Family & Relationships - 15 September 2006

I got married to a nice man, who I now have a child with. But my marriage was based off a rebound. I still love my ex very much. I have a child with ex as well. I am not with ex anymore because we had alot of financial and other stress factors in there. My husband is good to me. But I love him ina freindship roomate sort of way. My ex never cheated or did anything bad. He was a good guy. But we were young. And didnt know how to handle ourselves. I cant forget ex or stop my feelings. I am not sexually atracted to husband at all. And yearn for my ex. I guess I want to know what others would do in my situation, and some advice would be great. I have not gone back to my ex because I do not want to hurt my husband and for stability reasons regarding my kids. We are local and hub works local, ex is in military in virginia. Ex wants to work it out, husband is content with me and I am torn on what to do. Have two kids one with each and they are a huge factor in my choice. Someone please help!!

2006-09-15 18:46:44 · 12 answers · asked by angiesnotshy11083 1 in Marriage & Divorce

First off....I'm 11. My friend Mike hacked into a gurl named Jade's screenname and said it was her and said she thought I was hot. But I found out it wasn't, her it was Mike. I felt like someone ripped out my heart because I had a crush on her for a year! She always would give me High fives and stuff in the hall in skool....but now that I told her what happened, she doesn't even pay any bit of attrntion 2 me. She just walks by me acting like nothing ever happened and I'm not even alive! I sat across from her at lunch, and not once looked at me or said a thing 2 me! Wat do I do???

2006-09-15 18:46:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-15 18:45:57 · 13 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Family

like i love this guy dearly--but as a friend--but most guys dont want a loving friendship--is that possible 4 a guy? or can they not seperate the two?

2006-09-15 18:44:53 · 13 answers · asked by baby-face 2 in Singles & Dating

and was it fun? weird?
awkward? blow your mind fantastic?

2006-09-15 18:43:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is a guy that i really like and he is always trying to get me to talk to him. also, i tell all my friends that i love them but he didnt know and i told him i loved him and he said he loved me too.

2006-09-15 18:41:44 · 14 answers · asked by Sierra D 1 in Friends

something else??

2006-09-15 18:40:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine messed around with a guy and he ended up popping her cherry and that's all that they did... she told me that he couldn't get his penis inside of her all the way but he did manage to pop her cherry(hymen)...

Is she still considered a virgin? or not?.... please explain cause I'm not sure about the whole situation...

I told her no she wasn't a virgin because she was penetrated but I could be wrong...

2006-09-15 18:40:55 · 31 answers · asked by ~DANiELLE~ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was on his computer and i found that hes still posting adds on these personal websights ..like .. hotmatchup, myspace. etc. dont i have a reason to feel sick when i read this stuff. i confront him about it and he gets defensive. tells me im not aloud on his computer anymore.. the computer i gave him. its not like we are just dating either . we have lived together for 3 years now. he makes me feel like im being stupid . and out of line for even saying anything to him about it. am i wrong?

2006-09-15 18:40:28 · 12 answers · asked by subliminal_messenger1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 18:40:19 · 14 answers · asked by Naty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

gimme some intelligeant answers, which should make me think over

2006-09-15 18:40:16 · 9 answers · asked by czar 1 in Singles & Dating

together and we were 15 minutes late and they were almost through eating when we arrived!!!! We had not seen them in awhile and were kind enough to drive to their town. we did not let them know that it hurt our feelings.........but I am still upset and am thinking of letting them know it, this is not the first time it has happened!!!!!!!

2006-09-15 18:39:06 · 10 answers · asked by ladynamedjane 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend's ex-boyfriend called me many times and i wanna get to know him more. May i?
I live in the same boarding house with my friend

2006-09-15 18:38:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Trust me from experiance every one looks nothing like there avatar maybe every one in a million only because they logg on for a second since they probley have lives but thats it. I think if your uglyer than the possible avatar u can create you either show your real photo or you get the gray smile nuff said.

2006-09-15 18:37:31 · 18 answers · asked by Jr 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 18:37:22 · 30 answers · asked by GONE 1 in Friends

How come guys always try to see how far they can get? They can't just give you a kiss goodnight. They have to try to push further and further... it's just sort of disrespectful.

2006-09-15 18:36:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-09-15 18:36:41 · 1 answers · asked by Dee T 1 in Family

I have been with this guy for almost 2 years now and we are hitting a rough patch in are relationship. About two weeks ago I found out he was on a dating website pretending to be avaible and when I asked him about it he said he filled it out cuz he thought I sent him those websites.. Then about a week ago he started downloading naked girls on to are computer...
What is going on?...

2006-09-15 18:36:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-15 18:35:53 · 9 answers · asked by Special nobody 5 in Friends

There's this guy who is courting me for months now and I admit that I like him but I want to answer him in cute ways that he couldn't expect.. Any suggestions?

2006-09-15 18:35:22 · 16 answers · asked by hotlipz 2 in Singles & Dating

sometimes it aint long---anybody know what i mean?

2006-09-15 18:32:32 · 18 answers · asked by baby-face 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 18:32:01 · 17 answers · asked by sarasingergirl 3 in Singles & Dating

The girl is a very close friend who I know through family. She is three years younger than me. I'm pretty sure I'm not her type. Is there anything I can do or say, without making the situation awkward, to see how she feels about me? Any advice would be very much appreciated.
We have hung out with each other usually with other people, but just the two of us only once. When we did hang out, I noticed that she was pretty quiet that night.


By the way, I am very shy when it comes to women.

2006-09-15 18:31:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been friends with this girl for 6 yrs. my character is hard to accept but i thought she would, like my other friends. turns out that she backstabs me and everyone else. apparently, she treats our frenship as a joke and laughed about me to my other friend last yr.
in front of me she's sweet and all that but inside, she's damn jealous of me(my other friends knew this before i did) cuz i'm pretty and good in my studies.
from the outside, she's pretty, graceful and sweet, that's why guys like her, while i'm loud. but it's so sick that she's so two-faced. her vindictiveness makes her look like a bug to me! i'm so hurt at how she actually views me. i sincerely view her as a fren and here she is, hating me while treating me well on the outside. it's disgusting to find out that a trusted friend is a double-crossing, arrogant hypocrite.
my friends tell me to forget it cuz the world is full of these insecure, selfish pple. true but it only makes me worry how the real world is like.

2006-09-15 18:30:38 · 13 answers · asked by mondo 2 in Friends

i am really interested in the future and am dying to know who im going to marry....SO is there a way i can find that out without all the voodoo and psychic stuff.

2006-09-15 18:30:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my girlfriend very much. we have been going out for just over 4 months. I feel a very strong connection with her and I can see myself with her for many years to come. She has told me she loves me very much and that she sees herself with me for a long time. is it too early to propose?

2006-09-15 18:30:20 · 18 answers · asked by im_my_own_number_1fan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-15 18:29:02 · 19 answers · asked by Rebecca 2 in Singles & Dating

For the past 4 years of our marriage, I have used the internet and female toys as a way of satisfying myself. This is unknown to my wife, who suddenly has shown an interest in using toys in the bedroom. I'm really worried that it will hurt our relationship if I let her know about my secret at this point. Also, I don't know if I'm comfortable doing this with her, as I have become accustomed to my own personal form of stress-relief. How do I handle this situation...?

2006-09-15 18:28:06 · 23 answers · asked by MICHAEL S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when i kiss girls i get an erection really fast and i don't want the girl to know that i have an erection but i can't stand or sit appropreatly when kissing them is there a way to controll your erection or does it really matter if the girls feel your erection?????

2006-09-15 18:26:20 · 25 answers · asked by Selvester 1 in Singles & Dating

and how do you deal with it?

2006-09-15 18:25:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce