Are 2 bad days in a marriage worth 10 good days?

Question

2-3 weeks everything is fine, then it seems like one little argument are disagreement will come between us. is it worth it for us to get into it?

Answer 1

I have been married for 6 years and we have had our share of disagreements. Only a few really bad fights, but it did help our marriage. I would have to say yes, 2 bad days are worth 10 good.
Every day we have to work on my marriage, to help it grow, or else it will die a little each day. My hubby and I have learned that communication is so big in our marriage and trust. We have gone through some hard times, but looking back, well, it was worth it. Just to learn and grow from our mistakes.
I love my hubby more every day and we are always looking for ways to help our marriage, make it grow and flourish.
Every married couple goes through some tension throughout their relationship. It is healthy and helps it to grow. The good most definetly outways the bad. For better or for worse.

Answer 2

marriage is for BETTER or WORSE. It seems to me there will be a little of both. If little arguments are plenty then there is probably some issue that was never really resolved between the both of you to a mutual satisfaction and it just takes a lil while for it surface again and again masked as insignificant problems. Maybe you are just have a power struggle between the two of you or perhaps there isn't enough intimacy which can lead to frustrations and an argument as asinine as the color of the sky. Do you love her truly? Do you want to live a life without her in it? Keep in mind women think with their hearts first and men reason first. Emotions will often run high for a woman from the onset. Good luck in deciding.

Answer 3

If you're not prepared for 2 out of 10, then you certainly are not ready for 72 out of 364.

Were the arguments about money? That's where most arguments start with married couples. And it's usually caused by one not making enough, or one not being able to manage money.

Were the arguments caused by jealousy. If so...run...run...run. Jealousy IMHO is the most dangerous emotion in a relationship.

Truthfully, the best answer I can give, is the same I gave my kids.

IF you like to sit on the couch on sunday morning, fart, drink beer and watch football. TELL THE OTHER person, that this is how it is going to be, and it will NOT change for anything or anyone. Then let them decide. If a person marries you thinking you can/will change. That is the recipe for divorce. But, I also advise them to understand that it is a 2 way street...make sure you can put up with the truely nasty habits of the other person.

Answer 4

Do you still love her? Is there something other then the arguing that has you thinking this? Also what is it you are fighting about?

Marriage is hard. You have 2 different people, who were raised differently and have different views on somethings. So, needless to say there are going to be arguments..now how many is up to the couple. As long as in the end you make up and you still love each other. As hard as it is I never go to bed angry with my husband, and I always tell him I Love him,

Answer 5

Married people argue and at times disagree and don't get along. It is actually HEALTHY... you've got to get things out. OF COURSE 2 bad days are worth 10 good ones!!

Answer 6

Marriage isn't all peaches and cream you will have arguments and days when you don't like each other, as long as you still love each other. Love is like the ocean there will be days with calm seas and others that are choppy and rough

Answer 7

Every married couple argues at times. It is really no big deal if you handle it correctly. As long as you don't make your arguements personal by calling each other names and degrading each other, then everything will be alright. You can always make up after you argue. :)

Answer 8

arguments are to make the marriage stronger so yes, it's worth it. you argue about something you move on.

Answer 9

nope

Answer 10

be patient