how come every guy i meet wants to have sex with me i could go out on a date and im very well mannered not slutty acting and when i date the guy again the second date he wants to have sex with me, and if he doesn't he goes crazy like he won't stop coming by. and he'll lie up the storm, and he won't give up, and i'd tell them if you don't wanna wait then you can go for another women. but the next few days it seems like that what i told them went threw one ear and out the other, now im pretty sure that there are over 50,000 women out there for him to get his palms on, so why does he keep knocking at my door? what will it take for me, im being so damn firm , but they won't listen. Help me please.
2006-09-18 14:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by jennifer w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you need to improve the quality of guy you date. Sounds like these guys are all - - - - hounds. Guys of higher caliber behave better.
2006-09-18 14:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what do you know? A good girl! Hold your ground Darlin, and don't let any of those horny little bastards get away with anything! Slap their faces if you have to. With all the diseases out there now young men are acting very irresponsibly. And the lyrics to the songs youngsters listen to are a huge influence on their behavior.
Now, I'm not so old that I don't remember what it was like to be young and in lust, but with our larger brains we are supposed to be able to control our urges a bit better.
Try checking out some of the young men in your church. Also socially acceptable clubs and school events. Get involved in a cause that is greater than yourself, because you probably will meet the guy of your dreams in a place or activity that is altruistic in nature, rather than selfish. Good luck young Lady.
2006-09-18 21:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps knocking on your door b/c guys (and even girls frequently,too) want what they can't have. The thrill is in the pursuit, and once they "have" what they "couldn't" get, they usually loose interest. If I were you, I'd meet in a neutral place for the first couple dates, so the person can't keep coming around where you live, and don't give out your ph.# until you're sure this is someone you want to have a relationship.
Good luck.
2006-09-18 21:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by ND chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me very carefully. First: GOOD JOB! You are doing the right thing. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!
Second: Get rid of this guy. He only wants to claim you (if you know what I mean) He will leave after you have sex with him. I do not know you but I know that I do not want you to get hurt. Please get rid of this guy.
You are living these verses below. Read them and tell me what you think.
It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God; and that in this matter no one should wrong his brother or take advantage of him. The Lord will punish men for all such sins, as we have already told you and warned you. For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. Therefore, he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, who gives you his Holy Spirit.
1 thessalonians 4: 3-8
2006-09-18 21:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dead 2 Self 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with them, If they can't respect your boundries they are not worth your time. Tell your dad that these guys won't leave you a lone and have him scare the crap out of them when they come to the door. Tell these guys you don't want to talk to them or you'll call the police if they come back your place or phone you.
Stick to your guns. There will be a guy who will respect you, appericate you for who you are, and will court you. Ignore these toads.
I hope I've helped you.
2006-09-18 21:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, you tell him that you do NOT wish to have sex with him; and if he can't respect that and insists on acting like some kind of horny maniac, then tell him to go find some other (and maybe more willing) girl to go lay his hands on, and to leave you alone. I know it's hard to not be polite in some way, but people like this need to have things bashed into their skulls before they get the idea.
Till next time,
Raven
2006-09-18 21:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These boys just think if they bug you enough you will give in and give them what they want. Stand your ground and if they don't leave you alone you need to try and stay away from them completely, if it is a serious problem then you will need to go to someone for help.
2006-09-18 21:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by T agent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone my GF I think men want pussy and if you say no that makes them want it more and your right there are plently of girls that would do the guy but he wants to screw you well more power to you for not caving in and when a guy yells or begs for sex yeah drop him like a hot potato for he is not worth it !!
2006-09-18 21:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep finding yourself with certain types of men, you should re-evaluate how you choose them. There's not really much you can do to get them to go away. All you can do is top answering your phone and door when they come by.
2006-09-18 21:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe something in your speech or behavior makes him think you don't really mean no. I don't mean you are acting slutty, just undecided.
2006-09-18 21:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Robin N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋