Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

I have been with my husband for 12 years, over the years I have noticed he is very thoughtless, Valentines, Mother's day , Xmas roll around and I never receive anything, not even something small, I don't ask for much either, but I feel kind of stupid when his special events role around and I have something waiting for him.I usually ask for one big gift a year and he can't even forfill my wish because he thinks its unneccesary but its something I wanted, anyway I always end up buying what I want myself and he always has a cow. I can't understand why and how he can be so cold hearted. He never shows any compassion towards me at all, I don't know maybe this is small but it bothers me, what should I do.

2006-09-17 06:11:51 · 11 answers · asked by joyce1470 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-17 06:11:48 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Friends

My wife and I have been having problems finacially and we cannot seem to agree with certain things. She likes to spend and I like to save and invest. Opposites do attract, but sometimes I just don't know how to handle this.

2006-09-17 06:11:19 · 7 answers · asked by Chuck 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 06:09:54 · 15 answers · asked by casablanca1887 1 in Weddings

This guy that goes to the same college as me, I've seen him around for sometime. But one day out of the blue he just gave me this really big smile and I smiled back. Then a couple days went by and he passed me while I was sitting in the break room again he smiled and turned to look at me. Again I smiled back at him. But now when he sees me he just looks at me with a really serious look for a couple of seconds and then walks on. The other day I was leaning down to get something off the table I looked up. I had a low cut shirt on but in a classy way. When I looked he had his head totally turned just staring at my chest. I don't know if he realizes I saw this, I don't think so. But then the next couple of days, he's back to just looking at me with a serious look again for a couple of seconds. What's his deal? Why did he change his ways. And why does he look at me so oddly? Is there something wrong with me?

2006-09-17 06:09:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 06:08:09 · 23 answers · asked by deepu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband has been out of job for 2 years. I have tried to be patient. We have a mortgage. He doesn't seem to want to take on any jobs again. rather he would stay at home being a 'housewife' doing the cooking.

I felt let down and being on my own to support the family. His sister helps him out a bit in his share of mortgage payment but I don't think it will last. He doesn't have many friends and he doesn;t like to talk. I kept asking him to send out his cv to agencies but he still hasn't done yet. other than this, he is a good and faithful man. but I'm tired.

2006-09-17 06:07:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-17 06:06:43 · 8 answers · asked by skinny white girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 06:06:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 06:05:08 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-17 06:04:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 06:04:42 · 6 answers · asked by Raven S 1 in Weddings

I'm going to homecoming with my crush since last year. I want to tell him that I like him as more than friends but I don't know how to. He told a friend that he likes me but I want to let him know that I want to date him.

2006-09-17 06:04:32 · 6 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

Please not that this is not an original question of mine, I saw it in the paper.

2006-09-17 06:03:46 · 22 answers · asked by Someone 1 in Family

EVERYONE SAYS U WOULD BE SUCCESSFULL IN UR LIFE WHEN A GIRL COMES IN UR LIFE BUT I AM SPEAKING THE TRUTH I DON'T KNOW HOW TO TALK TO A GIRL UPTILL NOW I HAVE NEVER FIGURED IT OUT BY NOW I AM INTROVERT BOY BY NATURE I WAS AWAY FROM THE WORRLD FOR 8 YEARS OF MY LIFE I WAS GOING TO SCHOOL AND COMING BACK HOME I DIDN'T FLIRT IN MY LIFE I DON'T KNOW ONLY WHAT IT MEANS I AM A PERSON WHO LOVES ONLY HIS COMPUTER SO EVERYONE CALL ME A FREAK AM I A FREAK IN TRUE SENSE

2006-09-17 06:02:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Also what is the traditional gift material for the first year?

2006-09-17 06:02:33 · 6 answers · asked by HendryDoso 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just wondering,if a man, (who really wants to take a woman he hasn´t slept with before), wants to take the lead or if he prefers to let the woman do most of it? Guys what do you like best, what shall I (the woman) do or better not do?

2006-09-17 06:02:28 · 3 answers · asked by gini 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want to grap anything fast & get the hell out. It is even WORSE, if i go there with my girlfriend. Hellooooo...
Do u feel the same way ???

2006-09-17 06:02:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 06:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by Amandanvk 1 in Friends

2006-09-17 06:01:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there is this guy i've know him since kindergarden and he will not stop asking me out i've told him i just want to be friends but he will not stop. what do i do

2006-09-17 06:01:03 · 8 answers · asked by punk_skull 1 in Singles & Dating

broke up if there would be a chance for us later on in life considering if we broke up we might be mad at each other

2006-09-17 06:00:07 · 8 answers · asked by Austin J 1 in Singles & Dating

the question i posted yesterday: "A SERIOUS question about penis size (men & women, please answer)?", gave me several points of view that i really appreciated (and a few that were just plain stupid!)

anyway, i think i need to clarify what my real concerns are.

my wife always made me feel that my penis was perfectly adequate, and i actually thought that i may be quite a bit larger in the 'girth' department. (to clarify, one answer said that a 6" girth was like a soda can. actually it isn't, but 6" around is closer to a bottle of beer). this was one of the things i always felt i had going for me, until my wife started screwing around.

this is my concern: am i a good size? after viewing several online pics, i feel that it isn't. am i under a misconception about myself? am i not larger than normal in that department?

just looking for some honest support and opinion.

2006-09-17 05:59:40 · 7 answers · asked by james p 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together 2 years in October. The thing is I know (now) that I really love him. He's the first bloke that's ever been really good to me. He's never hurt me. never let's me down. He buys me presents. He makes me laugh, feel good about myself. If I have a go at him, when I'm in a mood, he just walks away. Last week I had a one night stand, with some cocky bastard who's been pestering me for months. Unfortuneately my boyfriend has found out, from one of my so-called mates, and I think he's dumped me, because I can no longer get him on the phone and he won't answer his door. What can I do?

2006-09-17 05:59:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok... i wuz at the mall the other day nd sum guy i didnt kno came up to me nd made a comment about my body. I also happened to be wearing a 100% Boricua tanktop. The whole ordeal was kinda insulting. A lot of older guys stare at me, nd it scares me a little bit bcuz older guys r interested in me, but boys my age don't seem 2 b. Do teenage boys like skinny girls better, or girls with curves? Or does a dudes taste change with age? Also, do men tend 2 assume that Hispanic gurls hav hotter bodies, or not?

2006-09-17 05:58:43 · 10 answers · asked by bonca 2 in Singles & Dating

flirty..she's gets close to me, to where sometimes her hair is touching my arm when she's bending over my shoulder, touches my arm, checks me out,...and i'm not making any of this up! and i'm not overreacting or anything like that!

2006-09-17 05:58:25 · 5 answers · asked by annabanana 1 in Friends

How long does a spouse have to respond to a divorce in arkansas? He lives in Oregon and I mailed him the divorce papers and he will not sign them or return them? I have heard they only have 30 days but I am not sure. If someone knows please let me know. Thank you.

2006-09-17 05:57:50 · 4 answers · asked by fields2333@sbcglobal.net 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Extra marital relationships are the order of the day. Nobody minds it these days.

2006-09-17 05:57:41 · 44 answers · asked by TANISH 2 in Weddings

I worredk full time as do my husband and son. Granted chores are shared by all but some jobs do not appeal to the others ie cleaning the bathroom - so every day I am the mug who does it.
They accuse me of being too fussy about the house but I feel the weekend should not be taken up with at leats half a day cleaning.
I do a quick hoover, dust mopping of floors cleaning kitchen and bathroom and washing prior to going to work every day. My Husband says that I am being stupid by thinking of employing a cleaner ???

2006-09-17 05:56:19 · 23 answers · asked by random 3 in Family

If you knew you have only one more day to live what would you do for your last day??

(And yes she is a very happy educated young lady)

2006-09-17 05:55:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family