First off....I'm 11. My friend Mike hacked into a gurl named Jade's screenname and said it was her and said she thought I was hot. But I found out it wasn't, her it was Mike. I felt like someone ripped out my heart because I had a crush on her for a year! She always would give me High fives and stuff in the hall in skool....but now that I told her what happened, she doesn't even pay any bit of attrntion 2 me. She just walks by me acting like nothing ever happened and I'm not even alive! I sat across from her at lunch, and not once looked at me or said a thing 2 me! Wat do I do???
2006-09-15 18:46:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OKAY...I'm a man...I WOULD NEVER CHUCK ROCKS OR ANYTHING AT A GURL! OH AND MIKE APOLOGIZED...AND I TOOK IT LIKE A MAN.
2006-09-15 18:50:44 · update #1
oh and i never told her that i liked her...so yea
2006-09-15 18:58:01 · update #2
look first you don't be friends with that guy who STOLE the girls name and second say somthing too her like hello or how about I'M SORRY!!! just tell her the way you feel and just be happy if she even talks too you!!! And maybe she will be your friend agian.
2006-09-15 18:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by zan c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, I'd not give Mike the time of day anymore.
As for Jade, give her some time. This might've startled her that you were crushing on her...she may be having the same feelings and just hadn't sorted them out yet.
I'm not trying to lead you on, but USUALLY, a girl will ignore (aka: play hard to get) when she's crushing on someone, waiting for the guy to make the first move.
But, considering that this happened after you telling her about what Mike did, give her some time, and see if she starts acting like her old self again is all you can do.
2006-09-16 01:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Mike is your friend? Anyway, she may just be a little embarrased knowing that you have a crush on her. You may just have to be cool for a little while. If she likes you back, then she will start talking to you again. If not, then you will meet many more girls in your lifetime so try not to get too down. I know it hurts right now but the more you dwell on it, the worse it will get.
2006-09-16 01:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by GMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not know how to deal with you liking her. Just tell her that you can like her as a friend and that you can respect any desions that you guys make just try to talk to her about it and see what the problem is. do it in a setting that is both comfortable for you both
good luck.
2006-09-16 01:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like guilt by association now she was very embaressed by this event and just wants to forget it happend and move on what ever she had for you sounds like its gone not all girls are like this maby something very personal has been reveled to you that she wasnt ready to tell you dont worry there will be more girls out there and next time tell your friend to stay out of other peoples business its wrong
2006-09-16 02:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by silkvixen80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEING 11 IS HARD .....BUT YOU MUST JUST STAND TALL AND DON'T TAKE THIS SO SERIOUS,,, IF YOU SHRUG IT OFF AND SEND THIS SITUATION ON A SINKING RAFT THEN IT WILL ALL END AS SOON AS YOU LET IT GO......YOU ARE IN CONTROL NOT THEM,,, AND MAKE SURE THAT YOU TELL YOUR GIRL HI,,,, AND ACT COOL AS YOU CAN... THE MORE YOU STUMBLE OVER THIS... THE MORE YOU STUMBLE OVER THIS.... GOT IT???
2006-09-16 01:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by cosmoestyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on with your life, and look forward to your 12th birthday, because none of this crap really matters in the grand scheme of things.
2006-09-16 01:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you are 11. If she is ignoring you now, maybe she is embarassed to know that you like her. I know it hurts now but you will get over it.
2006-09-16 01:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off he did not "hack" he stole or asked and second u need to kick his *** right away since he screwed u and ur ****** find another crush its not hard
2006-09-16 01:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by Jr 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
kid ur ELEVEN i mean i altho i am just 3 years older than u.... i don't feel like i get my heart ripped our wen a guy doesnt look at me..... just think this: ur too good for the girl.... if u dunt look at her. she'll wonder y and THEN she'll look at u. is that wat u want?
2006-09-16 01:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋