Family & Relationships - 13 September 2006

2006-09-13 18:38:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Or is it a waste of time and energy?

2006-09-13 18:37:50 · 20 answers · asked by Curious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex fiance and i broke up 3 months ago, we have known each other 10 years, we were friends then in a relationship for 4 yrs, although his ex has custody, his two girls and I became very attached, we broke up once and even then he wanted me to stay in touch with his girls, their mom loves what I do for them and also wants me to stay a part in their lives, recently he has become very bitter and angry, he told the girls mother and me he doesn't want me to stay in contact with the girls, they are 5 and 8 they still continue to call me frequently, their mother does not want me to stay away, this is very difficult because I do love them, and I don't want to hurt them, he will have a fit if he thinks I m talking to them, or seeing them, I have tried to distance myself, but they still call, so far I just keep it to myself I don't want to hurt them. Will he ever get past this anger. The mother has custody, as long as she lets them call, is it wrong for me to be there for them.

2006-09-13 18:37:36 · 5 answers · asked by snickerdoodle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-13 18:37:25 · 14 answers · asked by mary s 1 in Singles & Dating

...with the guy you were first intimate with and how long has it been?

2006-09-13 18:36:49 · 10 answers · asked by vinny_the_hack 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

trying for abroad, so wanted to knw the required documents for making a new passport.

2006-09-13 18:36:38 · 7 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Friends

2006-09-13 18:35:52 · 8 answers · asked by kevin t 1 in Singles & Dating

I am on an H1B visa and my wife is on H4. We will going to my home country shortly and have scheduled an interview for our Visa stamping. I dont want my spouse to come with me to the USA. How can I stop her from coming here legally?. Do I have to inform INS.? I am sure she will try her best to come here , even if I leave her there. Do I have to inform the local police.?

2006-09-13 18:35:15 · 6 answers · asked by jazz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-13 18:33:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-13 18:31:10 · 8 answers · asked by Tall Guy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do people ask such dirty and perverted questions???
don't they have any morals or values??? only if there parents
knew about that .....

2006-09-13 18:30:41 · 12 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Friends

He said it was over but i found out he was still talking to this woman the whole time he was telling me it was notthing and he allso was talking about sleeping with her again it so hard he is now saying it is over but my heart is telling me he is hiding something someone PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME IAM LOSING MY MIND WE HAVE THREE KIDS I LOVE HIM BUT IT SO HARD.And i did things in our marriage and to this day i'am still paying for the things i did my mother said trust god and don't give up oooooooooooo PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME.And he was overseas when he told me the news about him cheating he was going wild over there but still telling me he loved me and we would start over new but it very hard well thanks.

2006-09-13 18:30:26 · 16 answers · asked by Chocolate34 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been friends with my man for 17yrs, for the last 6yrs we have been in a good relationship.
My ex husband was a VERY cruel man.(in and out of bed)
Anyway.... I have not been able to recieve oral sex due to fear of what the ex did to me.
My hubby told me when ever I was ready he would be more than willing.
I told him 3 days ago that I would like to try again, but he has been avoiding me like the plaque!!
I find this very stange, because we have always been honest with each other.(with every thing)
Have I done something wrong?
How do I bring the subject up?
What should I do?

2006-09-13 18:30:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex broke up w/me b/c he couldn handle long distance and has a new girl but has continually kept in touch w/me (for 1 year and a half) and if I dont call him back he keeps calling! why does he keep calling me??!?

2006-09-13 18:29:52 · 11 answers · asked by Alexandra G 1 in Singles & Dating

I know Ive posted before about my boyfriends mom (who one day will be my mother-in-law). She lies to me about him in hopes I will leave him; she badmouths me to him and the rest of his family. We are staying with her while we save up money, he just got out of the service.
But I had to get away from her and visit my family out of state. My bf just told me tonight on the phone that his dad (his mom's ex husband) had something to tell him. His dad said, "Your mom asked me to badmouth Sami to you, so that you would break up with her." This kinda crap had been going on for 3 MONTHS NOW! She wont stop!
She's trying to break us up, and hads already managed to have some of his family hate me (even though I am nothing but nice to everyone, including HER even after all this $#&*!)
Should I sit down and talk with her, let her know that I know what she's up to... convince my bf to talk to her some more (he's already tried)... write her a letter?
We're still at her mercy financially... it STIN

2006-09-13 18:29:10 · 18 answers · asked by Sami Jo 2 in Family

I have a date this weekend with this hot chick who i really want to impress. We decided togethe first go to a nice restaurant to eat dinner and after that maybe go to certain beautiful sceneries. Since i live in southern california, there's a lot of romantic sceneries around. And we decided that we should check out a movie. However, I was thinking if I should used the two free movie passes that i have in my wallet. Is that too cheap on a date? I also got some nice coupons for baskin Robins if we decided to get some icecream or something cus i know chicks love icecream.

2006-09-13 18:28:35 · 25 answers · asked by epicwolf 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex broke up a year and a half ago when I moved to college because he could not handle the long distance. We havve continued to stay friends and both still have strong emotions for each other. He just said we are both living seperate lives and it was too hard for him. He calls me about every two weeks and we see each other now and then. This has been going on for a year and a half now and I realized recently that it needs to stop because its holding me back from other relationships. He tells me he likes to talk to me, I still mean a lot to him....etc. So I decided that I wouldn't answer his calls and he kept on calling and calling. When I finally called him back after he called three days in a row!!.. he told me the same old thing..want to see how ur doing etc. IF thats all he wanted why did he call three days in a row? GUYS..would you do this? does it mean he really still likes me or

2006-09-13 18:27:52 · 8 answers · asked by Alexandra G 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, Im not a little kid, but I was locked in a buble and dont have much experience about dating and men. i have a co-worker friend who we hang off and on, partied sometimes almost every weekend. at first we both had another person we was dealing with, and then he broke up with his long distant girl, and i broke up with my guy friend, but still continued to see each other. at times we are partying seperatly and he calls me to meet up with him afterwards or will come party the rest of the night with me. he told me once that he is afraid of getting hurt, so he goes with the flow and leave the rest to god. its been about 1 1/5 years now, and im really REALLY feeling him, but im afraid to aproach him and just come out and say it! i dont want to scare him away, but i shoot everyone down, including a guy that had a thing for me for 2 years but ISN'T my type and wont take not intrested in a relationship w/him, as an answer. & thats the one that is TOTALY into me :-( . HELP!...

2006-09-13 18:26:15 · 14 answers · asked by NikiNiki19 1 in Singles & Dating

...I mean he gives you this really expensive ring, has never been married, has a lovely home, has his own business, and has given you anything you asked for for the two years he has been persuing you. BUT. You don't love him.And you have told him this. Still he wants to marry you. You want to marry him also, but only for security. He knows this also. Let's say also that you are very comfortable with this person.

2006-09-13 18:25:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have this friend whos 18 and this guy whos 36...ok, wha if they began to date; as boyfriend and girlfriend...is this bad? or is it ok for them to date? what do u think? as for the parents, what would they think? should she go ahead and do what she feels is ok, aor just u know, not? would i be a good friend if i interveened in a way where i tell her to give the whole thing a try

2006-09-13 18:25:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girl and I were talking tonight about things we would like to do. The topic of Anal Sex came up and I said that I have never done that and neither has she so I would like to do it. She started questioning me about why I would want that. That she thought that I loved her. She asked why I would even want to do that. I told her because I never had and I would want to do that with her because I want to expierence everything with her and the other reason is she has never done it. It's not like I have to have it, fantisize about it, or even crave it. It is just that I want to try it and because I love her I wanted to share that new expierence with her. She made me feel like a real jerk by even mentioning it. Told me why would I want to hurt her like that and just continued to ask me over and over why I wanted to. I have no big reason. I hear from friends and stuff that it is awesome and can someone tell me what to do. Was I wrong to ask her that. Any feedback or opinions on it

2006-09-13 18:25:18 · 35 answers · asked by mtjs06 1 in Singles & Dating

Well there is this guy at my school and he is always shy around me and is always looking at me. The problem is that my friend likes that guy but she thinks he likes me for those reasons? What should I do? Your advice is appreciated!

2006-09-13 18:24:49 · 10 answers · asked by ~*xoxo*~ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-13 18:24:15 · 7 answers · asked by Dutch 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in luv with a girl who is a gud friend of mine but the problem is that she has been ditched in past by a boy so she is not interested in building up any relationship. pls tell me what should i do?

2006-09-13 18:23:53 · 15 answers · asked by Mohit Sawhney 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this sweet gorgeous girl in an unusual setting. It turns out that she is nowhere near being over this guys she was with for two years. He wants nothing to do with her and yet she pursues him. I took her on a date, Im not sure if she considered it one, and Im not sure as to how make her understand that I am interested in her. She has serious issues with this ex of hers. Anyone have any pointers?

2006-09-13 18:22:17 · 15 answers · asked by Gator21 1 in Singles & Dating

my present b.f. never courted me.... we have been friends for two years and he told me that he falls for me because of my kindness... he knows everything about me and i know this is the first time he falls in love!!!!!! and i dont want to hurt him.... ah pls help me.... i dont want to leave him hoping that someday i will go back....

2006-09-13 18:22:09 · 2 answers · asked by annevil86 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy breaks it off with you, and asks for a 2nd chance, and you give him one. Why would you give him a 2nd chance? And if you give him a 2nd chance, and seem distant, does that mean you want him to work at gaining your trust or feelings again? I don't get it. This girl gives me a 2nd chance, and goes from talking to me everyday, to barely talking. Granted, she is very ill, (was hospitalized for a day), and is visiting family which she hasn't seen in 4 years. Is she just busy? Should I not sweat it? She is coming back home in 2 weeks. Am I just bugging out, thinking she is playing me? I figure, if she didn't want to talk to me, she would never have given me a 2nd chance. Maybe it's me, I'm just bored as hell right now.

2006-09-13 18:21:47 · 5 answers · asked by Little Hulk 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been chatting with a really nice guy online every day for about 2 weeks now and he wants to meet...but i looked back in message archives and when we first chatted he told me his kids ages were 2 and 3, now yesterday he said they were 7 and 13...so why would he change the ages????

2006-09-13 18:21:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

people say that they hate those friends who are judgemental in mutual chating. but it has never being made clear to me weither they meant the person is stealing them information, weither they meant he is using them or weither they meant he is arguing them. i appreciate for your clarification. thanks.

2006-09-13 18:19:01 · 5 answers · asked by merrygoround 1 in Friends

2006-09-13 18:18:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships