How to know if GF really Luves you and not doing time-pass !?

Question

Hey people how to know if a girl(GF) really loves you or is just doing time-pass or using the boy(not talkin abt sex) just because she thinks she ought to have an bf.

I really don’t think her body language would tell anything OR her talk… because obviously she will talk sweet with the guy.

What you all say ?

Answer 1

how u feel is a pretty good indicator that something's not right. next, u gotta match her Words w/ her Actions, as well as how you are feeling. if u can't trust what she says, obviously in ur eyes she is not trustworthy. if u can't trust what she does, obviously u don't feel comfortable w/ HER as your girlfriend. either u are paranoid, picky, or she is not 100% there, committed.

therefore, figure out what u want from Yourself first, as a man, and as a Good Boyfriend. next, figure out what u want from a woman, and a Good Girlfriend. finally, figure out what u want from the relationship, the future. once u do that, communicate w/ her. tell her how u feel, something is missing. ask her what she expects from herself as a girlfriend. from you, as a boyfriend. and from the relationship. if u have similar goals, at least u know u are working towards "something". but if they are different, or she has no goals, than most likely things are gonna be harder to get through.


good luck, and make sure u are choosing someone who has the kind of qualities you want.. instead of forcing someone to become what u want. =T u can only change urself, u can't change anyone else, but u can encourage both of u to work for the better of the Relationship. if she's not willing to change, then something's not right. good luck.

Answer 2

I actually think you know not by any one thing, but a lot of them put together. We pick up cues about how other people feel about us without even being aware of it. If you have doubts about a girl actually loving you, she probably doesn't...

Answer 3

Time.