If a guy flirts with you and then you show him interest, he trys to avoid you for awhile. Then after time goes by the cycle begins again. Does this mean he thinks you're ugly. Even though he does look at you sometimes. Especially when you're one on one, he'll really look at you and smile. Someone I know said they think there's something there he's trying to avoid. What could this be? And does he think I'm ugly since he acts this way?
2006-09-17 05:44:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he has a self confidence problem, if he flirts and then backs away. Don't come on too strong, if you like him, let him show you where he wants this to go. No, it's not because you are ugly. It's more to do with him.
2006-09-17 05:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your beautiful :) I don't know what the problem is, these guys are obviously just jerks don't let them get to you. It might be because your shy, i don't know if this helps.. but im shy aswell and in highschool guys thought of me as 'the weird quiet girl' and used to act the same with me. I started getting boyfriends when i turned 18.. at that age guys tend to be more mature (there are still some jerks) and will take the effort to get to know you. Dont ever let anyone make you feel like your ugly.
2016-03-27 05:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may just be a natural flirt and that is the way he is with all women. Maybe he flirts with you but doesn't want to date you. It doesn't mean that you are ugly at all it just means that he may be physically attracted to a different type of person. I'm sure you wouldn't want him to actually date you just for the sake of dating and then tell you I'm really sorry but I'm not interested in any kind of relationship once your heart is involved. Right now just smile back and walk away there are other guys out there who know exactly what they want and you could be the one.
2006-09-17 05:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no. he does not think your ugly and you should never even consider that! What it probably is: he has so many feelings for you hes afraid to share them for fear you might not like him. or: he has nother girl and hes trying to get rid of her so that you two can be together but he doesnt want you to knwo about her. It could be one of those two things or both or maybe even something else. He would never try to be with you in the first place if he thought you were ugly. You should talk to him. He can answer your questions better then we can!
2006-09-17 05:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm curious to know why you think it means you're ugly. I'm betting it has nothing to do with the way you look. Maybe he thinks you're cute, just not his type. I'm betting that there are thousands of guys out there that are really nice to look at, but that you don't have anything in common with, so you wouldn't be interested in them either.
2006-09-17 05:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by Super Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you and is very shy and thinks that you may not like him...this may be because he is extremely insecure about himself. Secondly if someone thinks your ugly they wouldn't be looking at you and smiling. Thirdly, maybe it's just very friendly...I'm gay and I smile at girls all the time to be friendly. Fourthly, if he did think you are ugly why would you care...live your life and love yourself, your all you got babe...
Billy
2006-09-17 05:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by billyboysblue 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a right ******** with no consideration for other peoples feelings. He's playing games with you. Put him in his place and blow him off!
2006-09-17 05:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by sarah k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um... ive never met you so i dont know if you are what u say u r, but as a guy i think i can speak for other guys as well that we flirt, even if we arnt interested...
2006-09-17 05:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just flirting and having fun. If he is interested in you he will tell you.
2006-09-17 05:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by Je t'aime 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to make you want him, and its working. Flirt back, then blow him off, it will drive him crazy
2006-09-17 05:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by You_dumb_bastard 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋