ever been inLove??? how do you know that you are realLy inLove wit' a person???

Answer 1

That is a hard question to answer. i have been in love twice the first time i was to scared to admit cuz he was a cop and i thought he would never love me so long story short i screwed that up and he really loved me too. i am in love now with the most amazing guy and we are getting married. there is just something about when i look at him that makes feel like a kid again. i know that sounds nuts but it is hard to explain. i hope everyone knows what it feels like to be in love.

Answer 2

Falling in love is when your heart start pumping really fast. It's just takes your breath away. It feels like you're about to faint. You can't take your eyes off him/her. You think about this person day and night. You dream about it. You can already imagine life will be if you two got married. Find some similarities that you both have in commons. This person makes you happy and makes you laugh when you are sad and heartbroken. I remember dreaming about my husband when I was single. I talked to him all night in my dreams. My mom thinks I am crazy, and which I am. It was definitely love at first sight. The 1st time I saw him, my heart beats harder and faster. I thought to myself, do I deserve him and will I ever get a chance to be with him? Remember, falling in love is different from being obssess. If you stalk him and try to track him down every day, then you are obssess and it's not a real love. Love should come from the heart.

Answer 3

I've been in love 3 times. The past 2 who I've loved were hard to love, but boy did I try, and the 3rd, my current boyfriend, is so easy to love and I love everything about him, even the little annoying things I am able to let go. One day I woke up and I was like, WOW, I love Steve!

Answer 4

I knew I was in love when he could come around my heart would go completely still and I would be unable to speak. He was like.. air. I could tell him anything without worrying what he'd day. He made me feel safe.. and loved.

Answer 5

because you just can't stop thinking about the person, and some times it's good. but some times it's not.

Answer 6

Being in love isn't something you can explain easily, sadly - or else we'd have allot more lasting relationships in the world. But when you are in love, you envision a future together, and you are happy in his arms as much as you are away from him - because you know that you will be together soon. It's the opposite of what people tell you (you're in love when all you do is miss them), but actual love is having hope in the future. It's when you expect the persons faults and realize you can't change them, and you love the stupid little things they do.
As for my having ever been in love...


I met the love of my life the day we were born, he was put in the crib next to mine, our parents discovered we lived minutes apart, and from that moment on, were joined-to-the-hip; instant best friends. Always at each others houses, always on the phone, always together - people use to make fun of us and tell us we were going to get married one day, and we would deny it, saying we were 'just friends'. Both of us were homeschooled, so we were constantly doing schoolwork together at our houses, and going on feild trips sitting side my side in our mothers mini-vans. I've had poor health all my life, and when I was 10, I was in the hospital...for like, the 20th time. Whenever I was there, he would be worried sick and insist on seeing me, so my parents would tell nurses he was my brother, because he was too young to visit me otherwise. He told me when we were alone in the room that he was going to take care of me the rest of our lives, because I was his best friend and he never wanted to loose me, he kissed me on the forehead, and whispered that he loved me. We planned our weddings out at 12, I was going to be his best woman, and him, my man of honor. We were going to move into a duplex house, and if our signifigant others didn't like it, then they weren't the ones for us. We stayed 'just friends' for another year, at which point things began to change noticably. I had had a crush on him for what seemed like forever, but was too afraid to tell him, because he was my best friend. So I kept quiet, and watched as other girls flirted with him and my heart broke. But whenever I would ask him if he liked any of them, he would always tell me no. One night, we went to a play together, and we held hands without realizing it...I started to wonder...could he maybe like me back? But I was too afraid to ask him, so I kept waiting and waiting for him to bring it up, and say that he meant in just a friendship way. However, a week later, he called me up as usual at night for our 3 hour long conversation (our parents gave us our own phone lines, just so we would stop tying up theirs), and told me that he had something important to tell me, and when he was finished, he was going to hang up the phone and call me back in an half hour. Immediatly, my heart started to pound...I hoped it was what I thought it was, but feared that it was that he had decided to go out with another girl. He admitted that he had fallen in love with me and hung up. I was overjoyed to the point were I ran around the house laughing hysterically and doing cartwheels, my parents thinking I was nuts. When he called me up, we discussed - very anlytically, may I ad - getting together, and decided to follow our hearts in the matter. We always talked about marriage and having kids after that point. We had our first kiss a couple months later on top of a ferris wheel, had our first make-out not too long after that, lol. He proposed to me at 14 in a love letter (we have over 400 inbetween both of us in a 4 1/2 year span), gave me a diamond ring at 16, and a few weeks after we turned 18, officially asked my parents for their blessing in marriage. We're getting married next Autumn a few weeks after we turn 19...and have never been more IN LOVE in our lives.

Answer 7

when you know you can't live without that person