Ultimatum...she'll only wear stockings for me if I endure wearing pantyhose for her. What would you do?

Question

She says it will finally make me realize how uncomfortable they are, and if I want to see her in stockings that badly I'll do it. Not sure I can go there. Need some advice

Answer 1

Get some crotchless pantyhose, and put them on, and make sure she wears her panties(if she wears them) over her garter belt. That way she will be in for a real surprise when you get together.

Then its up to you to make her forget every thing else, so you better be up to it. Take a pill if you need to, but the idea is to drive her crazy with her stockings on, so she will want to do it again.

Answer 2

This is NOT a problem. A number of years ago, when I was blissfully married, I got a bad sunburn, a really bad sunburn, on the back of my legs where I didn't do as good a job with the sunscreen. Wearing pants was misery because of the rubbing of the material. So, the wife bought pantyhose in a size large enough (she guessed 2X queensize, which fit me reasonably well by the way) for me to wear and it worked. I wore pantyhose under my regular clothes for a week. And was much cheaper (cheapie pantyhose on sale could be had for under a buck each) than a pair of men's tights at least and more easily obtained. I was able to walk and go to work in reasonable comfort. Pantyhose and tights are the same thing except for materials they are each made of and whether made for men or women. Oh, and by the way, I knew a pre-op transexual who told me thay even make pantyhose for men, shaped correctly for the anatomy which is what he wore (until he found out about using a gaff). If you, as a man, wear pantyhose shaped for a woman, it probably WILL be somewhat uncomfortable. You've got the outside bits when the pantyhose was shaped for inside bits. Men's tights ARE built for the outside bits and a woman wearing them would find them somewhat loose in the middle. And there is the bathroom inconvenience to consider. No more standing to take a leak. I did not find the experience unpleasant. Yes, I noticed the warmth others mentioned, but it wasn't uncomfortable, nor did they itch.

Would I wear pantyhose because my girlfriend asked me to? Sure. I don't see any reason NOT to grant a request. I might even go so far as to shave my legs. (Metrosexuals do this or so I am told.) Now, I might draw the line on going out in public in high heels though...

I can't believe some people advised you to dump her for this request... She is just trying to make a point that to her pantyhose are uncomfortable. The thing is, I know 2 women who wear a garter belt and regular seamless nylon stockings daily to work because they are MORE comfortable than pantyhose, and with underwear on the outside of the garter straps, convenient in the bathroom (or bedroom).

This link (a quick search done for the phrase "pantyhose for men") will take you to a place where you can buy sheer to waist pantyhose for men, and only $7 each by the way, sold as athletic wear under other clothes. Or, as someone else suggested, get crotchless pantyhose...

Answer 3

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Ultimatum...she'll only wear stockings for me if I endure wearing pantyhose for her. What would you do?
She says it will finally make me realize how uncomfortable they are, and if I want to see her in stockings that badly I'll do it. Not sure I can go there. Need some advice

Answer 4

Wear the pantyhose and enjoy yourself. Pantyhose are not torture; they're a privilege. Some women won't let their guy wear hose. Consider yourself lucky and wear them since she insists on it.

Answer 5

Hey, if you're so hung up on stockings, then put on the damn panty hose. Who's to know?
Lots of football players wear them in winter games, because they are warm!

Answer 6

Sweet Irony.

Naturally, I'd go hunting for a more pliant lover ... but dang, a sense of humor is hard to find.

Answer 7

Do it...I made my ex-boyfriend wear pantyhose for me and it was so hot. If you want her to do something for you, then do the same for her. You never know, you may get into something really kinky.

Answer 8

ya its perfectly alright for doing something for your partner, doing anything what he loves is good for the relationship....
but u also if she agrees it for u then don't be harsh on her by giving the ultimatum, u also sometimes understand her problems

Answer 9

hubby said tell u hope u can get used to bare legs. he loves them (bare legs not panty hose). anyway she shouldn't try to get u to wear the hose if u don't want to but u should do the same consideration for her.

Answer 10

Sound like fun.
She got the point so the ball is in your court.
You call the shot.