Family & Relationships - 18 September 2006

2006-09-18 08:29:30 · 13 answers · asked by lucylu x 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it safe to ejaculate inside when she has her period???

2006-09-18 08:29:16 · 17 answers · asked by bubblegum 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been married 16 years, I always find the need to be on the defense, when we disagree or discuss anything. We don't fight physically or disrespect each other. I just find myself being critical of him and always on the defense. Does anyone else do this?

2006-09-18 08:28:27 · 8 answers · asked by 7aliens 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I found a number in her cell phone and had asked her about it. The more I dug in, the more was revealed. She stated that it was with three different men in a six month period. It was nothing serious she stated. It was more of a night stand. I do love her, however her action is making me look at her differnt. Because of her actions, we are not as intiment as before. How will I get over this, can I get over this? I don't believe she will do it again because of a stronger communication. Please advise

2006-09-18 08:28:25 · 29 answers · asked by BISHOP 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 08:28:22 · 3 answers · asked by wife of Ali Pasha 3 in Singles & Dating

If I was to go out to a bar, store, laundry mat, is it better to get a girl to notice you if your wearing a nice button down shirt and slacks with dress shoes, or just a T-shirt, jeans and running shoes?

2006-09-18 08:27:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 16 yo guy and probably more mature than my years.... i'm not that bad looking... and I have yet to have a girl friend or even a kiss someone.... i tend to mask my feelings with girl by making jokes.... I'm not like others my age that just want to fool around... i want the be in a long term serious relationship but girls usually don't know this .... what's wrong with me and why can't I get a girlfriend!!! HELP!!!

2006-09-18 08:27:31 · 10 answers · asked by notTHATguy 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey people how to know if a girl(GF) really loves you or is just doing time-pass or using the boy(not talkin abt sex) just because she thinks she ought to have an bf.

I really don’t think her body language would tell anything OR her talk… because obviously she will talk sweet with the guy.

What you all say ?

2006-09-18 08:27:26 · 3 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you felt as though you'd lost yourself?
What steps would you take to find yourself again?

2006-09-18 08:27:06 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-18 08:27:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

in a woman !!

2006-09-18 08:27:04 · 27 answers · asked by hazilbabe 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 08:27:01 · 11 answers · asked by lori6500 1 in Friends

I like to talk about this topic.
you can also IM now if you are online in e_mahda in yahoo messanger..
good luck.

2006-09-18 08:26:41 · 4 answers · asked by runny 1 in Friends

my dad and i hav never gotton along...now he told me he wants me out of the house... i lived in kansas b4 we moved here to alberta 4 months ago. i want 2 move back there and in with one of my friends...can i do this without having to go to court or ne thing?

2006-09-18 08:26:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I find this highly irritating!

2006-09-18 08:25:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have been with my fiance for a year and a half. we have a great relationship and i have no complaints about him. but i tend to overly focus on his past. i do not understand why i do this, i just do. i keep asking questions about girls he dated and how far he went in the physical department with them, then i just feel hurt and angry with him after he tells me. its stupid, i know. he is tired of me asking so he doesnt answer me anymore, which i know is a good thing. i want to stop, i know this will be a terrible way to start a marriage. i trully love him with all my heart, but i cant get this stuff out of my head. how do i stop? i know everyone has a past and our relationship should not be determined by this, but i just dont know what to do. HELP!?!?

2006-09-18 08:24:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is an A** who never wants to see his kids. He pays child support, but gives me excuses when its time for his visitation. He says things like, "I dont want to waste the 5 bucks in gas to go get them". They are 5 and 7 and are very hurt by him. What should I do about this? Should I take him to court and have his visitation taken away? I have talked to him about it, and he simply doesnt care.

2006-09-18 08:24:13 · 13 answers · asked by Christy H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have trust issues because of me talking to another girl and her talking to another guy. I moved out for a while. I was ready to try and work things out before she was because I love her and know I screwed up. When she decided that she wanted to work things out I started staying over there but I have yet to move back in. Now she wants to go out with her two friends that she let stay over there while I was gone 5 to 6 nights a week. She will not throw away the letters from this guy she was talking to or delete his phone number from his phone. She say to just give her time but we have four kids and I dont want to put them through any more than they have to be. Should I wait and see what happens and give her a little time since trust is a big issue for us right now or should I tell her to get her **** straight? I have straightened out the problems I was causing our relationship.

2006-09-18 08:23:51 · 19 answers · asked by playenball 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 08:23:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 08:23:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have you ever accidently, or on purpose, ripped a big fart right in their face? And I'm not talkin about a queef either.

2006-09-18 08:22:53 · 5 answers · asked by skiddy buns 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this beautiful girl at my school, I have the feeling she likes me, or at least is not repulesd at the thought of me. (we had a good interaction) I know she has never been asked out by any guy, ever. (dont ask how I know, but I do)

People tell me I am a 6 to a 9 (depends on your type). If I ask this girl out, do you think she would say yes.

Put yourself in her situation, first guy to ask you out, who is good looking. do you say yes?

2006-09-18 08:22:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 08:22:09 · 16 answers · asked by wife of Ali Pasha 3 in Singles & Dating

Well i was just curious to know as to what is the height of all of you from the world over.
I am 181 cms tall just a tad below six feet and am not too happy bout it.Lemme know yours.

2006-09-18 08:22:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

While my husband and I were separated (for the 2nd time) with the intent to get a divorce they slept together. We are back together and in counseling I am trying to get over this ....she just had twins ( named one after me) should I confront her? Do you think it will make me feel any better?

2006-09-18 08:22:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have gotten in a relatioship that will lead to marriage My boyfriend already has 15 yr old twin girls and I have a boy that turns 4 today. My boyfriend feels like he doesn't want anymore kids. I don't know if he is scared, excited that he will be done with child support soon w/ his girls and if we didn't work out that he would have to pay for a new kid (though I would not file for support). He may be worried about his age, he's 37 and I also know that he feels like he has a boy now with my son being in his life. The thing is that I want a girl, though I know there is no gaurante on the sex. Also is it unfair to my son for me to have a baby? The age would be too different for them to play for a few years. On the other hand we are a very, very small family just my mom, my son, myself and now my boyfriend. It was hard for me to be an only child and now I wish I was an aunt and sister. I also don't want to have a child with my boyfriend if he really doesn't want one. I'm 29 tick, tick!

2006-09-18 08:21:48 · 7 answers · asked by jojoladay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've never been a jealous person until i started going out with my boyfriend. I think i'm jealous because he's extremely jealous. The things he questions me about makes me question him on the same things. I can't stand it! I think jealousy is such a horrible feeling. A part of me keeps thinking he might cheat on me in the future and another part of me is completely sure he wouldn't. I don't know what to do. How do you over come it?

2006-09-18 08:21:39 · 21 answers · asked by hklcrazy4him 2 in Singles & Dating

I have drawn a ring that I want custom made and I am not sure whether the one can function both as an engagement and wedding ring. It costs me more for the one, but this is the very ring I want to give her, and I am sure she will love it.

2006-09-18 08:21:35 · 27 answers · asked by paidpaipa 2 in Weddings

2006-09-18 08:21:11 · 9 answers · asked by Gugloo 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl and me were really close, we would stay up till 12 in the mornin talkin sometime, now that mite not be alot, but it is for her, she is homeschooled, I go to public school. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said Idk maybe , and REALLy backed off, she seemed nervous around me, I thought she just didnt wanna hurt my feelings, but she told her friends, she just wants to see if I can stick with her. Well we got further and further apart, until I couldnt stand it anymore and I emailed her, spilled my guts, and asked her to be brutally honest on how she fealt about me, heres what she said

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, When I read that two things come to mind. One, that she is just trying to be nice. But on the other hand, she is just scared, because she has never had a bf b4, and weve been friends since age 7.

But now she seems more comfortable around me, like now she talks more, and seems more comfortable, but then she'll seem like she wants me, I can tell by the way she looks, and the way she acts, she just seems really sad, and down,

Oh yeah, and she told her mom , that she is just really really scared, and that she does like me, but she told her friends she just dont want to hurt my feelings, now her and her mom are really close, but so are her and her friends, Do you think she likes me, or is just letting me down easy?

And I am respecting her wishes, I emailed her and told her that I respect her decision, and we havent talked about it since.

But I really really do care for her, I wake up and she's the first thing I think about, I go to sleep and Fall asleep thinking about her. I mean I know I'm only 15, but I really do love her, and would do anything in this world to be with her. I've tried moving on, I've been trying to do that, but I just can't. Even though I am am guy, yes I have cried numerous time for her, and about her. I mean, I'm not ugly, I'm fit, and I'm not a big geek or anything, so what gives? I really do love her, what should I do?

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26 minutes ago
And, yes, her mom likes me, she told me that she is encouraging her daughter to date me, she also said that it was really hard for her daughter to sent that email, but in the mean time, she is really flirty with this other guy.

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3 hours ago
But it's weird, like sometimes she'll seem sad, cuz she wants to be with me, then shell go and be REALLy happy and flirty with this other guy, then shell come up and talk to me, like she misses me, and then shell go flirt with him, I'm just SO CONFUSED, please help.

3 hours ago
but i mean, the way she is around him, is the way she used to be around me, and its weird, cuz we dont talk nearly nearly as much as we used to, and its almost like shes sad, or missin that or sumthin, but then all over this other guy

2006-09-18 08:20:31 · 15 answers · asked by how many 1 in Singles & Dating