like i love this guy dearly--but as a friend--but most guys dont want a loving friendship--is that possible 4 a guy? or can they not seperate the two?
2006-09-15 18:44:53 · 13 answers · asked by baby-face 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, i have a crush with my friend a few month back. it took a while for me to separate between loving freindship and love! men and women's brain are wired differently. that's why we men, take a lot of time to differentiate between loving friendship and love.
now, i love the girl as much as a friend would do, and i am cool with the loving friendship idea!
BTW, it's difficult for us men to understand and digest this loving-friendship idea with girls! give your friend some time for him to understand!
(p/s: loving friendship is cooler than love actually)
2006-09-15 19:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by immortality1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually there are mixed up feelings. Things can get complicated and ruin a friendship. You may be able to control your feelings, but he might not (or vice versa). Yes, it is possible, but risky. You may consider drawing a line as to what is appropriate and what is not. There is nothing wrong with loving a dear friend. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-09-15 18:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by FoodLOVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met a guy 10 mos. ago. He has just now gotten what I've been saying all along. He's my friend. I love him. He love's me. He comes over and fixes things. I go over and cook him things. We have late night booty calls. It's a perfect world. To answer your question, men are thick headed. They don't know a good thing unless it slaps them in the head. Literally.
2006-09-15 18:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by deytripper_yeah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I think guys can seperate the two. Give em a little credit.
2006-09-15 18:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie Mae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you women ignorant of men
Where do you get the idea, that there is not an individual amoung us .
I refuse to answer the content of this question , on the grounds of it ignorance .
2006-09-15 18:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by kevin d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's okay to have a pal... yet ideas it that he's not your boyfriend... for you the precedence on your husband ought to be plenty plenty greater advantageous than your chum.... so in case you could tell your chum which you have a husband... then, y won't be in a position to you tell your hubby which you have a pal???? come on... if he gets to appreciate from another source, that is going to truly destroy your married life... and you will not have the skill to circulate everywhere.... yet enable me ask you a question first... y do you pick a guy chum....??? cos i assume all your desires may be happy mutually with your hubby... we, thats why you married him appropriate???? in any case in case you have one... attempt to maintain a solid volume of distance....and dont draw close around mutually with your chum, chucking the hubby out of your lifelike a valueless concern..... bear in ideas this, in case you have a sparkling concious, tell on your husband... he will unquestionably understand which may be considering which you lose interest so which you pick somebody to speak to... nicely a minimum of i might have understood.... merely dont conceal something out of your hubby... you could conceal many stuff out of your guy chum..... yet a NO NO in case of Husband..,...
2016-10-15 01:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 2 male bestfriends, whom i love very dearly and we never even talked about sex with each other. we do however discuss each others sex lives with each other, but nothing more than that, so yes it is possible.
2006-09-15 18:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can, but I heard that if you were willing to sleep with the guy...he would. So if that is true, as long as you can accept that, then you are good to go.
2006-09-15 18:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they have a hard time deciphering which head to think with, so you tell me.
2006-09-15 18:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen the movie "When Harry met Sally?"
Watch it, and you will get your answer.
2006-09-15 18:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋