to be in a relationship with anyone. So what is his problem. If he doesnt want to be in a relationship with me then what gives him the right to be mad if I have other male friends. And no not other male friends with benefits!!!!!
2006-09-18 14:21:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a tough one. I was in the same situation, you need to let that go! If you're not looking for a relationship, then you need to find another friend with benefits.
2006-09-18 14:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by searaydreams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously feeling like he owns you and he can be the only male u talk to. He's being territorial, which he does not have the right to be. Tell him to make you his girl, or stop complaining about other guys because you're not his girl. If he continues then maybe you should just be friends and not friends with benefits
2006-09-18 21:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving this friend your benefits.
He wants to eat his pie and have his cake too, if I can butcher an old saying.
As much as it seems to be a good situation, the whole 'friends with benefits' thing never works out that way in my experience, not for long periods of time anyway.
It's more for the short term.
2006-09-18 21:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by trinitybelwoodspark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His main issue is probably rooted in the fact that he really DOES want a relationship with you, but is afraid of letting go and jumping into one. I think that this guy may want a relationship with you, but he doesn't want to screw up the friendship that you two share. That's why he get's mad when you hang around with other guys.
Till next time,
Raven
2006-09-18 21:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, give me a break! Friends with benefits??? There's your trouble...
Either you're together or not. Quit playing with each others' emotions before someone really gets hurt....
Sounds like the insecure-jealous type anyway. Can't commit, but wants the key s to your candy store?
Go find a real man who is capable of treating you like a lady
2006-09-18 21:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by craig r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know he's not in a relationship, and that you're both enjoying benefits? Go get what you need! As long as you're honest with whoever is involved, and you're being safe - what's the harm?
2006-09-18 21:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he get jealous? You 2 are JUST friends with benefits. If you still wanna be friends with benefits with him, talk to him about it. If you feel like you can't handle it anymore, LEAVE HIM!
2006-09-18 21:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, ive gone thru this myself. friends with benefits hurts especially when there is feelings involved. it sounds to me as if this guy really likes you and wants to be in a relationship with you but isnt sure if he's ready yet. thats why he is mad with you having other guy friends, he doesnt want to lose you to them.
2006-09-18 21:26:16 · answer #8 · answered by taceysay02@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well so sad. Life is a b$%&^ sometimes and well he is not the king of the universe and make rules and expect everyone to obey them. He either needs to step up and be a man or be lonely because you do not seem like your are the type of lady who would put up with his s#@* so tell him what you want if he does not want it cya
2006-09-18 21:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by princess crackles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to have his cake and eat it too!. Being a FWB is his way of saying that you belong to him. Some men believe that women are possessions and can be thrown away when they are done with them . This guy obviously has no respect for you.
2006-09-18 21:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋