the question i posted yesterday: "A SERIOUS question about penis size (men & women, please answer)?", gave me several points of view that i really appreciated (and a few that were just plain stupid!)
anyway, i think i need to clarify what my real concerns are.
my wife always made me feel that my penis was perfectly adequate, and i actually thought that i may be quite a bit larger in the 'girth' department. (to clarify, one answer said that a 6" girth was like a soda can. actually it isn't, but 6" around is closer to a bottle of beer). this was one of the things i always felt i had going for me, until my wife started screwing around.
this is my concern: am i a good size? after viewing several online pics, i feel that it isn't. am i under a misconception about myself? am i not larger than normal in that department?
just looking for some honest support and opinion.
2006-09-17 05:59:40 · 7 answers · asked by james p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are worrying too much. Your penis is only 1 part of you. then there is the rest. Not many women sustain relationships over penis size anyway. Your wife screws around because she is a loser not because of your penis size. She probably is of lower than average intelligence and average looking. Men pray on women like her because she is easy.
They see her as a target. A hard dick has no conscience.
Most men would screw just about anything that would allow them to and they could care less. She is being used.
You should quit worrying and think of it this way, they just got your leftovers. You had her 1st.
Enjoy your penis and go out and find someone else and try too hard not to worry about it.
2006-09-17 06:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by happydawg 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it's your penis size that matters? Perhaps you weren't a good lover because you weren't romantic, loving, passionate, etc.
And no, I'm not saying it's right for her to screw around. That is NEVER right. I'm saying, don't be so hard on yourself because of your anatomy!
Just try to be the best lover you can be without your penis. If you need some help, try reading romance novels. They tend to be very in depth, so maybe you can pick up some tips. I personally would prefer a man who was passionate, romantic, loving, etc. over a huge size. Sex is over really fast. Try making it all wonderful.
I guess what I'm trying to say is: Try touching in more ways than down there. Stroke her face, kiss her all over (literally), or other things like that. I think that would mean more to me.
Edit: Oh, and by "her", I mean the next woman, cause I'd kick this one to the curb. Divorce her and move on!
2006-09-17 06:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with the size of your penis, it's doubtful she left you cause of that. More likely the new guy gave her something emotional that she felt she was missing, excitement, something new, listening? Anyway, forget her and move on, you'll find a woman that will appreciate you for who you are and be faithful. That doesn't mean you shouldn't think about your past relationship and learn from any mistakes you made and try to change for the better.......
2006-09-17 06:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
average
2006-09-17 06:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are average size
2006-09-17 06:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can i see a pic
2006-09-17 06:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God gift.No problem.Carry on. Use properly.
2006-09-17 06:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋