Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

can you pls tell me some common signs just to determine if he loves me or not? + how should i make him jealous- just for fun!! (nothing dirty, please)

2006-09-17 05:54:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I found out my bf watches porn on the internet at his house, and gets off on it. i dont know if im so keen on him watching it. i know i cant stop him, but it feels weird to me. I mean i feel like hes not satisfied with me. We have sex, but probably not as much as we hope, for different reasons eg - we both live at home, and dont have the time or space, and cant take our time on it, and because we rush it, i hurt coz im not as "ready" as i should be. so we sometimes have to stop. also at his house his mum just walks into his room!! So were not as up for it as people our age should be (21 and 23). So when we dont engage in sex etc, he goes home and w*nks over porn. am i reading too much into this? i know every bloke does it, but i dont feel like he wants to be with me, but rather a computer screen and hes getting off on strangers! help!

2006-09-17 05:54:23 · 21 answers · asked by ms_jaffa_cake 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 05:53:01 · 7 answers · asked by dililmuneca09 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I am going out with a guy I have known and liked for about 2 years. Now that we are going out, it is kind of awkward. But here's the problem: I like someone else now. I like another guy, and I started liking him before me and my boyfriend started going out. I really like my boyfriend, but not as much as the other guy. What do I do?

2006-09-17 05:52:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been married over 20 yrs. and have 4 kids. Things started falling apart in our marriage about 11 yrs ago that I became aware of and of course even longer but just didn't see a problem. You think you are doing the kids a favor by staying together and trying to work as a family. At my husbands request I have been a stay at home mom and wasn't allowed to work, not even 2 nights a week. I did tell him once our youngest went off 2 school and the house was fixed I would get a job. Well the house never got fixed, and it never will. But I was told 2 yrs ago I should get a job and help out with the finances. He wanted me to work on his terms and do somethng I wasn't happy doing. I'm an independent beauty consultant and wasn't getting the support I needed from him to be the best that I could be. I started a waitress job to help out with finances, my small business was not moving forward, I cut back on hrs and I was offered a job promoting a fitness center during the day. C PART 2

2006-09-17 05:51:04 · 17 answers · asked by suentwobehisx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She is not to thrilled her dad is seeing someone. Makes it difficult for all of us to do things together. He has 2 daughters and I have one son. All around the same age. What can we do to make this easier for her, so we can start combining our lives?

2006-09-17 05:50:04 · 11 answers · asked by Happily in love 1 in Family

been in a relationship for 6 years. bought a house together.lived together for 2 years. she broke up with me.i got bought out. i left the flat a week ago. i´m not at all hungry. difficulty swallowing. i do eat mashed fruit and stuff...when should i go see a doctor. is it related to change of life?stress?depression?Has anyone gone through this?thanx.

2006-09-17 05:48:32 · 14 answers · asked by sevenmoreminutes7 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what are your age ranges for partners ideally?
and state your age too.

i am 23 and ideally would like a bloke no younger than 20 and no older than 30
hmm sounds like a rubbish personal ad!

2006-09-17 05:48:28 · 16 answers · asked by sinnedfairy 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 05:48:13 · 6 answers · asked by goodbye and good luck :-) 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 05:48:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 05:47:08 · 5 answers · asked by LaPalma 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 05:46:15 · 14 answers · asked by goodbye and good luck :-) 1 in Singles & Dating

How much wood could a woodchuck chuck, if a woodchuck could chuck wood?

2006-09-17 05:45:50 · 10 answers · asked by You_dumb_bastard 1 in Singles & Dating

I have delt with my father's racism all my life by simply ignoring it. Race is not a problem with me. In the past, my brother has brought home a black girl and my father blew everything out of proportion. He didn't allow her back to the house and said very cruel and prejudice things to her. She ended up breaking up with my brother because she feared my father. I just wish that I could bring him home with me without my father doing the same to him. I love him and he loves me. I'm not sure if I should have my boyfriend make a good first impression, or have a talk with my father. To be honest, I don't know what to do. I don't talk with my father at all. We go weeks without saying a word to eachother whilst my mother and I talk everyday. Someone please give me a suggestion. Not bringing him home should not be an option here.

2006-09-17 05:45:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-17 05:44:56 · 13 answers · asked by goodbye and good luck :-) 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a guy flirts with you and then you show him interest, he trys to avoid you for awhile. Then after time goes by the cycle begins again. Does this mean he thinks you're ugly. Even though he does look at you sometimes. Especially when you're one on one, he'll really look at you and smile. Someone I know said they think there's something there he's trying to avoid. What could this be? And does he think I'm ugly since he acts this way?

2006-09-17 05:44:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been hurt in the past and find it hard to trust people (only properly trust one person). Is this okay or should i trust more people?

2006-09-17 05:43:52 · 15 answers · asked by julianewcombe999 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been married almost a year and recently she went out to a bar with a female friend (single) to have a few drinks. I ended up going out for about 45min myself to the same place so saw her there / talked but had to jet due to an early morning.

Friend was driving and she ended up not coming home at all with no phone call to let me know. We had discussed if she was too drunk to either call me so I could pick her up or if she had to she could stay there but she didnt know what she really wanted to do at that point.

I left for work without her there and haven't talked to her as of yet due to my schedule but should I make this an issue? This is the 1st time since we've been married and I go out as well but always come home. She got her hair done in a new style that day and paid some extra attention to other area's which is what makes it so unusual to me.

Im pretty laid back normally but this whole scenario just has a funny feeling to it so what do you think?

2006-09-17 05:43:29 · 31 answers · asked by se7en 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going through a very tough time in my life both realtionship and careerwise.So,when I look back and see the people I have chosen or the choises I made eventually all hurted me.
Now I like a guy,and his beahaviour is also hurting me.So how can I control this hurting chain?

2006-09-17 05:43:27 · 8 answers · asked by Annie R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

They need love, clothing, food and all my time. I don't have the money to provide all there needs. I'm so hurt I don't know if I'm giving them the love they need. I'm trying to go to school and work, But I'm starting to feel like giving up on everything, help me?

2006-09-17 05:41:59 · 20 answers · asked by Reality 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-17 05:41:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what would you put to finish the sentence?

2006-09-17 05:41:43 · 4 answers · asked by julean33 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had been letting my daughter "chat" on chatfamily.com, but there was somebody flirting with her last night claiming to be 11! Now, how many 11 year old boys think a girl is "hot" because she owns horses?!Please don't send crude answers, I would like for her to be able to go online without all this bad stuff. Not myspace.com either....my daughter is truly offended by what the guy said. She is only interested in horses and her studies to become a vet.....she just wanted to meet other enthusiast.

2006-09-17 05:41:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

at that college campus a few weeks ago? Killed his 2 sons and himself in the parking lot, never heard why?

2006-09-17 05:38:38 · 3 answers · asked by tamilynn 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this guy, but he's way older than me. How many years do you consider to be too old?

2006-09-17 05:38:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm falling in love with my classmate. i've known him since we were on the secondary school. but, i think he doesn't love me. he has some trouble with his mother and he hates her. but, he is so kind to me. i know he has the big problem but he won't tell it to anyone. if i ask him about his family he will act like he has no family. i love him more than everything and i wanna help him to get the solution for his problem. i also want he loves me too. what will you do if you are me?

2006-09-17 05:38:19 · 11 answers · asked by Extraordinary Girl 1 in Friends

Okay, Over the summer I worked at a summer camp, and I had this fling with a girl from Madrid Spain. Yes I did have a girlfriend..but see..because of her religion and our parents our relationship was secret. We've been dating for two and a half years..and we have not been on a date..the only time we could see each other was at school. So do you think I made the right choice. And now all we have been doing is fight..how can I make this immature game stop??

2006-09-17 05:36:40 · 16 answers · asked by Aaron I 1 in Singles & Dating

I find that it is easier 2 talk about problems to my male mates. Does anyone else find this?

2006-09-17 05:36:27 · 17 answers · asked by julianewcombe999 2 in Friends

2006-09-17 05:36:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

this guy who wants to date me told me im his b4 we even went out is this normal??my friend says this is limit phycho path....and hes only known me 4 aweek he told me hes very jealous....but when he said guys wanna date you in yr class right?I didnt say anything i just changed the subject then he said but your like mine...when he said this it was like he was stating the fact but at the same tylm asking me so that i can say yes im yours is this normal????

2006-09-17 05:34:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating