Long story short. bf, father of my daughter, now ex, bf had prostate cancer. he saw a dr. out of town.
He needed a ride since he got a dwi and could not drive. we had gotten back together, and were planning on marrying.
I picked him up out of town. He had hickies all over his neck. I said not a word about them. But I thought of a plan. we had two hours to drive to dr.
it takes months to get an appt wth this dr. one hour into drive we stoppe for gas. I told him to pump and go pay. he told me to hold the rest of his money while he went into pay.
i held his two hundred dollars. he went into pay and i drove away. he put in twenty dollars of gas and had a twenty he took in.
he left his smokes in the car also. He had no cell phone, no money, no smokes and was told if he missed this appt. they would reschedule it.
yes cancer is bad, but so is cheating. and the money i kept was not stealing. it was child support he never paid. so am I a bad person for what I did to him
2006-09-14 17:42:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh he is still alive and this was eleven years ago. if you think this is bad. you shoudl hear what I did to my husbabd who cheated on me. oh he is long gone now also.
2006-09-14 17:53:05 · update #1
I can't judge and tell you whether I think you are a bad person or not. I believe what you did was wrong and immature. If you suspected he was cheating on you when you saw the hickies, why not confront him about it? You see maybe he was playing with your heart, which is wrong, but you were playing with his life, by allowing him to miss his doctor's appointment. Two wrongs don't make a right. Do you think that you would be able to forgive yourself if the doctor's appointment he had, would have lenghtened his life? If you can honestly say no that you don't care, then there is your answer whether you think you are a bad person or not. I wish you the best of luck though...Time is the only thing that can mend a broken heart.
2006-09-14 17:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This must be a made up story because no human being could be as cold and uncaring as you. So this guy, who has cancer, and is the father of your child is now gone - or should be if he had any sense. He should also file for custody of his daughter in court because you are, indeed, a bad person. You do not care that your daughter no longer has a father. You do not have any lasting empathy for this man who, you say, has cancer. Also, you do not have a ring and a date so there is no commitment.
Go to church, babe.
How many addendums are you going to add so you can sit back and giggle your 14 year old airhead brain. You are going to have a crappy life because you are a fool liar and probably a sociopath.
2006-09-14 18:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancer is worst than cheating! I'm sure you could of come up with another plan than messing up with his dr appt. At least take him to the Dr, then get gas and then leave him at the gas station. And the best revenge is doing nothing. Just have yourself a great life and forget about him. I know that's easier said than done. good luck
2006-09-14 17:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by CaliforniaGurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well....
I don't really know what to say.
Does it make you feel better?
I know what he did to you sucked, but I don't understand why you would be with him anymore. Move on and forget him.
Maybe he won't cheat again.
I don't really have any advice or answers to this, because I can see why you did it but I kind of feel bad for him too.
2006-09-14 17:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by LZB217 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, THAT WAS WRONG OF YOU TO DO, HE HAS CANCER
AND ALLYOU CAN THINK ABOUT IS YOUR SELF, HOW
SELFISH ARE YOU.. THAT WAS A CRUEL THING TO DO,
HE THE FATHER OF YOUR CHILD. AND HE MAY NOT BE AROUND TO BE THERE FOR HIS CHILD. HOW WOULD YOU
FEEL THEN, YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT YOUR ACTIONS
NO GOOD WILL COME TO YOU WHEN YOU DO WRONG
LIKE THAT. IF YOU HAVE ISSUES WITH HIM THEN TELL
HIM. BUT THESE GAMES THAT NOT GOOD. AS FOR THE
MONEY GO TO COURT TO GET CHILD SUPPORT.
2006-09-14 17:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are evil and mean and thoughtless.
Be the bigger person - life isn't about constantly getting revenge.
It doesn't necessarily mean you forgive/forget, but you do learn from your mistakes and move on.
2006-09-14 17:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HA! Good job. :) It reminds me of that story about a guy whos gf broke up with him at college. He really loved her and tried to get her back but she would not budge. Eventually she sent him a movie of her giviing several men oral sex and at the end she says, "i never loved you and never will" The guy smiled and sent the tape to her father. You rule. :)
2006-09-14 17:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by rolandofgileadiscool 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOU ARE TOTALLY NOT BAD AT ALL!
I'm quite impress that u can think of such a manner.
I get back for them cheating me too. I sometimes even fantasize killing them eventually.
The way u did to him... speechless perfect.
He shld just die for cheating. These heartless bast***s!
2006-09-14 20:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Joan20 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you are.first you may cause an early death.if you want to get back at him ,tell him to get lost an pay support.next get a new guy,that will piss him most.
2006-09-14 17:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by steffani w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty mean. Grow up. If you're mad at him for cheating, bring it up . maybe he was raped or something.
2006-09-14 17:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋