There's this girl at school who hates me?

Question

there's this one girl at school who just totally looks dwon at me. i'm nice to her and everything, but she still gives me a nasty look, thinks she's better than me, and is just totally mean. what do i do this these type of people?

Answer 1

kill her with kindness. don't give her any reason to dislike you! she's probably just jealous anyways and she'll look bad in the end if you're nothing but nice to her and she's nothing but mean

Answer 2

Give her the minimal attention she deserves. be polite when you have to, but that is all.

You are at school for approx one third of your day, five days out of seven and never in the holidays. Do the sums and give her a proportional amount of importance in you life.

So what if she gives you nasty looks. Just think of all the frown lines and sagged down mouth that using her muscles that way is going to give her in the not too distant future.

And as to thinking she is better than you....In what way could she possible be better. Brains? Money? Looks? They are all accidents of birth at best ( if any of those are what she has) and can disappear in a moment. What she cannot be is the essential you- a nice person!

I know this sort of thing hurts, even when we try not to let it. Find a picture of her. Slip it under your sheets where your feet go and leave it there.

Victory is yours!

Answer 3

Aha. The nicer you are to her, the meaner she'll get. If to validate herself she needs to put others beneath her, I'll bet you anything she hates to be ignored. So try that and do NOT under any circumstances let her bait you into kissing her *** again. Even if she kisses yours, that is only to draw you back into her sick game then she'll turn on you again. To thine own self be true, she should not be the one who makes or breaks you, YOU should be in control of your own reins. If someone is a jerk cut them loose asap otherwise it becomes a syndrome of sorts. She as persecutor and you as her scapegoat.

Listen carefully all young people: The only way to end a bad dynamic is to BREAK the bad dynamic, it cannot be fixed and that's a fact. Walk away soon as you smell trouble and don't look back because it will never ever change. Trying to curry favor with an abuser of any sort is textbook, try not to be one of those for your own mental health. Always remember you don't have to take that sort of abuse because you are the boss of yourself who can walk away no matter how scared you might be as you're doing it. You WILL get over it in record time (until the next one comes along).

Linda

Answer 4

Ignore the B! For real. No later than the hour you graduate, you will realize that 90% of the crap you deal with in school is nothing to sweat. If she wants to be a snot, let her. Be the better person and put your efforts into someone who is worth your time. It's those types of people you never think about after school anyway, so why waste your time?

Answer 5

Just be the better person. Ignore her. I can personally promise what comes around -goes around. Sometimes it takes longer than it should - but I promise that it will.

I am not just shy of 35 years old - and I just found out that the girl that used to look down on me - treat me like crap - ect.. .works at the drive through at a burger joint.

I am a very successful business person, business owner, mother, home owner, ect.. and this person that always thought she was better than me, works at a burger joint.

Hmmmm.... I bet when she saw me go through the drive through in my brand new car... wearing an $800 suit, she wasn't thinking she was so good.

Don't worry about her - you are the only one who can turn this into a motivator for yourself. Over time you will prove to the world that you are better than her - and others that are like her.

Go take the world by the horns.... You have the rest of your life to watch fate take its course.

Answer 6

I know that is really hurtful, its sad that there are really insecure people that are really hurting inside and they take it out on others. Everyone will experience what you are experiencing from time to time, whether at school or at work in the office. The important thing to understand is that you cannot change them. If this person has to be in your close proximity everyday, then just being yourself and being polite to them without trying to play games will be the best answer. Don't take her looks personally, its not YOU! It's her insecurity. From some reason she may be jealous, that is usually why people act that way, they feel threatened by you, its really stupid but it happens everyday.

Answer 7

Ignore her completely. You need to worry about other things in school other than if this person likes you or not. In the long run, whether or not she likes you does not matter.

In addition, nobody is better than the next person and they do not have the right to look down upon other people. Be the more mature person and move on with your life. She is not important to your success and your accomplishments. Ignore her.

Answer 8

Some chicks are just real snobs. to be honest you could probably spend the rest of your life kissing her a** and she will still be a B*t*h. so best thing to do is be tolerable. during your life span this will be one of many nasty people you meet. believe me they get worse as you get older. simply give her a sweet smile when you see her and it will drive her crazy. give her the occasional cute shoes or great hair color. she wont under stand why you are polite. but keep all comments about her minimal. these queen B****s can be ruthless, so be careful saying anything bad about her behind her back chances are she'll find out and make your life a living hell

Answer 9

you seem like a nice type of person...unless you want her attention because she's popular.you keep being nice to her, ignore the way she acts, and in the end it's you who's gonna be happy for doing the right thing.maybe she will discover that she was wrong about you, and my opinion is that by continuing to be nice to her you will prove that you are in fact much better than her.prejudice has never been a good thing.as for in general, stay true to yourself, no compromise, keep a good hold of your pride and self-worth, and be nice to people.if we'd all just try to be a little nicer the world would be a happier place and there wouldn't be so much sorrow and grief around.so be happy for being one of the few who keep this place still green and smiling :) good luck ;)

Answer 10

She's trash and you're nice.
It's as simple as that so why worry? It's normal for nice people to want everyone to like them but it's also normal for unpleasant people to look down on others. You are both behaving to type but the difference is that you feel upset by it and she doesn't give a damn. My advice is hang around people who make you feel good about yourself and forget about the rest. You have a duty to yourself to do things that keep you happy. You come first.

Answer 11

get some cookies from a bakery that come in a nice box and preferabbly has the name of the bakery on it so she thinks thats where the cookies really came from. then just enjoy eating those cookies as you are baking a special batch for her, chocolate chip cookies of course. and make sure its a good recipe so they taste really good so she will eat alot of them. but instead of using chocolate chips use chocolate flavored laxative, then leave it on her desk or somewhere else she will find it, and put a note on it addressed to her and say that you are a secret admirer. imagine how embarassed she will be at school and suddenly crapping her pants while sitting in class. LOL. she will be joke of the whole school after that. i cant remember the exact brand of laxative i used when i did it to a coworker that kept stealing my lunch but it comes in the form of a little chocolate bar, and it really worked good.