My best friend is getting married to the man i love.shes getting married next weekend .Should I tell her that i love the man she getting married to or not speak out?
2006-09-14 17:31:52 · 12 answers · asked by LADISLAO L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
you said the man I love, not the man that loves me.
just leave it alone find your own man.
I'm sure there is more then one man where you live.
Or do you need another woman's man to try and
be happy ?
2006-09-14 17:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by popo dean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should of done is told her before she decided to get married. now you have to live with your decision and not tell her, otherwise you more then likely wont be friends ever again. Or ou could go on Jerry Springer. Or have a threesome then everyone wins.
2006-09-15 00:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by bored at work 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they love each other. hence why they are getting married. be happy for your friend, keep your mouth shut, dont act on your feelings with the bf, and move on with your life. do you really want to risk loosing your best friend by telling her something like that when he probably doesnt feel the same way for you?
2006-09-15 00:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by autumnl78 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok if it were you getting married would you want her to break your heart .But if youre going to start crapp just cause you can after there married . you might as well show youre butt before the marriage no,just wait till the wedding day then tell her .And he will say why would you love me ?cause i sure dont love you, get lost.
2006-09-15 00:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by deerolmind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
She's getting married to him, not you. Don't ruin HER day because you think that you love her husband. Get over him. He's married.
Nothing good will come of you telling her that you think you love him.
2006-09-15 00:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess its safe to assume he doesnt love u back since hes marrying your friend right? so you really need to respect your best friend and her fiance and find a different man to love
2006-09-15 00:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, because then its going to be an awkward day when she gets married and her best friend(you) there
2006-09-15 00:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Speak now or forever hold your piece"
Seriously,
It is her day, do not ruin it and your friendship. You can not infringe apon a mutaul decision it is just not right.
Suck it up and congradulate both of them or you will hate yourself for years, ok !!
2006-09-15 00:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her...shes your best friend. (you all have the same taste)
if you dont tell maybe u are going to regret it all your life
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2006-09-15 00:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by dragonweaver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should sit down and talk. and see what happen
2006-09-15 00:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋