i've been friends with this girl for 6 yrs. my character is hard to accept but i thought she would, like my other friends. turns out that she backstabs me and everyone else. apparently, she treats our frenship as a joke and laughed about me to my other friend last yr.
in front of me she's sweet and all that but inside, she's damn jealous of me(my other friends knew this before i did) cuz i'm pretty and good in my studies.
from the outside, she's pretty, graceful and sweet, that's why guys like her, while i'm loud. but it's so sick that she's so two-faced. her vindictiveness makes her look like a bug to me! i'm so hurt at how she actually views me. i sincerely view her as a fren and here she is, hating me while treating me well on the outside. it's disgusting to find out that a trusted friend is a double-crossing, arrogant hypocrite.
my friends tell me to forget it cuz the world is full of these insecure, selfish pple. true but it only makes me worry how the real world is like.
2006-09-15 18:30:38 · 13 answers · asked by mondo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what should i do in such a situation?
2006-09-15 18:34:27 · update #1
The real world is full of such kinda of ppl and backstabbers...you got to be carefull in every step.
Its a funny thing..most of the backstabbers were once our dearest friends.
But once you know that your friend is not worth,you got to leave her cause thinking about her all the time will only cause mental anxiety to yourself and make you feel sad.
Just remember ,its not worth for you to feel sad for your friends actions.Your worth more.
2006-09-15 18:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the most part I tend to stick to a core group of friends so things like this won't happen. Unfortunately there's just no stopping it sometimes. Don't feel bad though, it sounds like she lost a good friend, so in the end she's the one to loss!
Don't put your guards up, don't change who you are (until you can see your faults clearly) if people seem to like you for the most part, it means you a good person! Sometimes you bump into jealous butt-heads, take it with a grain of salt (life is full of them, but it's not worth passing on all the good people).
2006-09-15 18:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by The Bowling League Champion!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of this will matter after graduation, trust me. Find some new friends. Life is not about how pretty you are outside, in the end it matters how good of a person you were on the inside.
2006-09-15 18:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are right. I have yet to find someone I can really trust. I have been BURNED forever by girls growing up, and even now as an adult. I learned early on to never trust a woman and keep your enemies close. The few women I do trust still don't know everything about me. It's too dangerous.
2006-09-15 18:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I also had this problem so one day i came home from school sobbing because i had to tell her to never talk to me or even come over again.she did the same thing so you wanna know what to do tell her your not her friend any more.Trust me you can find another friend that is more kind and more generous with your feelings trust me I found my new best friend.
2006-09-15 18:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mariah J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advise is to remain friendly but realize that you can not trust her. Don't let her know your personal information. Having one good friends is better than a ton a friends that you can't trust. It sounds like you have people in your life that really care about you, you DON'T need her.
2006-09-15 18:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by Betty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your friend everything you just wrote in your question. Let her know how you feel about the way she's acting and then don't bother to be friends with her anymore. Good Luck and I'm sorry - not everyone in the world is like that though.
2006-09-15 18:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry about what this person did to you. But your friends are right, just move on and stay away from her. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people in the world like this. Just be more careful on who you trust.
2006-09-15 18:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop worrying you sound like you can take care of yourself perfectly well. IF a friend shows that they are not a friend stop treating her as a friend and keep your distance.
2006-09-15 18:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by david k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SHE ANY YOUR REAL FRIEND BECAUSE FRIEND DONT TALK ABOUT FRIEND SO JUST LET HER GO
SORRY BUT THATS LIFE THERE IS ALOT OF PPL OUT THERE LIKE THAT
2006-09-15 18:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by kingkong9274 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋