my sister is married for 1 years
and now his husband wants a baby
and she can't have a baby
and his husband told her about divorce
she was so sad
and now she is 22 years old
2006-09-10 03:29:07 · 12 answers · asked by john ss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i mean her husband
2006-09-10 03:36:41 · update #1
Did your sister tell her husband that she couldn't have kids, before they married? If so, he's totally wrong to fault her now. If she knew, but kept it a secret, her husband SHOUILD divorce her. If neither knew, they should consider adoption.
2006-09-10 04:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he not know she couldn't have kids before they got married..?
I think that was some vital information that should have been talked about. then or now.. If he knew he is just being darn selfish and shouldn't have went into a marriage in the first place. there are adoptions or taking care of kids that are abused by there parents for social services..
it isn't right for him to want a divorce just because she can't have kids..
don't sound like he is grown up enough to have them yet anyway..
or may be just an excuse because he found some one else.. I feel sorry for your sis.
good luck in her life..
2006-09-10 10:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said she can't have babies. Has she been tested. If there is a problem did the husband not know this before their marriage. If he did then he is a very selfish man. He accepted her like that and shoud stand by his wife.
Let them talk to someone about adoption. There a millions of kids that needs good families to adopt them.
Good luck and God bless.
2006-09-10 12:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to leave her husband right away i mean there are many people who cant have children but they have hope for years and they try also but here he dosent seem to understand i mean in just one year he wants a child and after hearing the news instead of consolling ur sister he is hurting her more......how can he be a good husband? i mean ur sis is still too young to face such an acute hurt it would be better to break away because he might torture her all his life for the same thing.....
2006-09-10 10:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by pree_thecoolest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that it the case - then divorce. If a husband does not respect or understand the wife plight. No use hanging on especially when both are still young.
2006-09-10 10:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is talking about divorce because she cant have a baby... well i would kick him out right now!!! he has no considreration for her feelings!! they could always adopt he sounds very selfish.... just be a good friend and offer some good advise.
2006-09-10 10:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says she can't have a baby? Are you sure? Tell her hubby that adoption is always an option as well as a surrogate.
2006-09-10 10:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not consistent. i didnt know your sis was a guy until now
2006-09-10 10:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by gweneth lynn paltfeir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you something
her husband is crazzy
and tell your sis to leave him
2006-09-10 11:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sister is a man????? is this the reason why she can not have a baby?
2006-09-10 11:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by alandicho 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋