We've been together 2 years in October. The thing is I know (now) that I really love him. He's the first bloke that's ever been really good to me. He's never hurt me. never let's me down. He buys me presents. He makes me laugh, feel good about myself. If I have a go at him, when I'm in a mood, he just walks away. Last week I had a one night stand, with some cocky bastard who's been pestering me for months. Unfortuneately my boyfriend has found out, from one of my so-called mates, and I think he's dumped me, because I can no longer get him on the phone and he won't answer his door. What can I do?
2006-09-17 05:59:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well telling you that you should have thought of him before you had sex with the other guy is not helpful at this point because I am sure you know that.
Have you tried writing him? maybe he would read a letter or email from you. Just saying how you feel and how sorry you are. It may take him some time to get over it enough to move forward or he may have decided he can't get over it. If he feels it has to end because of your cheating then you have to respect that.
Sounds like a great guy and I am sorry you didn't see it before.I hope for your sake that he will listen to you and talk it out. He may just be to hurt right now to look at you as hard as that is to hear.
2006-09-17 06:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by kimnwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really f**ked up. This amazes me. Why do women treat a good guy like s**t, and then have a one-night-stand with a guy that even they think is a cocky bastard?
He is right to dump you. Don't make this same mistake again with the next guy.
2006-09-17 06:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would your bf want to have a gf who does one-night stands with some cocky bastard who's been pestering her for months???
2006-09-17 06:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that "cocky bastard" played you for a sucker! and now you have no boyfriend, that was a test and you failed. get out the ice cream cause your goin to be alone for awhile
as for your boyfriend, dont keep harassing him some guys need time away to vent. and after that period is gone and he still wants nothing to do with you, then you need to respect it and leave it alone and next time you find another boyfriend, tell that bastard and any others hands off!
2006-09-17 07:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well : according in what you can do is just forget him and move
on with life . May be an right person will come because alot times
it takes smartness from girls to understand about dumping
boyfriends some what mistreats her as such an problem see
I am not like that okay?
2006-09-17 06:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I am not going to bash you or call you a disrespectful name. You made a mistake..a big one to be sure..but who hasn't.
You need to understand that you have killed the trust in your relationship.
He doesn't trust you and so he will not believe anything you tell him right now.
You are going to have to let him calm down.
I would simply leave him a message telling him that I loved him (that is if you really do) & to call you when he is ready to talk.
Then leave him alone. I know this will be hard but once he calms down he will want to talk to you. But you will have to give him his space.
2006-09-17 11:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl use this as a learning experience for the next time. You goofed but it is not the end of the world. There are a lot of good men out there. good luck!
2006-09-17 06:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by norsmen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have THE TALK with him, and it's right of him to get mad after all when you were going out with him, how could you cheat on him by having a 1 night stand with another guy, try and explain the situation to him and see the way your luck goes.
2006-09-17 06:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by ridhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is not what you want to hear but you cheated on him and now he is upset and angry as he doesnt understand why? i would give him time to calm down and forget what you did and maybe he will think about what you had,if he wont answer to you why dont you try and write him a letter explain and tell him exactly how you feel,it might work good luck
2006-09-17 08:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by sam* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You silly girl - why would you sacrifice everything you had with this top bloke for a bit of slap and tickle? If he has dumped you can you blame him?? You cheated and you got caught - unlucky
2006-09-17 06:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by Emerelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋