2006-09-13 18:38:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When you love someone, you do it without expecting any direct returns. It's just the way you "feel" towards the other person. They never asked you to feel that way about them- it just happened, right? Then when have "loved and lost", why blame anyone else for it? Incidentally, I dont agree with the term "loved and lost", since in love no one is a loser. The very feeling of being in love should have made you feel like a winner while it lasted. Isn't that reward enough? Ofcourse when your love isnt reciprocated, you should move on.....find someone who feels the same way about you as you feel about them.
2006-09-13 18:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by uma p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep on loving....even if you lost someone you loved..maybe there is someone better waiting for you.
Don`t find love after the break up. Let the healing takes time so you could enjoy the company of yourself.
Someone will come along in an unexpected moment.
2006-09-13 18:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by maconsolviaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the best medicine of all. Do not look for love or companionship. Let nature take its course. Remember that the love you once had can never be duplicated by another, so give it time. To start a comparison between 2 people is not right. Its time for a bit of "me time". Sort out your life and do things that you never had time to do. I promise you that unexpectedly some thing will come up. Good luck my friend. I can see you need it.
2006-09-13 18:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by Charles Athole M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You learn something from every relationship so yes, better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all.
2006-09-13 18:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's never easy to have to start all over again esp. when you've given so much of yourself and for it to have a bittersweet end. but the pain heals and you do learn each time you fall. So, dont close your heart. Love comes when you least expect it. Just go out and have fun.
2006-09-13 18:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not something that you can control or switch on and off when you feel like it. Love won't be ignored so i dont think you really have a choice.
2006-09-13 18:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rather be in love. I just feel that everything happens for a reason. He was there for while to something bigger and better comes along. I had to be with this person because it was destine.
2006-09-13 18:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_sensitivelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I've learned from all the bad stuff and the good. You move on and you love again.
2006-09-13 18:41:09 · answer #8 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is go and buy a new car. or better a new house. can't afford it? then go get more money. at the time u will get enough money u will forget all about love and not to love and all other bull''''
2006-09-13 18:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sure.. I would say do it again Sam. Because when your heart finally catches up with your head. Learning it was meant to be..You now know how wonderful it could be again.
2006-09-13 18:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋