Hi, I'm Josy and I'm 26. Unfortunately I never slept with a boy, so I'm still virgin. I feel already old. Am I crazy? Is somebody of you still a virgin?
2006-09-14 03:37:05 · 81 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its great that you are a virgin,shame there arent a few more.
2006-09-14 03:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by Alfred E. Newman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey Josy - personally no Im not a virgin but just coz you are doesnt make you crazy!
In this day and age I think you should be applauded for lasting this long - you're obviously a stronger lady than many of us!
Its entirely up to you when you feel ready to take it to that level - whether it be in marriage or should you choose to do it before then, the choice is solely yours, and should only be made when you feel comfortable with it - not through pressure.
2006-09-14 04:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Josy, don't be worried about still being a virgin. I am not a virgin but I did wait until I met the man I want to spend the rest of my life with to loose it and it was worth the wait. I am 22 and I have been going out with my fiance for 5 years and I was still a virgin when he asked me to marry him. So you hold on for the right guy/girl and it will be worth the wait!!! You are not crazy!!
2006-09-14 04:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Josy! It's not crazy to be a virgin. You respect your body for the for the right father of your children. When the right time comes for you to meet the right person, everything will fall into place.
Remember the Aids epidemic. Do you want to risk your life because all your friends choose not to be a virgin! What does your mother think about you being a virgin?
2006-09-14 03:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by freelylucid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's great...but im guessing that you are still a virgin because you chose to be one ;) not because you can't find a guy lol... . No i don't think you are crazy, you probably just didn't find the right guy yet so it's all good. There are still a lot of people in this world that still remained a virgin so you needn't feel lonely lol.
Take care.
2006-09-14 03:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Josy..
let's see..
If it is a choice of yours you don't need to feel crazy. you know what is good for you.
But you use the word "unfortunately".
Does this mean that you want to sleep with a boy but you haven't had the chance so far? or maybe you had the chance but you didn't go for it because of other problems (such as child abuse)?
You have to tell a personal, legitimate choice from a "forced choice"...
2006-09-14 03:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not crazy but it isn't very common that someone your age is still a virgin. But it's a good thing and I'm really happy for you it's best to wait until you find the one you are going to spend the rest of your life with.
2006-09-14 03:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly ok to still be a virgin at 26. It's somewhat commendable. Hang in there until you find the man of your dreams and get married. You can then honestly wear the white dress, unlike most women who wear it because it's tradition knowing that they should have been wearing black or some other color.
2006-09-14 03:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by aguywithnothingbettertodo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so proud for you! That is fantastic. You are a standard all should follow.
For hundreds, even thousands of years people followed the moral to not have intercourse untill marriage, because it is an act that unites two into one.
only in the past few decades has it become super common to have multiple partners before marriage, or not marry at all.
Keep doin what your doing, and when you get married your husband will be blown away!!
2006-09-14 03:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by xrionx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Your doing the right thing! Hell I wish I was still a virgin!! Wait until you find the guy for you and you marry him. Then sex will be so much more satisfying and will mean something! Its a very special bond between two people. God will bless you for staying a virgin!! Stay a virgin!!
2006-09-14 03:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Josy, you're a Queen. You should be proud of it as I am proud of you, the term to use is FORTUNATELY and not unfortunately. I lost mine and I wish I never had, I'm 29 and have stopped casual sex for years now simply because the next time I want to have it should be when I'm married....to the lady of my dreams.
2006-09-15 05:44:55 · answer #11 · answered by Brains7733 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋