I BEEN TALKING TO SOMEONE FOR 21/2 YEARS NOW WE ARE BEST FRIENDS I KNOW THAT BUT CAN YOU FALL IN LOVE OVER THE NET
2006-09-18 14:33:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, you can! My husband and I met online 9 years ago. It was an instant attraction online (without seeing each other first). We spent hours every day talking online and covered alot of ground that showed us how compatiable we were. We have been married 8 years now. We have enjoyed a great life together and I have no regrets. Yes, you can fall in love on the Internet..especially if you both were truthful to each other. I know that can happen sometimes when someone is not what they seem to be.
2006-09-18 15:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by daff73 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can. Net is just another source of meeting new people. Just like an advert in newspapers or a dating agency.
There is nothing wrong falling in love in the Net. In fact it is good so that you could slowly get to know each other.
However, caution needs to be taken into consideration before the real meeting. Dont give your home address, home number, and real name etc. Just give your nickname/1st name, mobile number and overall datas.
In fact you just stay cool and brief about personal stuff before meeting eye to eye for the 1st time. During the 1st date set the location right in public where a lot of people. Inform your 1-2 close friends about you date so they know where you are and dont bring home for coffee just yet until your feelings tell you to do so.
Goodluck!
2006-09-18 21:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure can because it has happen to me. I wouldn't recommend it. It depends on whether you decide to meet this person or not. If you don't think you'll ever meet than don't get more attached than you have. Go out and find yourself a guy friend, in your area, that you could maybe get close to. Falling in love, over the net, is very much so possible.
2006-09-18 21:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The interent is a way of getting to know someone in a way that person to person sometimes you don't... I mean... You have a way of opening up and saying things to each other that you could not say face to face... You are not afraid to be open or shy... If you went out and met some one local.. Would you just open up and talk about anything and everything... NO... But online you meet new people develope friendships... Sometimes more... You make a bond... And yes... Sometimes fall in love.....Talk about anything and everything before you really meet face to face... Can you do that if you just meet for the first time ? NO.......You get to learn more about the person and if you really want to know them further... Love ? Yes you can fall in love...
2006-09-18 21:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by levita45 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can!!! Online it is a much bigger world, more people, more choices. Plus easier to eliminate the bad ones. In real life you don't know any better, because in real life people act more polite and hide more.
The only problem is if the one you find that match you lives far away. But even then you can meet. I know. Online you fall in love with the PERSON they are. In some ways it's better than the deceitful looks.
I have myself found good friends online and would like to meet them. I have the trouble of finding people I like and who likes me back, I'm VERY selective. So a bigger "market" suited me.
2006-09-18 21:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get to know someone over the internet which is a prerequisite to falling in love,so why not,your just not able to physically love them.
2006-09-18 21:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can im falling in love just looking at your pic with beautiful child lol. answer is yes but with wisedom here dont just go willy vanilly without knowing everything youve talk over for years is the truth here and a face to face with lots of time to check whats been talked about for years is true . theres lots of crazys on net . youve found that you love his soul and his words now go forth and see if you love the rest of him . dont worry about others they judge too much . i have a lady ive talked to for years and once i considerd visiting her but i backed out because she didnt trust me and i knew without that i needed go no farther . you need to trust that this guy is for real;.look in your heart be sure this is worth your effert if so then go for it . good luck
2006-09-18 21:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by sigmond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two friends that actually say they did. One couple is married now for six months the other lives together for about four years now.
2006-09-18 23:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say yes
i have done it. well i started to at least
but we met at the beach exchanged sns and got to know each other talked everyday every night all the time. he took me to prom but then i had to tell him that he was only a friend. bc i now realize what love is and i have it, and it wasnt him so it was only right to tell him
but its possible
2006-09-18 21:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to some of these people. Yes you can and i did,,and happily living with him for 2 yrs now. It onl took us a month of talking online,,,then he came and met me....moved from conn to mass in with me in a week. YESSSSSSSSSSSS IT CAN HAPPEN AND I WISH ALL THE LUCK IN THE WORLD.
2006-09-18 21:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋