1.do u think it is ok to date your best friend of the oppisite sex??
2. is it normal to be nervous to ask out your best friend even if u know he likes u??
3. when should i ask him??
4. or should i wait a copuple more days to see if he is going to ask me out?!?!?
5. how should i approach him?!?!(call him, talk in person etc.)
6. when i do approach what should i say??
2006-09-12 10:27:01 · 24 answers · asked by babynam2 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) Yes
2) Yes
3) Whenever you get the chance, seize the day!
4) Seize the DAY!!
5) Face to face is a good way to do it, so as to no confusion.
6) Be honest with it. Tell him like it is, and just be nice about it.
*Good luck to ya. Romance isn't an easy game, so you gotta play it as best you can!!
2006-09-12 10:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by AJAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. I don't see anything wrong with it, as long as you both realize that if things don't work out the friendship may never be the same.
2. Totally and completely normal.
3. Ask him whenever you feel comfortable enough to do so. As nervous as you may be you're just going to have to summon up the guts to do it.
4. Why wait? If you know he likes you and you like him .. why wait around and drive yourself crazy wondering if he's ever going to do it.
5. I would suggest in person, if possible. Or atleast call him and say something like 'hey, I'd like to talk to you about something but I would prefer it not over the phone. Can we get together soon?'
Something like that. Asking someone out for the first time is always best when in person. It just means more, to me anyway.
6. Just tell him how you feel. Be honest. Explain to him the feelings you have for him and that you'd like to see if something more can happen between you. Just go with what your heart tells you. Don't over think what you want to say.
Good Luck!
2006-09-12 17:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by bluesie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Only you can know if it is alright to date your best friend. Would it ruin your friendship if it didn't work out?
2. It's normal to be nerveous when you ask anyone out.
3. When it feels like the right time.
4. Whatever you think is best.
5. In person might make it kind of uncomfortable, but you will most likely get a more honest answer.
6. only you can decide wht is right to say. But if it was me I would ask him if he ever thought about what would happen if a relationship was started how it would work out.
Good luck
2006-09-12 17:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by candace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes. Dating your best friend makes the relationship so much better, because you already love spending time together.
2. Yes it is completely normal. Asking anyone out makes you nervous.
3. Tonight. The sooner the better. He's probably wanting to ask you anyways. So it will be cute if you beat him to it.
4. Again...beat him to it. It will be really cute, because then he'll be surprised.
5. Talk to him in person and just tell him how you feel. I'm sure he feels the exact same way about you. He is your best friend for a reason.
6. Say "hey I need to tell you something." Then just smile really big...and then just say whatever comes to mind.
Aww....it will be so cute. Let me know how it goes :)
2006-09-12 17:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by cramner25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes, but it can lead to akwardness if it ends, and it might not work if you're better as friends
2. Yes it's nerve-racking to ask anyone out!
3. Whenever you two are alone. Maybe when you're watching something or just having a good time!
4. You could wait...but if he doesnt ask you out, make sure he does like you before asking him out!
5. Talk to him in person
6. Just say something like, 'I've been meaning to ask you something for a while...' and go from there!
Good luck, hope it helps!
x
2006-09-12 17:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by Queenie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's cheating asking all these questions lol, i should get 12 points for answering 6 questions instead of just 2 hehe.
Here are my short answers. :p
1 = Yes.
2 = Yes.
3 = When you are alone with him.
4 = No.
5 = In person.
6 = I really like you would you like to go out with me sometime?
2006-09-12 17:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by Julie1977 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel in your heart that you should ask him out, then do so because if you wait you may lose out. If you all are truly the best of friends, even if you dont hook up the friendship should last. I think everyone is a little bit nervous when dealing with someone they like......Go for it and good luck!
2006-09-12 17:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by misledinky2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes.
2. Yes.
3. Whenever you want.
4. Ask him. If he has any interest in you at all, he will be pleased.
5. Either is fine -- whatever you are more comfortable with. Person-to-person is good.
6. "Would you like to go with me to ...?"
2006-09-12 17:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes, they can make the best relationships!
2. Yes, you wouldnt be a person if you werent.
3. When you are comfotable
4. Go with your Gut!
5. In person is always better.
6. if hes your best friend then just be honest, tell him how you feel, and be direct (guys can be dumb!)
2006-09-12 17:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by N S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have never asked out a guy I say wait for him to and if he doesnt he missed out. You shouldnt ask him because then he may say yes for wrong reasons. But, If you wait for him to ask you then you know he really wanted to get to know you in a different way. I think a girl asking out a guy is desperate. And if he doesnt ask you out, he probly didnt want it enough. Dont worry about it
2006-09-12 17:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by tyslovebunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋