I am in luv with a girl who is a gud friend of mine but the problem is that she has been ditched in past by a boy so she is not interested in building up any relationship. pls tell me what should i do?
2006-09-13 18:23:53 · 15 answers · asked by Mohit Sawhney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only your heart start beating but the mind refuses to work. everything else other than the one you love will not seems to be important. the love what you call is just a FEELING. we feel hungry to eat, we feel thirsty to drink, etc love is also like a feeling. it is a temporary exhilaration. every man/women will under go 2 stages in cyclic manner(once in 3 or 4 months) emotional high stage(EHS) emotional low stage(ELS) when both the partners are in EHS they feel like they are in love. both will try to keep the love going by building a castle on feelings. after some time when they are in ELS they feel like not loving each other. it is called as "trapped syndrome" so why to FALL in love like falling in to a pit? instead of it why can't we GREW in love? true love is Commitment , will to stay togather AFTER MARRIAGE
2006-09-13 18:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Time" is the only answer.. time is the best healer, nature has given us. so when did she break away with her boyfriend?? is it recently? AS the saying goes "once bitten twice shy", girls are very cautious when it comes to relationships, and all the more keen and on the safer side, if they have already been ditched earlier.. so that girl is playing safe, so she doesnt want to take the pain again.. so the best thing that u can do now, is to win her confidence. Let her believe that you wont dump her like her previous boy friend and once she gets this confidence, she will surely fall in love with you. Till then, plz dont pressurise her too much as there is everychance of you loosing her completely...
2006-09-13 19:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by retro_avocado 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convince her that raul is not like the one who ditched her. Tell her that you love from your heart and can not live without her. Since, she is a friend of yours, you could win her heart slowly, for which a constant and decent approach from your side is needed.
Try and Try until the goal is reached. But, don't become like her ex friend. Best of Luck...
2006-09-13 19:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Electric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest be a friend for some time. If still she thinks of you only as a friend and not a lover try someone else instead of forcing someone who is really not interested.
2006-09-13 19:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you're Commited to him you will prepare it by using utilising exhibiting staying power with him. grant him a undeniable quantity of time and if after that ingredient he hasnt became over then forget approximately him. there is regularly yet somebody else who has the comparable if no longer greater desirable useful characteristics than the unique.
2016-12-12 08:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her ur feelings & how u feel towards her like how you really love her & show her that u truly luv her, she can change .. my best friends been thru dat & it hurted them a lot & dey advice me not to believe in love since they all had been heart broken
2006-09-13 18:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by haseen_gudiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repeated says shurely change the mind of a women. If she refused first.Then ofcourse u have a chance.
2006-09-13 18:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk with that gal and tell her your feeling honesty. Also say her if she is not interested in you then tell him it's OK but never break our friendship.
Hoping for Good result
2006-09-13 18:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by p_s297 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a bit difficult anyway if she likes to be u r friend that shows some possibilities but u should not upset her now be patient and try to change her mind little by little it will take some time but if u truly love her u have to be patient.
2006-09-13 18:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by m.shahila m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u told her that u love her ? if not u should tell her and make her realise tht ur really luv her and hope she will understand u
2006-09-13 18:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mubasher m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋