Ok, well I have been "talking" to this boy for the past 4 months. We hang out a lot [sometimes hes all over me & sometimes he doesnt want 2 be touched!?] yea...so he says stuff to me that bf's only would say. Then i ask him about us and he says were "friends." but his friends are always like are u guys dating?.. & i say no.. He seems to get "jealous" when i go out and do whatever. & says he wants to date me but doesnt wanna waste his time. Really what is his problem? Not be conceited but im not a ugly girl @ all. I just dont get it. One minute hes interested, the next he is not.. If your asking me im the one wasting my time.... but i hate it because i do like him. Blah. I dont know what do to with him anymore.
2006-09-18 14:30:12 · 7 answers · asked by vrygorgeous22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok keep it simple. Talk is cheap. Do not get confused by what he says. Go with what he does. Bottomline is action. If he says you guys are friends, why does he get jealous? Inconsistency in his actions is a red flag in a relationship. The fact that you are more pissed than happy when you are with him perhaps suggest that you might want to look for some other guy who would treat you better.
2006-09-18 14:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lyon D. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal. We teach people how to treat us. He's learned that he can play his silly game with you and you come back for more. Please, listen up now, you need to learn to set boundaries and limits and require that guys respect you, your body, your needs and wishes. He's not doing that. Contrary to what you might think, setting these boundaries will not drive off all guys. It WILL drive off the turkeys like the one you've got. BUT, the good ones will stick around. Try it. Tell this guy he's done playing you as though you are a cheap guitar.
2006-09-18 21:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he needs to decide what are you two a couple or not for if he is using you to make out with you then you yeah you need to stop wasting your time with a man that treats you like a YO YO LOL
2006-09-18 21:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to define your relationship you need to talk with the person that you want to define it with. If he does not want to then he is just playing games and you should find somone else to hang with, and just be friends with him, unless he tells you otherwise.
2006-09-18 21:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by T agent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM TO STOP LEADING YOU ON AND ASK HIM WHAT DOES HE WANT OUT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO MOVE ON IF HE STILL DOESN'T KNOW KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING GOING OUT AND THINGS HE'LL GET THE PICTURE SOON OF A LATER
2006-09-18 21:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by applepiekiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up
2006-09-18 21:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by phil d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him! he sounds like a jerk. plain and simple.
2006-09-18 21:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by Chris E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋