Who else here believes on not having sex before marriage?

Question

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the 1st answer is cool.

Answer 1

i do. truly because i have the idea that sex is something sacred to be share with your rightfully spouse.

Answer 2

I do. Call me a traditionalist but I do, leaving aside all religious beliefs, I think that the fact that you are willing to wait and control yourself from having sex is what distinguishes us from animals and giving into instinct or urges, plus the fact that you are willing to let your husband teach you how to do things in bed and let him explore you as an unknown new land that needs discovering is really refreshing. Sure you won't climax the first time but who cares? you have a thousand other times to try and learn...this is the kind of situation where trial and error is fun. Plus there is the nervousness factor, if you do it in a rush (like most teens do) your muscles are contracted and they say it hurts like hell, if on the other hand you wait, the mood is right, no rush, of course you are nervous, but the fact that you are on a loving relationship and that he knows you don't know how things are supposed to go makes it even less scary, you trust the person you are with and the whole experience changes.
I know my husband didn't care if I was a virgin or not, but once we were married he told me that it was a pretty special if unintended gift.

Answer 3

I also do. First of all, I believe it's the best way, "for the Bible tells me so"... Then irrespective of what psychologists may say, i still don't want to become a second-hand article and gradually lose the capacity of appreciating the uniqueness and emotional complexity of sexual love. True Love Waits!

Answer 4

I think you need to take a vehicle for a test drive before you buy it - same goes with sex - not everyone is compatible in that department