Ok... i wuz at the mall the other day nd sum guy i didnt kno came up to me nd made a comment about my body. I also happened to be wearing a 100% Boricua tanktop. The whole ordeal was kinda insulting. A lot of older guys stare at me, nd it scares me a little bit bcuz older guys r interested in me, but boys my age don't seem 2 b. Do teenage boys like skinny girls better, or girls with curves? Or does a dudes taste change with age? Also, do men tend 2 assume that Hispanic gurls hav hotter bodies, or not?
2006-09-17 05:58:43 · 10 answers · asked by bonca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have the body of a grown woman so the older guys stare at you. The younger ones are intimidated so they act like they don't care. Believe it or not, a lot of guys like girls with curves or meat, not the skinny type. I used to be skinny and people always made a comment that maybe I'm anorexic and I wasn't. People were telling me to eat so I can gain weight. I tried to eat and still was skinny. Be happy that you have the curves that you have now. I would love to be in your shoes.
2006-09-17 06:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by Thot77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i am an older man so i will start with men are men and we do that. :) most of the time it is a compliment or at least we feel it is a compliment to look in admiration at the female form.
Younger guys are probably a little intimidated by the curvy thing as I can remember when I was young being overwhelmed by looking at a curvy woman. I could barely look much less say hi. I think as men grow they learn to handle the overwhelming sexual response to your curvy form and are better able to express ourselves.
Wearing provocative clothing lets you express yourself and your feminine sexuality. Just remember most young men are not ready to see that and communicate with you at the same time. It is a little joke our brains play on us till we are older.
2006-09-17 13:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Robert E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer your questions because I'm a straight woman; however, I am curvy, too, and as a teen my father told me that boys like skinny girls but real men like curves. Turns out he was right. I have never had any problem with real men. They want something they can hold onto! They love curves and buns! That silly song by Sir Mix-A-Lot, "I Like Big Butts," is really representative of what many men feel about women's bodies. ¡Buena suerte, chica linda!
2006-09-17 13:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by nido_tr3s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U probably look a little older for ur age, so younger guys are like...why bother? She's outta my league. And older guys.....well they r just hounds. I'm pretty sure they know that ur a young girl but, don't care. Don't rush to attract so much attention from guys anyway. You have plenty of time for that. And as a fellow boricua, we both know that our men like a little meat on us so, stop worrying. I'm sure u look fine.
2006-09-17 13:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son is half PR and he's got the cutest little booty, lol.
Ok, anyways, latin girls seem to have more curvaceous bodies and it is usually assumed so.
I don't think it really matters what age a boy/man is as far as what he finds attractive but his tastes could change either way at any time. But that dude coming up to you and commenting on your body was way out of line and you should have told him to get his disprespectful @ss away from you. Now maybe the way you dress could be sending the message that you want this kind of attention so if you're walking around with half of your @ss hanging out and cleavage everywhere dont expect them to not comment.
Whenever I go somewhere and I get creepy guys looking at me or making comments I usually say something to them. I was in Wal-Mart with my son and this dirty Mexican was staring at me like he never saw a human being before to the point that his head turned as I walked by so when I was like right by him I yelled really loud "what they hell are you looking at?!" and it scared the crap outta him. It was funny.
2006-09-17 13:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by Amy >'.'< 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thin in some places with a good amount of curves is ideal. But a girl has to have some meat on her bones.
2006-09-17 13:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ho la Bonita mu her! I just love me a curvy women why do you have any friends for me? Don't feel bad. Thin is out and thick is in. More cushion for the pushing.
2006-09-17 13:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tigger-Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm all guys have differnt views on females and i think as they get older maybe there tastes in females do change. OLder guys are probroly looking at you becasue you are beautiful or for there own reasons if it scares you i personally would say somting to them like wat you are looking at. and then make them feel insulted...
2006-09-17 13:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you are too lazy to type? My English is poor sorry I can't give you any answer even I would like to do so.
2006-09-17 13:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by pimpa1949 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
gUYS LIKE GIRLS WITH CURVES NOT LIKE pARIS hILTON WITH JUST SKIN AND BONES.
2006-09-17 13:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by fayem7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋