Family & Relationships - 14 September 2006

I have been single for almost 4 years and I feel so alone.

2006-09-14 17:42:47 · 9 answers · asked by spicyna 2 in Singles & Dating

Long story short. bf, father of my daughter, now ex, bf had prostate cancer. he saw a dr. out of town.

He needed a ride since he got a dwi and could not drive. we had gotten back together, and were planning on marrying.

I picked him up out of town. He had hickies all over his neck. I said not a word about them. But I thought of a plan. we had two hours to drive to dr.

it takes months to get an appt wth this dr. one hour into drive we stoppe for gas. I told him to pump and go pay. he told me to hold the rest of his money while he went into pay.

i held his two hundred dollars. he went into pay and i drove away. he put in twenty dollars of gas and had a twenty he took in.

he left his smokes in the car also. He had no cell phone, no money, no smokes and was told if he missed this appt. they would reschedule it.

yes cancer is bad, but so is cheating. and the money i kept was not stealing. it was child support he never paid. so am I a bad person for what I did to him

2006-09-14 17:42:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She says it will finally make me realize how uncomfortable they are, and if I want to see her in stockings that badly I'll do it. Not sure I can go there. Need some advice

2006-09-14 17:42:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can some one please explain why I should let my 12 year old son who continually speaks to his parents in a matter that unacceptable in any standard of society go to his friends house and hang out.

2006-09-14 17:41:48 · 18 answers · asked by aouija 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-14 17:41:24 · 2 answers · asked by CAM 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He says he is a physical trainer manager mainly soccer and he played two years for Toulouse and saint etienne born in Clermont Ferrant

2006-09-14 17:40:59 · 3 answers · asked by cille 1 in Friends

ok...so I recently told my ex boyfriend that I still loved him. He came over to see me and things went very well. That will be a week tomorrow and I havent heard from him yet. How long should I wait to call him? Or do I wait for him to call me? I dont know what to think or how to feel about everything. please give me some advice!

2006-09-14 17:40:57 · 15 answers · asked by mercedes b 1 in Singles & Dating

he will cheat on you or could he possibly change and be faithful if he really loves you more than he loved the other girlfriend??

2006-09-14 17:39:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No Kids. 8 year marriage. Own a house with $124K owed on the loan, appraising (she claims) for $150K. She wants the house, so she'll need to buy me out, as I understand it. She also says that to buy me out, she must pay half of the equity, which would be roughly $26K, minus realtors' fees of 5% (our guy would only take 2%). She also includes other fees that would bring the net amount to about $15K. Thus, to buy me out, she says, she'd owe me $7,500.

I aim to keep our car, so I'd need to pay her $4000; we'd also split her 401K ($2000 when cashed out). The way I see it, that means I should net $4,500 from the house + 401K ($7500 + $1000) minus the car ($4000). But she seems to think that she can essentially "force" me to accept property instead of cash. In other words, she could give me $4500 worth of furniture and appliances instead.

I don't want that; I NEED the money. This seems wrong to me. Is it? Is anything else in this scenario wrong? Thanks

Again - this is in Utah.

2006-09-14 17:38:43 · 7 answers · asked by johndietzel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I got it in August.But I have not gotten it since,it latsed me about 5 days,and i would like to know how long does it take for it to come back approximately for a barely starter??My sister says hers is about each some months,and she's 15 almost 16.My mom says hers is about each some weeks.I guess it depends on my body,amy I right?Please help me anyway.

2006-09-14 17:38:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We r 17 and 15 and have a 1 yr old son now she says she wants another one. And her parents dont want her on the pill so shes not yeah dumb parents.

2006-09-14 17:38:14 · 22 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

i have heard that not only the length and girth ahve an efect on the pleasure, but also the shape. i have been told time and time again that a downward left curve as well as an upward curve are more pleasurable than a completely staright one. Is this true?

2006-09-14 17:37:32 · 5 answers · asked by ivegotquestions_uvegotanswers 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy, and I think he likes me because he is always really nice to me, he makes conversations with me, and he occasionally walks me to my classes. I have been talking to him for about a week now, and we have a lot in common. I'm starting to like him to now, but he's an inch or two shorter than me. I have always imangined myself being with someone taller than me, but I guess it doesn't really matter.

Should I go out with him..if he asks me? (This would be my first boyfriend), and what is your experience with dating guys shorter than you?

2006-09-14 17:37:28 · 11 answers · asked by Sonya 5 in Singles & Dating

Preferably at a local store I can find in my area, not over the internet?

2006-09-14 17:36:44 · 18 answers · asked by Spirit-X 4 in Weddings

I hear a lot of people talking about "Open Marraige". I hear a lot of people in East Asia discussing this,What does it mean. Please let me know what this means as to me it just seems like another form of adultery/fashionable "crap idelogy" introduced by Western culture.

2006-09-14 17:35:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So i'm not a thug or anything, but am fairly good looking (somewhat depending on the day). I dated some pretty popular girls during high school, and have a very hot, popular girlfriend who is preppy and nice.

But what bugs me is that I can never seem to land a date with a really skanky girl. I get girls that love to have sex, but can never seem to get with a girl who flaunts that fact outwardly and shows it off with pride.

I always end up with confident girls that are liked by all. While I'm happy about that, I still sort of want a 'bad girl' sometimes. All girls can be bad in the bedroom, but it would be nice to have one that is bad all the time, just for a while, to get to know what it's like to date one.

I see other guys dating girls that are furious, rambunctious women that scare the crap out of men, and I sort of wish I got one of those uncontrollable bad girls, even if they aren't as hot as the girls I date.

I guess it just makes me feel abnormal not dating skanks

2006-09-14 17:35:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you kissed a person and you did not feel any warmth or magic? And you asked yourself why?

2006-09-14 17:35:42 · 9 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Singles & Dating

Where I live, girls who do that are frowned upon but I'm very curious to know if many women do it and if it is something common and/or normal. People here say that it is not normal but I'm not too sure.

2006-09-14 17:35:34 · 8 answers · asked by girl-06 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend says that they are not sluts i have a friend who says they are basically sluts what odes everyone on here think....

2006-09-14 17:35:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husbands ex got pregnant when they were together and he didnt know if it was his or her ex from previous. so after she had it it was not my husbands it was her ex. my husband stayed with her for almost 2 years (real rocky) and he got a tattoo becasue he wanted to stay close to the baby since he was hoping it was his. the boy has hisboth parents in his life and they share custody.i have been with my husband and 8 years have gone by and my husband and married in 02 and now have a baby boy. he is 13 months and i am worried he will ask why is some other kid is tattooed on his arm. also it is irritating that everyone asks is that your son on your hubbys arm and it is someone elses kid. it was an act that was not properly thought out and the portrait tattoo would be an easy cover up. we do still keep in contact with the boy, but not like a father /son, which my husband has now realized since he has created his own. he realizes the mistake, and it is a touchy subject.

2006-09-14 17:34:32 · 17 answers · asked by tumbler 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love her she loves me, im confident were soulmates if indeed they exist, plus i am 19, and you know the saying "young and dumb"

2006-09-14 17:33:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 17:33:36 · 6 answers · asked by notchydaddy1 2 in Singles & Dating

My x-boyfriend and I met in his last year of college we began dating he graduated and we continued dating during half of my senior year as well...we ended up breaking up over a stupid arguement and never "offically" got back together but were pretty much exclusive as far as everyone else was concerned. Even thou we both love each other and share the occaisonal kiss and go on dates, the magic seems to be lost. Last Tuesday he told me that he feels like he doesn't belong here anymore & wants to move back upstate where he is oringainally from (We live in NY & are both located in the city..about 40 mins away from each other) Well anyway he crushed me when he told me this & I haven't even been able to speak to him & tell him how I feel about him moving. I know 1 reason hes going is b/c he thinks there is no future b/w me & him anymore but I disagree...however I don't want to be selfish and beg him just to stay for myself...do I tell him how I feel or keep it to myself and let him move away?

2006-09-14 17:33:35 · 21 answers · asked by NiK* 2 in Singles & Dating

he said he doesnt care who he dances with and its not cheating i feel like he should only dance with his girl friend.....

2006-09-14 17:33:15 · 10 answers · asked by JEN-JEN 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-14 17:32:10 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My best friend is getting married to the man i love.shes getting married next weekend .Should I tell her that i love the man she getting married to or not speak out?

2006-09-14 17:31:52 · 12 answers · asked by LADISLAO L 1 in Weddings

I mean do girls usually enjoy bigger "members" over smaller ones or what. i've heard that some girls don't like them big cuz they "hurt". so would u say size matters or not?

2006-09-14 17:31:31 · 19 answers · asked by ivegotquestions_uvegotanswers 1 in Singles & Dating

lets pretend i saw u walking down the street and approached u and said:

ME: hey girl, have u seen my dog?

YOU: no, why?

ME: oh ok, do u wanna give me ur phone number, so when i find it, i can call u and let u know when to stop looking for it

what would ur reaction be?

2006-09-14 17:31:23 · 4 answers · asked by gca18 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. I have a friend that lives with me (because of our parents seeing each other) and we have lived with each other for a year. He is 13 and I am 16. Through the past year we have become really good friends, but lately he has been doing something that I think is kinda weird, but I dontk now if its normal or not. Here is an example of the situation: We are in my room laying on my bed and I am watching him play a video game. I am laying on my back with my legs propped up while watching. He then out of no where decides to lay back against the side of my legs and gets comfortable... Is this weird behavior? or do u think he has like a crush on me or something? BTW I'm a dude.

2006-09-14 17:30:48 · 32 answers · asked by Blaine 3 in Friends

2006-09-14 17:30:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating