Okay, me and my best friend have been friends since the sixth grade. She is really beautiful and smart and nice and I have fallen in love with her. Only, I don't know if she likes me back, in that way. I'm not afraid to fart in front of her and she's not afraid to do it in front of me... Have we been friends too long? Someone please help becasue she's all I think about and I've talked to some of our other friends and they say she doesn't haven't the slightest idea. What should I do?
2006-09-18 15:10:27 · 14 answers · asked by richythefly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Please, let her know! But gently. Bring up the idea of maybe going on a date. If she says that she just wants to "be friends" then that's it. She just wants to "be friends". If you want to keep her as a friend then you are going to have to decide if you can just "be friends" with her and deal with her when she starts dating other guys. If you feel that you can handle this then you will have a great friend in her. If you just can't accept her not being interested in you the way you would like, you may have to walk away from this friendship. Better you find out now than later. Good luck to you. I hope things work out!
2006-09-18 15:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by momma g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ho Hum, Is that girl me Richard M? Why didn't u tell me? And why are you telling people about our flatulence releasings? We need to have a talk about some things obviously, and were those friends Bethany and Georgia? Yes talks are in the very near future. I know where you live. But don't sweat, I still love you! I'm just not going to let anyone who might be looking at this know what my answer is. Did you forget that I was the one who made your Answers ID you dolt?! And you really think I'm beautiful?
2006-09-18 15:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by away.laughing.on.a.fast.camel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this girl is your best friend (and you can fart in front of her!), you should definitely be comfortable enough with her to just come out and say, "I know we've been best friends forever, but I think that I might be falling in love with you."
See what she says. Ask her if she thinks that there could ever be anything romantic between the two of you. If she's your best friend, she should be willing to listen and talk through this with you.
Best of luck...I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!
2006-09-18 15:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the cutest thing ever. Do the eye test. Compliment her..and then just look deep into her eyes.. as if to look for a romantic reaction. If she looks back in the same way.. BINGO. if she laughs it off or doesnt take it like you are trying to be romantic.. at least all you did was stare too long. Good luck buddy. Plus that romantic stare is sexy as hell if the guy is into you. Yum!
2006-09-18 15:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by chrissyprivate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is soooo sweet. If you two do ever hook up, both of you would be the best lovers.....OK, now your dreaming....STOP! You need to let her know how you feel about her. It might freak her out at first, and she might run from you, because mann, you're like a brother to her. But trust me, you two would have a wonderful relationship, because it's based on friendship. That's how me and my husband was...best friends....and now....uhmmm...! You Should quit farting in front of her, that's gross.
2006-09-18 16:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by sweet southern charm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friendhip with a woman is extra of a suitable dating, somebody like one you artwork with in an place of work, or a classmate with whom you communicate training correct issues, and so on. whilst the formality will become much less and the involvement will become extra by way of sharing very own information, spending time with one yet another for applications different than what a suitable dating demands, and assembly one yet another extra in many situations and at diverse places for relaxing and sport, then the female-pal/boy-pal reltionship includes play.
2016-10-17 06:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your best friend will only see you as her best friend, nothing more. Has she shown interest in other guys and tell you about it? If she has, maybe she's not interested in you and only sees you as a bro.
2006-09-18 15:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of being so casual with her like farting in frontof her ...i think thats disgusting.. start being more not as friendly? more boyfriendly? dont tell her u like her thuogh until she seems to be interested, because it will ruin things if u tell her now.
2006-09-18 15:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by sharon t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most people wouldn't have friends that they couldn't consider dating. if she really didn't think you were boyfriend material you couldn't be friend material either.
life is all about risks. if you can't take a chance at asking her out then you aren't really ready.
2006-09-18 15:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by d b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her, in a kidding way, if she would marry you when you are both old enough. See what she says. It's worth a try.
2006-09-18 15:12:39 · answer #10 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋