Family & Relationships - 14 September 2006

I am dating my overall boss in my company. I had a interview last week for new position inside my company, but in a different division. After the interview, my boyfriend (the overall boss) and I went out for dinner. Then the people who interviewed me, they saw us. Of course, nobody supposes to know we are dating… as he is married but devoicing at the moment. My interview went really well (I think). The people interviewed me , they are good work colleges with my boyfriend. Have been seen together, not it will be a positive thing for the new job… or ??? help please? Thanks.

2006-09-14 03:44:28 · 18 answers · asked by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex is starting to look good. Nothing was wrong with our relationship, I just wanted my freedom. Now I don't mind whether I have it or not since I'm in a very good place now.

And I also feel uncomfortable around his friends. They're good ppl but in ways, they're a bad influence. He use to do drugs and he's kind of afflicted 'cos of his past and I could never really understand him 'cos I've had a good life.

Other than that, I really really like him. Now what? Should I talk to him again? I know for sure he still likes me very much but is staying away from me 'cos I asked him too.

2006-09-14 03:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by pacific_crush 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 03:43:49 · 16 answers · asked by Barbara s 2 in Family

2006-09-14 03:43:44 · 9 answers · asked by Nina 2 in Singles & Dating

Before my husband and I started dating we were intimit but the people that we were then we thought that we knew nothing was going to come of it. We hung out every weekend as ONLY friends but with benefits. We started to get feelings for eachother but as far as I knew nothing too serious. One weekend instead of hanging out with him even though I said that I would I met up with an ex and we had sex. I told who is now my husband what I had done and it completely broke his heart. I had really hurt him because he started to have deeper feeling for me at that time and I had thought we were just friends having a good time together. He says I told him a specific time that we were supposed to hang out but I don't remember doing that but it hurt him even more. We are married now and have been for over a year with a 5 month old son. He still feels hurt everyday because of what I did so long ago. I have been appoligizing ever since the day that it I made this mistake. What more can I do?

2006-09-14 03:42:32 · 13 answers · asked by babe112083 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is the guy and I like him. In the beginning we were getting real close and he was really sweet and openly interested. However and it always happens after we started having sex he slowly put the breaks on this blossoming new romance. He is still really sweet and we talk all the time but I feel like now we are stuck here. We aren't moving in any direction. He is affectionate and is always using terms of endearment with me BUT I don't know if there are any real feelings behind it. I want to b a couple. My friends think I should stop giving him the goods and I think so too but that is only going to make me suffer as well. (Is that the only way?!?!) I think he has gotten comfortable and has put me in convenience land. I need to shock and awe him somehow but I don't know what to do. I am not a needy complainer so I'm not going to start whining about this to him cause all he is going to do is shut down. Anybody else been in this situation? I'd appreciate any advice you got.

2006-09-14 03:41:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Male 33 married and not happy. My wife and I are both not happy for different reasons, we want it to work although it seems we spend alot of time fighting. We have tried counseling yet still fighting, she is aware of my concerns and I am aware of hers. She now thinks an open marriage might help? We do love each other and do not want to separate... Will this help.... have any ladies entered a situation like this... did it work?

2006-09-14 03:40:55 · 8 answers · asked by on2try 2 in Marriage & Divorce

without hurting her feelings,its really affecting relashoneship

2006-09-14 03:40:40 · 54 answers · asked by dope 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

her ex faked his own death so she would leave him alone then went and went out with her best friend what should i tell her how can i help her

2006-09-14 03:40:07 · 14 answers · asked by somebodyssexygirl 3 in Friends

it has been a year, what all would i be able to do. or can i even file for divorce

2006-09-14 03:40:04 · 9 answers · asked by snetta1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know that my man would never cheat on me and that he loves me but for some reason I cannot stop being insecure - even after 5 years! He has never done anything to make me suspect he will but I just keep imagining him with other women and things like that. Its driving me mad and its driving him mad aswell! I don't want him to get really upset with me so how do I stop doing this to myself?!?

2006-09-14 03:38:34 · 19 answers · asked by shepherdess7980 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 03:37:09 · 21 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, I'm Josy and I'm 26. Unfortunately I never slept with a boy, so I'm still virgin. I feel already old. Am I crazy? Is somebody of you still a virgin?

2006-09-14 03:37:05 · 81 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well to put it this way..... me and my boyfriend just had a fight.....
I want to go out Friday night (with one of my girlfriends) I asked him if he wanted to come but he said no.... So I asked him if it is ok if I went and he flipped out. He said he is going to do the same but to the extrimes and I know what that means..... he is going to get another girl..... He can go out with his friends and I can't say anything but not me then I'm going to cheat?
Now he said were through.....

What must I do?

2006-09-14 03:36:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Brother is seperated from his wife and his wife and him do have a child.. well she won't let him see the kid.. She is addicted to cocaine .. she's not a fit mother.. How can I contact the social services online?

2006-09-14 03:35:00 · 4 answers · asked by amber22davis 1 in Family

Just wondering how often this has occurred. It is sad but I am sure it does happen.

2006-09-14 03:34:37 · 14 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey there ppl!!..^_^

I'm Josh . I'm 15 and My Exams have approached me.

I know that my concentration S-U-C-K-S!!!
Whenever I try to study, my thoughs just float in a OCEAN of thoughs!!

I think about this, I think about that ,I think about my crush and I think about LOADS of other stuff!!

I told my problem to my tuition teacher.

He told me that I needed to meditate. He told me that I had to meditate and Concentrate only on studies, as our mind, works like a swing............sometimes, our thoughs go to this..........sometimes to that.......

Now, Heck!! how do I meditate??

Please help me out and tell me what I shud do, to increase my concentration and to concentrate on ONLY one thing, if I have to.

Advice and help are happily accepted....^_^

Thanks a lot ppl!!..^_^

Ps: Do you know that I love you all?? I really DO!!

2006-09-14 03:34:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is going to be in the Fall or Winter.2008
My fiancee and I are paying for wedding
My party (the brides) is coming from Mexico
We live near Detroit metro area.
Any wedding planner's ideas would be really helpful.
Please only serious replies. Offensive answers will be reported.
Thanks so much!

2006-09-14 03:34:10 · 12 answers · asked by jeniel17 3 in Weddings

I have read a lot answers on this subject, so I am not sure myself. I have met a wonderful lady that lives in the same state as me, but she lives about 200miles away. We talk everyday, she calls me in the morning, and I call her in the evening. We have talked about everything we can think of, and we meet when we can. So even with all this comunatcation has anyone seen this work, or is there something more I should be thinking about?

2006-09-14 03:33:52 · 11 answers · asked by petey43 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 03:33:46 · 5 answers · asked by leena k 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 03:33:14 · 15 answers · asked by jackie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there's this one girl at school who just totally looks dwon at me. i'm nice to her and everything, but she still gives me a nasty look, thinks she's better than me, and is just totally mean. what do i do this these type of people?

2006-09-14 03:31:59 · 48 answers · asked by bubblemilktea 2 in Family

2006-09-14 03:30:37 · 22 answers · asked by rainbow 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I've been wanting a baby, but my husband's not ready yet. He says that he thinks he will be in a couple of years. I'm trying really, really hard to be patient, but all I can think about is us having our first child. I'm trying to keep myself occupied but it's not helping.

We have two dogs, I'm going to school (I'll graduate next year with my Bachelor's degree), I work full time, I'm active in church, and I do independent research.

He's going to get a new job soon, so I won't have to work and we'll still have a great income. We've sat down and wrote out financial plans (to save for the baby), get a college fund started, and I've been working on my health. After I graduate I'm going to get into an "all online" graduate school program so if he does want to have the baby a little earlier than we're planning, I'll still be able to stay at home.

I'm still having trouble waiting...what can I do? I don't want to seem like I'm sad to him, it's not fair to him...

2006-09-14 03:30:23 · 13 answers · asked by Tea_Girl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I understand the concept of cooking and cleaning...just not as it applies to me...

Men are like coffee...the best ones are rich, warm and can keep you up all night.

Why do I have to get married? I didn't do anything wrong.

Don't assume I'm not into cheat meaningless sex...

Ran into my ex the other day, put it in reverse and hit him again.

All men are idiots...I married their King.

Behind every great woman.....is a man checking out her ***.

Nothing gets me in the mood like a man doing my dishes!!

Being unstable and bitchy is all part of my mystique :)

Damn right I'm good in the kitchen! I can eat for hours!!

Admitting your an asshole is the first step.

How come all the cool girls are lesbian

I only fake it so he'll buy me stuff.

I want it all and I want it smothered in chocolate and whipped cream!

Whisper my favorite words..."I'll buy it for you."

I know I know reported, amazingly though, I don't give a sh*t!!
Have a great day Ladies!!!!

2006-09-14 03:30:01 · 18 answers · asked by sasha 4 in Marriage & Divorce

recently (within the last year or two) it was put out by the media that livonia MI is the whitest city in america. how come we did'nt get to here what the blackest city or most mexican or indian? you get the point. the blak community would have **** if "they" would have put that out! (the blackest city) so why did white people say nothing? why ? because white people understand that all of that racist bullshit sould be over by now. my point is that we have to stop this separation. wake up! we all came from the same source and we are all related in some way or another. we need to get rid of the hate. it is our true enemy. everywhere, all around the world we are told to hate these people for that and tis country for that and so on. it has to come to an end or the world will.
"in god we trust"

2006-09-14 03:29:51 · 4 answers · asked by rock7768 1 in Family

me and my gf will fool around a lot and she sometimes stops me right before she peeks, some times she peeks but other times she stops me, she says that its to much and she cant handle it, what does this mean or is she lieing or what ladies please give me some info

2006-09-14 03:29:25 · 15 answers · asked by armorefelix 1 in Singles & Dating

He works in a painting shop and I've been liking him for 11 months and sometimes it looks like he does like me but I'm not shore. I'm 18 and I geuse he's about 23-26 I'm not shore. But the big thing is when I walk to the shop I pray and ask God to please let me see hom and places I go to at night and late at night when i go for a walk I see him, but it's everytime I ask I resieve. Why aren't we dating, or even talking to each other?

2006-09-14 03:29:13 · 8 answers · asked by bianca b 1 in Singles & Dating

I think this would benefit everyone....cuz men would be more apt to lick a clean shaven box than a real hairy one. That would lead to more female orgasms! Win/Win.

Im totally aginst the "bush" administration if ya know what i mean.

2006-09-14 03:28:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently started dating someone and we have hit it off very well so far. We're both in our late 30's and seem to have had our share of ups/downs in past relationships. Its been awhile since I have really clicked with someone like this (mentally and physically) and we are having a great time (he has expressed this to me as well). He found out recently that he may transfer overseas for an opportunity within his company. Its just the beginning stages of the possibility so I guess he has to weigh his options and see where things go, but my heart kind of dropped when he told me since I really like him and would like to see things progress. I know its too soon to express my feelings and I am tryinng to go with the flow and the here and now and "if its meant to be" mentality, but how can I be happy for him and supportive when the smile since we first met is still plastered to my face and I really wouldn't want him to leave?

2006-09-14 03:27:51 · 2 answers · asked by maria 2 in Singles & Dating