EVERYONE SAYS U WOULD BE SUCCESSFULL IN UR LIFE WHEN A GIRL COMES IN UR LIFE BUT I AM SPEAKING THE TRUTH I DON'T KNOW HOW TO TALK TO A GIRL UPTILL NOW I HAVE NEVER FIGURED IT OUT BY NOW I AM INTROVERT BOY BY NATURE I WAS AWAY FROM THE WORRLD FOR 8 YEARS OF MY LIFE I WAS GOING TO SCHOOL AND COMING BACK HOME I DIDN'T FLIRT IN MY LIFE I DON'T KNOW ONLY WHAT IT MEANS I AM A PERSON WHO LOVES ONLY HIS COMPUTER SO EVERYONE CALL ME A FREAK AM I A FREAK IN TRUE SENSE
2006-09-17 06:02:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you really need to get out more, go out find someone for u, just go up to a girl and talk to her don't be shy if not ask someone close to you to help you out
2006-09-17 06:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by dililmuneca09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you may be a freak for sure.... but there are guys & girls who love only the freak....There's no fun in life if every thing goes right all the time...there should be thrilling moments in life....& ofcourse being a freek is not a bad thing to ignore...it works out sometimes... so don't pretend or don't avoid being a freak.....Freaking is is your own style.....so always be urself that wuld make to be unique from other normal guys...always girls like an unique man...honestly trust me....Freaking is Fun get along with it....u'll definitely find a girl for urself.....wshing u all the success ......keep it up freak
2006-09-17 13:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by CINDERELLA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a freak, just shy. As for virginity, save it for someone you love, preferably your wife since you can only give it away once. There is no rush to give it away. Don't think about what other guys say. If your heart gets broken it is you who will suffer. As for meeting girls, you can go to places where you think you will meet a girl of similar interests. Eg. if you are religious, try to meet a girl at your place of worship. Just pray first and after you can scope out the scenery. When you are going to speak to a girl tell her that you are not used to doing that sort of thing and you are feeling shy. She'll feel good knowing that you're not a "player." Tell her that she seems like a nice person and you want to get to know her better. If you are too shy for this even, ask a friend or family of the girl to tell her you like her but you're too shy. You can even write secret admirer notes for a girl, saying what you like about her but you're too shy to meet her as yet. Ask one of your friends to deliver notes for her and let the friend observe her reactions or ask her for her opinion. If it's favourable, make a personal appearance one day and give her a flower. Above all, just be yourself. A girl must like you for who you are. Just take it one day at a time. You will get better with practice. When we were babies we had to learn how to do everything. Similarly, you can take baby steps with this issue until you get better at it.
2006-09-19 13:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by Hema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a freak, and success doesn't come with love. Whoever told you that doesn't know what they are talking about. Quit stressing over it, you will find the right girl one day. And the virgin part, that is good! You are supposed to wait until you are married to have sex. Good Luck!
2006-09-17 13:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting people is a skill that you can gain with practice. You should put yourself in public places and force yourself to talk to people. You may be uncomfortable at first but after time you will be more and more comfortable. Also, don't look for a girl, look for friends. The girls will come and go but friends will last for ever and they will help you with your confidence.
2006-09-17 13:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO Mr.VIRGIN!!!!!!!!! Now frstly who in the wrld tld u dat it is neccessary 2 b in luv 2b successful????????????? Success comes more wen u put ur mind in creative thinking than thinking abt wen ur gonna loose ur viginity!!!!!!!!!!!! As 4 nvr flirting arnd.......who knws sum grl sum day mite like u solely 4 dat!!!!!!!! & nope ur not a freak. BTW more thn 50% of indian teenager r virgins so u need not worry much.
2006-09-17 15:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by nicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKay heres the deal. Just because you have been away from chicks (like me) :) dosn't mean you can't talk to them go see differnt places such as bars, clubs, chuches whatever is your thing. and if you just so happen to mean someone then you will know what to say.(worked for me:)
2006-09-17 13:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you will fall in love!!! Being a virgin isn't bad. i wish i was honestly. You'll find someone. U're not a freak. Find a girl who loves her computer just as much as you do!
2006-09-17 13:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Future Mrs. Beuerlein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen i am 15 i am in school love is the worst thing stay away from it do an arranged marriage never flirt and all ,if u want we can chat about this
even i am an virgin okay.
from niki
2006-09-18 12:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIrst you are not a freak second finding a female that likes you for you and who you are and your intrest will come along. promise there is a girl for you there. i belive is some one out there for every one my advise is just be yourself get out alittle more and have fun..hope it helps...ps computers are fun..
2006-09-17 13:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋