Family & Relationships - 12 September 2006

would you marry for love or money??

of course we would all 'choose' love, but wouldnt the lifestyle that money could buy be appealing too? afterall, most people cheat on the one's they 'love', so thats not really love, is it??

2006-09-12 10:37:45 · 21 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

i like food.color.black and green.sweem..jug..all of my friends

2006-09-12 10:37:05 · 10 answers · asked by §sonia†gothic†hacker§ 1 in Friends

We've been together for 2 years next week. He's so hard to buy for so I need some help. Whenever I ask him what he wants he says "Nothing. Just your naked body." But I think I should give him something material too.

I'm 16, so I don't have hundreds of dollars to spend. Any ideas under $100 would be great.

His main interests are european cars and industrial music.

If anyone has any romanic, cute, funny, or interesting suggestions please let me know.

Thank you!

2006-09-12 10:36:56 · 13 answers · asked by Danica 3 in Singles & Dating

She's fine, they stitched her up, but now she really doesn't trust me.

2006-09-12 10:36:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Keep in mind that I live in the NY/NJ area and things here are a bit pricey no matter what. The thing is this: I want a particular style of photos because my wedding is a 1930s-40s theme and I want classy, old film-star, crooner-type pics. All the photographers in the area that I've looked at that are cheaper only take a limited # of photos, use only digital, and limited hours. Their photos were so uptight, too.
The photographer I love is someone I wouldn't mind having around me ALL day, her hours are unlimited, she takes only real film photos (unlimited number "as many as it takes", and I simply love her style. The price doesn't include an album, either, which would be another $500. Prints are already included in the first price.
Our budget is smaller though and my fiance is complaining about her price. I figure that the only thing aside from our marriage and memories that we take away from this day will be the photos. I really want them to be fabulous. What should I do?

2006-09-12 10:36:31 · 13 answers · asked by J B 2 in Weddings

I'm British & my fiance is a NZ citizen. We both live in London (her on a work permit). Both of us have not been married before. It is the UK side of things that I am interested in, we are sorted from an NZ perspective.

2006-09-12 10:36:24 · 3 answers · asked by mn4tcl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boo for 2 years but no matter what I do he doesn't trust me to go out by my self especially after I got raped by a friend of his. i've tried to get over this and I want to move on and go out plz tell me what to do.

2006-09-12 10:34:44 · 17 answers · asked by Raycheal D 1 in Singles & Dating

we've done it before and he loves it, but we have been fighting and he has not tried it, he knows i won't say no.I think he's stupid for not wanting to f... me from the back even if were mad at each other.

2006-09-12 10:34:40 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is it and what can i do

2006-09-12 10:33:42 · 10 answers · asked by Peaches& Cream 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 10:33:13 · 9 answers · asked by JZ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-12 10:32:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I broke up over a week ago..Almost 2 weeks now and I am feeling so depressed. I am trying to get my mind off of him but it gets very hard at times. I want to be able to just move on but I guess I am just really scared to move on. I guess I am scared to be with anyone else. I am crazy or is this just natural. Can someone help me? Maybe someone has been through this and give me tips on how to get over it faster without being in a lot of pain, which by the way, I am in a lot of it. I feel like my whole world has come crashing down on me. Please help me out. Thank you all in advance.

2006-09-12 10:32:44 · 9 answers · asked by Justine 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend has a seventh grader kinda b/f i dont know what she mean by that any ways....my friend was on the bus and her friend told her that this other boy wanted to go out with her and the seventh grader was sittin next to her and he was like who?? and a gurl told him and now he is mad at her what should she do?????

2006-09-12 10:32:24 · 4 answers · asked by kwi 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

They both have a stylish wardrobe, pretty faces and pretty hair. What would you think if you saw them walking down the street? A good match or does some1 deserve a better m8?

2006-09-12 10:32:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my prob is that i have liked the same guy since 1st grade! we hung out alot in elementary school but then in middle school his guy bff started hanging out with the "populars" so he of course followed:(we still wave and smile in the halls and do stuff after school but otherwise were not as tight ne more! he is really nice, funny , cute,ect. and he knew i liked him a lot last year and he liked me to. but nothing happened were still just friends :( i really want to tell him that i still really like him but idk how to with out embarassing the crap out of my self or ruining r friendship. my other guy bff has been trying to set us up 4 eva but he isn't very good at it lol! i REALLY want to be more than friends but idk what i should do! PLZ HELP!

2006-09-12 10:31:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 10:31:28 · 11 answers · asked by ggmsixer 5 in Friends

2006-09-12 10:31:11 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-12 10:30:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

must be a non-smoker, a light to non-drinker, a wonderful all around guy.............and someone who can fix a car damn it! lol...between 35-53 please......

2006-09-12 10:30:37 · 5 answers · asked by amber 5 in Singles & Dating

One of my good friends as acted different around me lately. Last year she would talk to me, steal my hat on occasion put her arm over me every once in a while. Then I come back to school and she rests her arm on my knee, steals my hat and wears it for as long as she can. Gave me a new necklace when my old one broke. I put my hand on her shoulder and she flat out hugged me. Once, I had a small hole in my shirt and she starts ripping it wider. Doodes on my notebook. But my diemma is that she does hug some other of her friends but not nearly what ive been getting. Constantly smiles. Her favorite person qualities fit my description

The thing is thatis she just being more deeply friendly or does she like me

but shes bi and has asked out her best friend

2006-09-12 10:30:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For whatever reasons- you're taken, they're taken, but you have feelings for one another- what did you do?

2006-09-12 10:30:07 · 18 answers · asked by ninja_girl 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

She's in one of those "moods" again where she wants to have her hair short, but the last time she did (before she met me) she cried. If I do let her cut it, I'm not going to allow it any shorter than 20 inches. Its about down to her waist now. The fact is that women need to have long hair, but i do understand they need it trimmed now and then.

2006-09-12 10:29:54 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Recently I had to quit my job and find something else. I went from a cashier to a housekeeper and I am working 7am to 3:30pm. I am not used to the hours and I am feeling really tired. I am not sure how the winter is going to go with this job and I have got two more weeks to go before I get a check so we will have to make it on my husband's checks for three weeks. My husband seems under a lot of stress and he has been so mean. I have problems I say awful things and I did that again last night I told him I am going to go screw someone else and you should too it might be good for you but I didn't mean it. I have said these things before but never cheated on my husband. I was able to tell him sometimes when he has an erection it feels like it is soft.
He got some lotion last night we was trying to have sex it went down fast he said it was because of what I said that I was going to sleep with someone else what's the deal?

2006-09-12 10:28:59 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok well i gave my sons grandma guardianship in october of 2004 it is up next month and i was wondering do i have to sign the papers again if i dont want to???? i dont do drugs i dont drink.. i dont party.. she even went as far as to tell me that if i didnt divorce my husband that i would never see my son again... he is not violent nor does he drink or do drugs.. her son is a pedaphile... my sons father.. he is 26 and sleeps with girls ages 12 to 17 and i think it is wrong but the judge wont do anything about it....so do i really have to sign my son back over to her.. she talks about me in front of my son.. never anything good about me.. and he always ends up with bruises.. what should i do.. she used to work for the welfare dept.. and that helps her in court.. how do i handle this one???? there are three other grandkids and she wants nothing to do with them..... only my son.. and she even put him in school year round so that i couldnt see him very much.......HELP ME PLEASE SOMEONE

2006-09-12 10:28:48 · 6 answers · asked by hartswar101 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy two months ago. We really had a connection, there were also a couple of times when we almost kissed but we were always interrupted. Then I went abroad and didn't see him for three weeks. Two weeks ago we met again and he flirted with me a lot and stuff like that... Later I found out he just recently got a girlfriend - three days before. I know I should forget him but I just can't! Normally I would move on and not interfere anymore, but this time I just wanna fight and get him back! I would never steal a girl's boyfriend but this time... I don't know what to do, how can I get him back (if that's what I should try to do)?

2006-09-12 10:28:02 · 20 answers · asked by GreenOrange 3 in Singles & Dating

I have met someone that May turn out at very minumum to be a good friend. We have a lot in common and are both in crappy relationships. Being new to the area, I don't know many others and feel real comfortable talking to her. Should I pursue this and find out where it leads or continue on with my life as it is?

2006-09-12 10:27:20 · 8 answers · asked by rikv77 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Your opinion....I want to be with my boyfriend and love him very much but we have had a lot of problems through our relationship (who hasn’t) but okay here is the story.. we met when I was 18 and he was 24 the first 2 yrs of our relationship he would go out leave me all the time and not answer my calls the first time we broke up I put up with not seeing or talking to him for 2 weeks and I was living with him-because he wanted me to. I would go to work come home late and call him off the hook he never answered my calls and he would come home when he knew I was at work, I got sick of it and left out of state to be with my family and I was not going to go back but he begged me to I went to get my things but stayed because he promised me he wouldn’t do that to me, which he still did-my bad this time. Okay then after another year or so of putting up with his crap, he told me that he was going to make more of an effort to hang with me and my friends so we

2006-09-12 10:27:04 · 24 answers · asked by ~Ronyea Q♪ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

okay...im in such a bad situation that its all i can think about. please be gentle when answering this because im really lovesick. okay, my boyfriend and i have been in a loving and caring relationship for about 6 months. he found out that i pecked (a quick kiss) another guy and he was really mad. we tried to make it work for about 3 weeks. eventually after the 3 weeks, we broke up for good. ive tried EVERYTHING to show him that we are meant to be together and he is not tryna hear it, he says that we wont get back together. its been about a week w/o him and i dont know what to do b/c im so sad and lonely. we still do tell each other that we love each other and we kiss on occasion. please give me some tips on how to get him back. i love him with all my heart and i made a big mistake!! please yall, let me know if you think there is any hope and if so, please tell me what to do to get our relationship back b/c i love him so very much ....thanks

2006-09-12 10:27:04 · 7 answers · asked by porkydd 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

1.do u think it is ok to date your best friend of the oppisite sex??
2. is it normal to be nervous to ask out your best friend even if u know he likes u??
3. when should i ask him??
4. or should i wait a copuple more days to see if he is going to ask me out?!?!?
5. how should i approach him?!?!(call him, talk in person etc.)
6. when i do approach what should i say??

2006-09-12 10:27:01 · 24 answers · asked by babynam2 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, look, my Coach's name is Harris Jamsion and we were having practice in the gym, when I walked in, he was humped on Mrs.Glee (butt naked)!!!! NOTE THE MRS.!!!!!And he was single!!! He looked at me and got up and chased me NAKED through the halls explaining!!!!! I am seeing Mrs.Glees husband tonight because I wanted to talk to him!! WHAT SHOULD I SAY AND DO??????? Plus, MRS.GLEE will be there too!!!HELP!!

2006-09-12 10:26:33 · 8 answers · asked by Perfect 1 in Singles & Dating