So last night my husband and I go to a concert at the bar. The night starts off rough, I never have anything to wear and take hours to get ready. Well we get to the bar and things get a little better, we are enjoying the music and having a good time. My friend shows up and grabs a seat with us.Next thing I know, my friend is saying oh look there is 'J'.Well my friend and 'J' are friends no big deal, 'J' and my hubby dated in highschool no big deal.Anyways my friend goes and talks to her. Then 'J' comes up to just say hi, they have already talked.Why are we saying hi again.It was very akward.The ex making it a point to come talk.Then leaves and goes to sit where she was to begin with.I see her in the restroom and she tells me she is so sorry my husband is an ******, and he should really lighten up.She must not know the rule: I can call him names you can't.I just went on and ignored her.No need to start something.How would you have dealt with it?
2006-09-10 03:32:55 · 6 answers · asked by fin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You showed a lot of self control. And that you are a lot more mature than she is. You did the right thing.
2006-09-10 03:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing you could of added hes not your problem . and smiled and walked away!!!
2006-09-10 03:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should fill her effen face with a whole can of mace
2006-09-10 03:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by Bombadier99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you handle it very well she is just jealous that you are with him and she blew it
2006-09-10 03:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by pebblez3868 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you did just fine ... i'd of done the same
2006-09-10 03:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like you did.......the mature way!!!
2006-09-10 03:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by rn.student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋