My boyfriend and I broke up over a week ago..Almost 2 weeks now and I am feeling so depressed. I am trying to get my mind off of him but it gets very hard at times. I want to be able to just move on but I guess I am just really scared to move on. I guess I am scared to be with anyone else. I am crazy or is this just natural. Can someone help me? Maybe someone has been through this and give me tips on how to get over it faster without being in a lot of pain, which by the way, I am in a lot of it. I feel like my whole world has come crashing down on me. Please help me out. Thank you all in advance.
2006-09-12 10:32:44 · 9 answers · asked by Justine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would hang out with friends if I had any...I don't have any friends at all..Just the ones that are up in NJ and I am here in FL
2006-09-12 11:20:45 · update #1
take good care of yourself during this difficult time.. try not to isolate.. do things with your girl friends..... watch comedies.... try to distract yourself.... give yourself a bubble bath..... talk to a friend about it.....
good luck honey!
2006-09-12 10:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me more times than I can count...I've had only 5 serious relationships in my life..and to say the pain isn't real would be blowing smoke up your butt! It will just take time...how much?! That's up to you~ but look at it this way...if it was good it wouldn't have ended! That's the only suggestion I can give you~ guys are a dime a dozen...there is someone out there for you...you just need to give yourself a bit of time..dont' jump the gun with the first guy that comes along.
Every day will get a bit easier..my first big BROKEN heart was my high school sweetheart..but looking back.I thought I'd die!! SIlly...I didn't! I dealt with the pain and with EVERY bad relationship I took away from it something that I did or didn't like..and then the next person I dated or got serious with..had some of these things..OR didn't have some of these things..
I'm remarried..and funny the divorce didn't hurt like my first broken heart..cause I KNEW there's always someone else..that will take care of me the way I deserve to be taken care of... You'll mend and move on..it's only been a few weeks..it took a while to get these feelings in line...it will take a while to fix the broken heart...GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-12 17:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the exact same situation except i caused the break up and i feel like i cannot move on either. i dont know what to tell you b/c i really wanna get back with mine (he was amazing). i just wanna let you know that there are other people that are going through the same thing and im tryna get advice also. maybe you could try getting involved in an activity that takes up a lot of energy so you dont concentrate as much on him...thats what some people tell me
im sry and good luck and if you need to talk to someone you can email me at my screename (porkydd) at yahoo.com
2006-09-12 17:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by porkydd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Oh yeah I totally understand how you feel. When it happened to me I felt totally bummed out, nothing made sense, it was so hard to do anything, but I had to do something to get my mind off myself. You've got a broken heart & it's going to take a while to get over it. Don't listen to any sad music & try do things that make you get your mind off him, try to find someone to talk to who can understand & give you good advice. You are not crazy... girls usually hurt more because they are more sensitive... It may not seem like it now- but you will get over this and you will fall in love again ...trust me I've been there! Don't worry time will heal this. Bless your heart ...love is a gamble...like the wheel of fortune ,sometimes you hit the jackpot & sometimes you will hit bankrupt... but you got to play if you want to win...so maybe the next time you'll find that perfect love that you so rightly deserve...good luck!....... bye bye
2006-09-12 17:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you could do is also the hardest. Just wait it out. These things will fade. Keep yourself busy. Meet new people, go out with friends, but avoid getting in a relationship until you don't find yourself thinking about the ex anymore.
2006-09-12 17:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think of the reason you broke up and somthing that makes you happy and just start living you lived before him ( i assume) so you can live now and never be scared to move on thats life one door opens and a window opens just live it
2006-09-12 17:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by james s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My good advice from the bottom of my heart: Wait,because it is possible,that he will come back to you.Relax,take your time to think what reasons made that happened.Do not do, nothing wrong that you will regret after.Listen please my advice: wait,let time give you the answer to this situation.God bless you and good luck.Be in peace,relax,calm down.Everything is gonna be alright.
2006-09-12 17:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been thru this. email me at
philfan06@yahoo.com
2006-09-12 17:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HIT ME UP BABE.
2006-09-12 17:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋