and her three, soon to be four kids. I really need a place of my own. I recently found a roommate, w/ a house of her own, but I'd rather be by myself at this point in my life. My mom offered to let me stay w/ her in her house for free. She said I could save up until the end of the year, then get a good place of my own. Should I do it?

2006-09-19 13:28:46 · 6 answers · asked by decababe 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

He cheated on me, called me a liar when I said that I wasn't lying, said that he didn't know me and that if he did then he'd believe me...he know knows the truth and he hasn't apologised sowhy do I still love him? Why do I want him back? Why has he changed? Do I love the "old" him?

2006-09-19 13:28:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-19 13:28:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was hoping to make something for him> p.s. can't cook so an art project whould be good!

2006-09-19 13:28:02 · 9 answers · asked by Jenn 1 in Singles & Dating

Are black guys bigger than white guys down there or thay about the same?what more do u know?

2006-09-19 13:27:24 · 5 answers · asked by j g 1 in Singles & Dating

I was told that this guy liked me and decided to give him a chance. He never told me this himself. Everyone kept telling me he was shy.We just hung out a couple of times, he kissed me twice after we hung out one night and then apologized later saying that he hoped I wasn't mad, he even went out and got a tattoo that is similar to mine. I thought that was creepy. I let him stay the night after about 3 weeks. Now, he doesn't call. when I see him, he does speak to me a little. Sometimes gives me a hug. I asked him what was going on and he told me he doesn't know what he wants right now. So, am I a victim of being wanted for one thing or does he truly not know what he wants? I am about to give up on him and just be friends. I can't stop thinking about it.

2006-09-19 13:27:04 · 8 answers · asked by latricia 2 in Singles & Dating

Some people claim this has happened to them, but I'm not at all sure I believe them. I do believe, however, that you can easily disqualify somebody simply by corresponding with them. What do you think?

2006-09-19 13:26:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel that I need to know this, because I had met this guy who just recently stated that he has two wives in Jamaica. However, I find it very hard to believe him in spite of the rings on both of his hands that he was telling the truth, after doing some research about the Jamaican practices and culture. I know that it's supposed to be illegal in the U.S. to have two wives. Though not to say that some people don't break the law. Also it's hard for me to believe because he goes to church. I stay in Flint, MI. and I don't know of any churches that does that allows that type of thing. I' ve also looked for possible religions that may allow this, but I found nothing. So I need a very intelligent person who can help me out on this one, because I find it to be quite disturbing. Thank you all.

2006-09-19 13:26:31 · 9 answers · asked by Ms.Worry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you all men think right before your going to bed?I really want to know,Its that little information a girl like me can use later on in the future.

2006-09-19 13:25:51 · 27 answers · asked by sexy! 1 in Friends

about 2 years ago my grandmother kidnaped me when i was at a friends house, brought me back to her house and tryed to kill me. thank god for cell phones and i got the police to come and take me back home to my mother before i got hurt too bad. thing is i still wont speak to her and my mom wants me to forgive her. i dont see why i should when she tryed to kill me but my mom says that shes just crazy and its not her fault. should i talk to my grandmother again and pretend like nothing happend?

2006-09-19 13:25:44 · 17 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Family

My husband is constantly angry. I have made every excuse for him that I can....I would say that it is his job but he had yhe whole summer off and was still angry. I want to try counseling before I call it quits and I really wish things could change. What else can I do??

Also, should I yell back at him when he yells at me or just ignore him?

2006-09-19 13:25:06 · 15 answers · asked by zaeli22 3 in Marriage & Divorce

or could it mean somthing else

2006-09-19 13:24:36 · 16 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Was it justified?

2006-09-19 13:24:33 · 11 answers · asked by roskez13 5 in Friends

2006-09-19 13:24:03 · 8 answers · asked by miss_faithful_butterfly 1 in Friends

or could it mean somthing else

2006-09-19 13:23:54 · 8 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy I know I'm in love with is kind of confusing. Actually I'm confusing because I think I'm talking myself out of believing he loves me. Ok well beyond that, my friends say he is in love and hes said it to me and them but we've broken up since then. I know I love him because I've had a few boyfriends and plenty of crushes and nothing feels like me and him(no we havent had sex). I would like to know a few good ways to see if he loves me.

2006-09-19 13:23:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend left me after 8 years to "find herself". She says she needs independance and needs to learn to look after herself and make decisions for herself. She feels as though she doesnt know who she is anymore and needs to be happy in herself to be happy in the relationship. She assures me there is no one else and i believe her and this is really about her. She says she cant imagine been with anyone else but needs time away from the relationship. We still see each other once a week and she says each time she sees me she feels better about a future to our relationship but just wont committ to it right now. She wants to go overseas on a holiday with her friends early next year and says she cant be with me before that. We just bought a house together and she wants to keep that with me for now but just isnt ready to live there with me yet. Does this sound reasonable or not? I feel i can trust her 100% and i want to support her through this and show her I am a great guy for her.

2006-09-19 13:23:21 · 4 answers · asked by whitey 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

or could it mean somthing else

2006-09-19 13:23:18 · 5 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband has a job that takes him out of town sometimes 5 days at a time, leaving me to soley take care of our three young children,...maintaining the household etc. Oh by the way forgot to mention currently pregnant with our fourth child. We are in a new city where I have no family or friends or any sort of support system. Have asked him to look into other opportunities, he's closed minded to this.....WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-09-19 13:23:15 · 14 answers · asked by mtcmmommy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Yahoo violated me for using "silly" in an answer. Then Yahoo Cop Ginger wrote to tell me I might be terminated. Yikes, I've never been terminated before. Does it hurt? Where can I hide? Will they use handcuffs? Yikkers!

2006-09-19 13:21:37 · 2 answers · asked by roskez13 5 in Friends

it's an x-boyfriend that really did for me and my baby but he was really crazy in the head. Got mad over the crazest stuff. like not answering the phone on the first ring/ thinking i'm trying to talk to someone just cause someone spoke to me and i spoke back. and thinking he's the only person that i need to talk too on the phone

2006-09-19 13:20:39 · 5 answers · asked by peaches 2 in Singles & Dating