im 15 and my boyfriend is 16 and we've been together since 12 if he wasnt worth i wouldve gotten rid of him 3 years ago but were sooo close its just ****** up hes gota problem and im not good with this stuff he told me not to say anything and leave it to me to post it on yahoo to a bunch of strangers anyways his dad's been drinking for years and hes been getting hit i stayed out of it because i knew i would do more damage when i asked him about it he wouldnt say anythin i wouldnt wana ether but we started fightin but it was over his dad and the marks and i told him thats not suppose to happen and i told him he was just like his father which didnt help so he hit me and i swear that was the first time and than he goes out and gets completely shitfaced like that spose to fix it all i wasnt pissed or anythin when he hit me but he was freaking out more than i was i really love more like a brother he had to go to the hospital because of to much alcohol i got sooo many question like what now?
2006-09-18 15:13:26 · 9 answers · asked by cind4blake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to break this cycle right away. Call the Police, report him and his father tonight. In the end it will be the best thing for everyone even you.
2006-09-18 15:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 15, use your head. Should you (a) leave the sorry fool or (b) die as he beats you to death in a drunken rage at 16!? The BOY IS 16, don't worry about him worry about whether you'll make it to 16 yourself. You need to worry more about the education you are obviously missing out on, based of your grammar and insanely long sentence you must not have made it past grade school. Is this really how you want to live your life? It is not about what your parents were like, you have a mind use it. Make a choice for yourself that doesn't involve some punk kid killing you.
One more thing where in the hell are your parents?
If you were my daughter you'd be afraid to ever be around another boy like this and this one wouldn't be waking up again.
2006-09-18 22:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself to Al Anon or Al Ateen. They will have all the information you need. You are in for a very, very rough time if your bf has hit you because it will not stop unless you act. At Al Anon, you will learn that you can do nothing to stop the drinking. You can only not enable the drinking. Not only is the father alcoholic, so his the child. Here is a web site: http://www.rational.org/why.html
2006-09-18 22:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll your right to not deal with it by urself but solution starts with you. If his dad is abusive and hes hittin ur boyfriend, i would first tell your parents (yeayea lame thing to do but my friend was getting beat and i told my parents about it and they dealt with it) then id tell like a teacher or a relative of ur bf thats friends with u and him. Then for your boyfriend, if he means that much to u, tell him that he does mean alot to you and and that drinking is just hurting him which is ultamately hurting you. Tell him you want to help as much as possibly no matter how much he tells u not to, because he is obviously not handling this the right way ( i hang with people that have some of the same problems so i can relate). my prayers go out to u and ur boyfriend. Hope things turn out well.
2006-09-18 22:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by vato 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should be a little upset if he hit you. and he really needs some kind of treatment or help professionally. someone whom you both trust should be told. and he's dad should be reported. so both him and his dad need help from whomever can give. you friend should not take things out on u just because he doesnt know how to deal.
2006-09-18 22:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by mysterious_yet_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this kid needs professional help and so does his father where are the teachers or counselors that should report this to me the social worker so social services can get this kid out and get him to a home with some other family or a safe place to go to he needs to sober up before its too late I will have you in my prayers
2006-09-18 22:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal problems like this happen when two jerks meet and become friends
2006-09-18 22:17:22 · answer #7 · answered by Rammohan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry you aren't going to want to hear this but if a guy hit me he would be out. and drinking is a serious problem.
2006-09-18 22:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by Bitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this will never change. im sorry but if he hit you then you will get it again. your too young for this. please look around for somebody else or just be alone for awhile.take it easy and enjoy your childhood more. i will have you in my prayers
2006-09-18 22:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by Billy T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋