I cheated on a very special girl as it wasn't going well for a few months due to stress from both of us, we both knew there were problems but did not talk and we put on act in front of everyone. it was not planned and I let down my guard and got roped into a situation i could get out of, (my fault entirely not looking for sympathy!) I confessed that i cheated and talked in great depth , we finished but have started seeing each other as friends and are getting on as friends really well (the laughing, the fun, the pleaseure to be with is back!) I know i've betrayed her, lost her respect and that of her family who meant the world to me.
I know everybody says "once a cheat, always a cheat and you did it for a reason, but is this true and should i write this off entirely.
I care for but dont want to upset her.
has this worked for others and no i'm not generally a bad person, and could do without bitter girlfriends or wives with plenty to say.
I'm human, I have needs and feelings to
2006-09-10
03:20:15
·
13 answers
·
asked by
Dale H
2
in
Other - Family & Relationships