Weve been 2gether for about a year and a half, and have a 3 mo old. I got pregnant 2 weeks after we got our own apartment. Weve lived here ever since. I love him to death, & he loves me. But I have an attitude a lot, usually when he ticks me off with sumthing, but I usually apologize for it, and I have been getting better with it. He says he doesnt want to be in a relationship with fighting, which I agree, for our daughter. But we dont scream and cuss, usually its mostly just a disagreement and we discuss it.
I want to be engaged (even if we wait years to marry) because I want his word that he is here for the long haul. He has told me before if I leave him, he isnt coming after me, because its my choice to leave. So I feel very insecure about him being with me. I know he loves me and our daughter, but I need that security.
I told him that I wont put up w/ being together 4 so long and being a housewife, without being engaged! Is it wrong of me to ask this of him?
2006-09-18
14:26:45
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