Family & Relationships - 18 September 2006

2006-09-18 15:22:21 · 5 answers · asked by lesliesua 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i've been feeling depressed for about 3 weeks now...i get sad, and mad for no reason...but sometimes when i think about my boyfriend i get sad...and i'm starting to think some of my depression is coming from him...cuz whenever i dont talk to him, i get sad and i wanna cry and i start think he's doing things he shouldnt be doing...and now my depression is making me think about think that are ridiculous (like cutting my wrist)...i dont want to keep these thoughts so what should i do bout my depression???the thing that is probably bothering me is that i really love my boyfriend and i dont wanna loose him....see he really wants me to get myself straight...he wants me to get a job in the next 3 months or he's leaving me and i think thats what is bothering me....

2006-09-18 15:22:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Dear Ladies,

I just want to understand if a couple was going to get married. Who usually pays for what? The problem I had was that my ex expected me to pay for everything. I come from a culture where both my parents pay equal shares, but most Singaporean gals expect the guy to pay all. Could you married women give me your 2 cents worths?

2006-09-18 15:20:49 · 16 answers · asked by Darth V 1 in Weddings

There is this boy at school who asked me out and i guess he is cute but you know. but i have another crush. all my friends say ewww no say no. and i hear good things and bad things about him. he smiles at me as i go from class to class. well, the question is what should i say?

2006-09-18 15:18:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl and me were really close, we would stay up till 12 in the mornin talkin sometime, now that mite not be alot, but it is for her, she is homeschooled, I go to public school. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said Idk maybe , and REALLy backed off, she seemed nervous around me, I thought she just didnt wanna hurt my feelings, but she told her friends, she just wants to see if I can stick with her. Well we got further and further apart, until I couldnt stand it anymore and I emailed her, spilled my guts, and asked her to be brutally honest on how she fealt about me, heres what she said

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, When I read that two things come to mind. One, that she is just trying to be nice. But on the other hand, she is just scared, because she has never had a bf b4, and weve been friends since age 7.

But now she seems more comfortable around me, like now she talks more, and seems more comfortable, but then she'll seem like she wants me, I can tell by the way she looks, and the way she acts, she just seems really sad, and down,

Oh yeah, and she told her mom , that she is just really really scared, and that she does like me, but she told her friends she just dont want to hurt my feelings, now her and her mom are really close, but so are her and her friends, Do you think she likes me, or is just letting me down easy?

And I am respecting her wishes, I emailed her and told her that I respect her decision, and we havent talked about it since.

But I really really do care for her, I wake up and she's the first thing I think about, I go to sleep and Fall asleep thinking about her. I mean I know I'm only 15, but I really do love her, and would do anything in this world to be with her. I've tried moving on, I've been trying to do that, but I just can't. Even though I am am guy, yes I have cried numerous time for her, and about her. I mean, I'm not ugly, I'm fit, and I'm not a big geek or anything, so what gives? I really do love her, what should I do?

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26 minutes ago
And, yes, her mom likes me, she told me that she is encouraging her daughter to date me, she also said that it was really hard for her daughter to sent that email, but in the mean time, she is really flirty with this other guy.

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3 hours ago
But it's weird, like sometimes she'll seem sad, cuz she wants to be with me, then shell go and be REALLy happy and flirty with this other guy, then shell come up and talk to me, like she misses me, and then shell go flirt with him, I'm just SO CONFUSED, please help.

3 hours ago
but i mean, the way she is around him, is the way she used to be around me, and its weird, cuz we dont talk nearly nearly as much as we used to, and its almost like shes sad, or missin that or sumthin, but then all over this other guy

2006-09-18 15:18:43 · 17 answers · asked by your mom 1 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking of making it for a guy friend of mine. Is this a good idea? I want it to be special so I though instead of buying one Id make one. Or does anyone else have any better ideas? I need some help! Thanks!

2006-09-18 15:18:41 · 12 answers · asked by Crazy 6 in Singles & Dating

This question was ask six days ago by Alex. Some of the answers were filled with so much anger and pain, I thought it should be reposted. After reading some of these responces by people whos husbans/wife,boyfriends or girl friends had mis-treated them in the name of love, or just taking them for granted, made me think about the way I act & treat my girl friend? It opened my eyes, and made me want to be a better man.

2006-09-18 15:18:40 · 27 answers · asked by CROC DADDY 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, you see my ex started going out with my best friend after he broke up me. why did he leave me? A rumor. I love him alot, but I have no idea how to get him back.

2006-09-18 15:18:27 · 7 answers · asked by Kyo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 15:18:05 · 6 answers · asked by nini 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I'm 15 and I never kissed any girl before, even on my last relationship T_T People thinks I'm gay but I'm not.. Is it okay?

2006-09-18 15:17:32 · 14 answers · asked by polaris_innocent 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl who's a really good friend of mine and she's started avoiding me completely just out of the blue. What does that mean?

2006-09-18 15:16:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I like a boy that 2 other friends of mine like. They are girls who commonly get the guy and I really like this guy. What should I do?

2006-09-18 15:15:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 15:15:31 · 9 answers · asked by *Benny B* 4 in Singles & Dating

please tell me wat is your ideal on a dream lover. For example, physical appearacne, and also emotional side....

2006-09-18 15:14:25 · 15 answers · asked by CrazyViet 1 in Singles & Dating

Its Gaylord Robert Crapper and everyone teases me what should I do?(I sceen Meet The Fockers) :(

2006-09-18 15:14:22 · 16 answers · asked by rthrthrdthrdth r 1 in Singles & Dating

If you meet a guy somewhere and you are the one that comes up to him, and in the end he ends up asking for your number, how long do you have until you know he won't call you. lol. When should you run out of hope, after 3days, 5days, etc?

2006-09-18 15:14:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 15 and my boyfriend is 16 and we've been together since 12 if he wasnt worth i wouldve gotten rid of him 3 years ago but were sooo close its just ****** up hes gota problem and im not good with this stuff he told me not to say anything and leave it to me to post it on yahoo to a bunch of strangers anyways his dad's been drinking for years and hes been getting hit i stayed out of it because i knew i would do more damage when i asked him about it he wouldnt say anythin i wouldnt wana ether but we started fightin but it was over his dad and the marks and i told him thats not suppose to happen and i told him he was just like his father which didnt help so he hit me and i swear that was the first time and than he goes out and gets completely shitfaced like that spose to fix it all i wasnt pissed or anythin when he hit me but he was freaking out more than i was i really love more like a brother he had to go to the hospital because of to much alcohol i got sooo many question like what now?

2006-09-18 15:13:55 · 3 answers · asked by cind4blake 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-18 15:13:55 · 2 answers · asked by walter z 1 in Friends

im 15 and my boyfriend is 16 and we've been together since 12 if he wasnt worth i wouldve gotten rid of him 3 years ago but were sooo close its just ****** up hes gota problem and im not good with this stuff he told me not to say anything and leave it to me to post it on yahoo to a bunch of strangers anyways his dad's been drinking for years and hes been getting hit i stayed out of it because i knew i would do more damage when i asked him about it he wouldnt say anythin i wouldnt wana ether but we started fightin but it was over his dad and the marks and i told him thats not suppose to happen and i told him he was just like his father which didnt help so he hit me and i swear that was the first time and than he goes out and gets completely shitfaced like that spose to fix it all i wasnt pissed or anythin when he hit me but he was freaking out more than i was i really love more like a brother he had to go to the hospital because of to much alcohol i got sooo many question like what now?

2006-09-18 15:13:26 · 9 answers · asked by cind4blake 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

wehn, were,who,what did it feel like. all that stuff.

2006-09-18 15:13:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this girl that likes him and he knows it. He calls her about 6x a month. The one that really got me is when he called her after 12:00am from a friends party first and then he called me. Why call so late and why her first? I checked his phone afterwards because I have been checking his calls lately and her number was erased and mine was still there from that time. So that tells me that he might be erasing the number everytime. What would you think and would you let him know? I would love to get into his email because I'm sure I could find something concrete there.

2006-09-18 15:12:14 · 34 answers · asked by Vanessa M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You know she wants you and you want her, but you are struggling a little with guilt...what has to happen before you cross the line?

2006-09-18 15:12:08 · 3 answers · asked by Mariska M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-18 15:12:06 · 7 answers · asked by TOP DOG 4 in Singles & Dating

Everything in the relationship was fine in the beginning.
What is the most common thing a man or woman would look for in a relationship? Say that ur sex life is going down the drain, there's no more communication etc? What would u do to safe this relationship of u are truly in love with the person?

2006-09-18 15:11:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I have been seeing turned into an absolute jerk and I want to tell him to kiss of in a good way, not mean, nasty, just in a lasting way so years from now he will still remember it.

2006-09-18 15:11:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, me and my best friend have been friends since the sixth grade. She is really beautiful and smart and nice and I have fallen in love with her. Only, I don't know if she likes me back, in that way. I'm not afraid to fart in front of her and she's not afraid to do it in front of me... Have we been friends too long? Someone please help becasue she's all I think about and I've talked to some of our other friends and they say she doesn't haven't the slightest idea. What should I do?

2006-09-18 15:10:27 · 14 answers · asked by richythefly 1 in Friends

He was stationed in Camp Hovey Korea in 1967-68

2006-09-18 15:09:44 · 3 answers · asked by johnson 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do u like going to football games with ur ladies??

2006-09-18 15:08:15 · 18 answers · asked by allie 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy on my swim team who's two years older than me. I'm a freshman and he's a junior. He's offered me rides many times and stayed with me while I was waiting for my ride once although my coach was still there waiting with me also. Once at a swim meet, he kept bringing up guys who are on the team and asking if I liked any one of them. He gives me compliments about things and when this other girl on my swim team asked him to go with her to homecoming as friends he said yes. When she was telling me about it. He came up and jokingly asked me if I was jealous. I think it's over a 6 month period that he did all this. At homecoming he complimented me on how I looked and asked if I came with a date. He asked me about the guys I danced with. But when we email he usually gives 5 word answers and I know he's really nice to everyone. So does he like me?

Sorry if you already answered my question. I just never got any thorough answers.

2006-09-18 15:08:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 15:07:43 · 12 answers · asked by kk 2 in Family