I met this guy two months ago. We really had a connection, there were also a couple of times when we almost kissed but we were always interrupted. Then I went abroad and didn't see him for three weeks. Two weeks ago we met again and he flirted with me a lot and stuff like that... Later I found out he just recently got a girlfriend - three days before. I know I should forget him but I just can't! Normally I would move on and not interfere anymore, but this time I just wanna fight and get him back! I would never steal a girl's boyfriend but this time... I don't know what to do, how can I get him back (if that's what I should try to do)?
2006-09-12 10:28:02 · 20 answers · asked by GreenOrange 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to answer a question: I don't know this girl, I've never met her.
2006-09-12 10:45:53 · update #1
I know I should just let go and not mess with him anymore - it's not fair to the girlfriend, she didn't do anything wrong. In the past, when it came to things like that, I always admitted my defeat. But this time... It's like, I don't care anymore, I want to fight for him...
2006-09-12 10:50:08 · update #2
he's only had the girlfriend for 3 days. it can't be that serious yet. if he wants to be with you, he will end the other relationship and THEN contact you. maybe he started the other one cuz he didn't know if you would be back or not.
if he tries to keep her and get you, he's playing the field. you're better off without him.
2006-09-12 10:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by jess 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If ya'll were so into each other before you went away then why did he find himself another girl? If you really dig this guy, for the moment, just remain friends so the other girl don't get dissed in the process of the two of you figuring out what you want from each other. If it turns out that he wants to be with you then you got what you wanted, but if he remains with his girlfriend then you have to respect that and move on. One thing to think about though.....
If he leaves her for you, whose to say he won't leave you for someone else?
2006-09-12 17:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him as much as you say you do then you should straight out tell him that if he's interested in you and really want to be with you then he should break up with the other girl instead of messing around with you behind her back...it's not fair that the other girl thinks her man is all good when he's going behind her back and talking with another girl...just put it this way, if that were you would you want your man going behind your back and talking to other girls?...so if you want to be with this man then do it the right way and give him time to break up with his gf.
2006-09-12 17:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by lilsweetone619 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be flattered. You know why? Because if he's dogging his girlfriend out like that, and didn't bother telling you he was already taken, then he'd do the same to you. That should let you know how he feels about her, you, and probably all women. I'd stay away from that jerk. Not only is he not your's, but he's a dog.
2006-09-12 17:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Build a Bridge and Get Over It
2006-09-12 17:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if he cheated on his girl than what makes you think he won't do it on you. Becarful with that guy Ireally think he is not sincere. Boys are all the same they will bring down the stars and moon for you but beleve until you see. Have em' prove his love for you.
2006-09-12 17:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is going to tell you to run, to not do anything with him cause if he cheats on this new girl, then he would cheat on you. well guess what, what if its just the simple fact that he feels the same way about you. the fact that you put such an impression in his mind that he wants to be with you before all other girls. granted, he would have to leave the other girl first, or you are just looking at disaster. but if he does leave her for you, then you know what i said is true.
2006-09-12 17:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by cr4is2py0 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't pursue it .. he isn't worth it, stick to your morals and find someone that is single. I'm sure you will find someone will hold your interest and actually will make you forget this guy.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-12 17:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
who is the girlfriend? if it is someone you know then u should not really mess with him intill they break up but if u dont know this girl then flirt with him and get his attention on u then wait till his girl is right there and kiss or try to then she will get mad and break up with him and he will be all yours i hope u find away to get him back.
good luck
2006-09-12 17:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if they have been together 4 a long time let him go trust me , if they have been togethere for like to weeks fight back
2006-09-12 17:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by Peaches& Cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋