I have this guy friend who i have been friends since th 5th grade and i had this big crush on him..he was my 1st kiss and one og my bestfriends..but the worse part was he dated all my bestfriends or liked one of them but me...too this day i would have too say i still have fellings for him but i dont no if its all in my head or if i love him...should i tell him how i fell and how i felt for along time or just leav it and go on with my life
2006-09-10 03:18:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How could you tell him how you feel when your not really sure about your feelings for him? Analyze your feelings first then when your sure, tell him.
2006-09-10 03:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best boyfriends stem from being your best friend.
You are defintely jealous that he has dated some of your friends cause if it didn't bother you wouldn't be asking help about it. It is so to be crushing on someone for this long and not do
anything about it. It is also hard cause you guys are bestfriends and you see him everyday.
This is your time to sink or swim. You need to man up and tell him how you feel before some other girl gets his heart.
I think you need to tell him.
Yes you are totally head over heels in love with him.
2006-09-10 03:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know hoe old you are but love is a hard word to use. Alot of people mix love us with infatuation. I would not say any thing just yet. Get the feel of what he does with other women. Kind flirt with him a little but not to noticeable that he think your weired. If you end up dating don't tell him that you have like him for a long time. That leaves your heart wide open to get stomped on later.
2006-09-10 08:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont tell your feelings right away in front of him cause if he dosent feel the same way as u feel for him then he might feel embaressed to talk to u again...... but try some things to check if he also has same feelings for u for starters u can ask some question related to love and about urself to check and first check urself is it just infatuation or true love because acc. to the time u said u had crush on him is really a tender age......and after all if nothing works and ur mind keeps on repating the same name again and again then go telll him ur true feelings without thinking for future because it might be risk worth taking all he can say is no or yes...........
all the best.
2006-09-10 03:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this one-
# start avoiding him(not toooo much)
# he wud wanna know the reason, thus wud come after u
#put on the garb of having a very mysterious personality
#act as if u've better things in world to do, rather than being his frnd and caring 4 him!
#when the right time comes...............shoot
# tell him that u like him.......always had feelings for him, but was frustrated to see him with other girls, thus started avoiding him!
ALWAYS WORKS!
2006-09-10 03:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....yes.....yes.....u should tell him what do ya feel...after all he is your fren for that many years...don hesitate to express...
2006-09-10 03:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by preetam hegde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think you should do?
2006-09-10 03:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋